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i've looksmaxxed enough that women are willing to talk to me, but now i can't seem to get over my crippling social anxiety and autism
 
Yeah, you're talking about NT maxing. I have some experience with that, feel free to AMA
 
If she actually likes you, there's no specific way to talk.
 
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Talk to them in person.

Texting/calling/emailing/apps for logistics only.

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Bruh texting for hets. If you tryna fuck, you got to be a man and ask him in person.
 
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Pretty much irrelevant. Just use it to talk for a few lines then ask her out. You're not gonna fuck her through text so dont waste your time.
 
JFL we should all know this by now...

What you say to a woman does not matter. Your personality, "confidence", and speaking skills mean nothing. The only thing you are evaluated on is looks/height.

If you cannot get laid, it's not because you cannot text. It's because you're not good looking enough. Why do you think you have "social anxiety" OP? Because you were (and likely still are) ugly... it is not possible to have it otherwise unless you have a legitimate medical condition, which I am willing to gamble and say you don't.

Instead of looking for "help with texting", look to looksmax more or accept your subpar looks. This is the unfortunate truth.
 
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StormlitAqua said:
JFL we should all know this by now...

What you say to a woman does not matter. Your personality, "confidence", and speaking skills mean nothing. The only thing you are evaluated on is looks/height.

If you cannot get laid, it's not because you cannot text. It's because you're not good looking enough. Why do you think you have "social anxiety" OP? Because you were (and likely still are) ugly... it is not possible to have it otherwise unless you have a legitimate medical condition, which I am willing to gamble and say you don't.

Instead of looking for "help with texting", look to looksmax more or accept your subpar looks. This is the unfortunate truth.
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lol I fuxxed yo mama
 
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go to good looking loser to get u started. just google it brehs
 
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FatmanO said:
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There are three basic ways to become more NT. These are what work the best IMO.

1. Attend more socal events, make it a point to speak with everyone you know, and at least one person you don't

2. Join a club or class and become good friends with at least one person there. Good friends meaning you go out to eat with them, attend their B-Day party, stuff like that.

3. When speaking with others, pretend like you're on a TV show. Would the people watching be entertained? Confused? This forces you to think about the effects of what you say, in the hopes of indentifying bad patterns in your speech.
 
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Tricky said:
When speaking with others, pretend like you're on a TV show. Would the people watching be entertained? Confused? This forces you to think about the effects of what you say, in the hopes of indentifying bad patterns in your speech.
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Wouldn‘t that increase your anxiety? I kind of remember how I tried to focus on my speech, but I got even more nervous and started stuttering
 
Felix97 said:
Wouldn‘t that increase your anxiety? I kind of remember how I tried to focus on my speech, but I got even more nervous and started stuttering
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I'm at a point where I don't have that issue. For people with more extreme anxiety, I would encourage them to build up confidence and do whatever they can to just speak with others, rather than follow the third step. Just because it works for me doesn't mean it'll work for everyone
 
Tricky said:
There are three basic ways to become more NT. These are what work the best IMO.

1. Attend more socal events, make it a point to speak with everyone you know, and at least one person you don't

2. Join a club or class and become good friends with at least one person there. Good friends meaning you go out to eat with them, attend their B-Day party, stuff like that.

3. When speaking with others, pretend like you're on a TV show. Would the people watching be entertained? Confused? This forces you to think about the effects of what you say, in the hopes of indentifying bad patterns in your speech.
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I dont have a problem with that, I thought you had a texting guide. Im very introverted NT, I learned it from when I was fat so I had to be funny to play my odds.
 
FatmanO said:
I dont have a problem with that, I thought you had a texting guide. Im very introverted NT, I learned it from when I was fat so I had to be funny to play my odds.
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Texting isn't that hard. Just don't say anything important over text. Casual stuff only. If it's important, either call them or speak to them in person
 
Tricky said:
Texting isn't that hard. Just don't say anything important over text. Casual stuff only. If it's important, either call them or speak to them in person
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never text much, only really necessary things. Remember: Chad answers with "ok" "lol" "right" and so on
 
Tricky said:
Texting isn't that hard. Just don't say anything important over text. Casual stuff only. If it's important, either call them or speak to them in person
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What about texting for logistics? Or is casual texting fine?
 
The best advice about texting is you want to text the least amount of time. It should be 3-5 texts before you plan to meet up. The only exception is if that leads to snapchat were she teases you before meeting up.
 
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