Cant fraud NT its over

[cell0xide]

Yesterday I invited some people who I thought were my friends over to my cottage since we all hadn't seen each other in a while, and All of them ghosted me except one girl who said she was camping. The most suifuel part is that the only girl I wanted unadded me jfl. I thought it was going well lol, but
Anyway it's
time to lay down and die.
Today I spent all day long thinking about the ghosting and I was just working on autopilot. At one point I got lost in thought, thinking about how I'm nobody's favorite person. It goes beyond just being somebody's number 1, I'm not even anyone's number 2 or 3. Nobody wakes up and thinks about me as they go about their day, they just see me and then remember I exist. All the self improvement and social skills I've acquired are meaningless. There is no path forward. No matter how much I engage with people, they already have their best friends and their circles.

 

[ItsOver999]

Dnrd

 

[Tabula Rasa]

The popularity pill destroyed me

 

[Schizomogger]

I may not experience this but I feel for you brother

 

[Deleted member 39427]

Yesterday I invited some people who I thought were my friends over to my cottage since we all hadn't seen each other in a while, and All of them ghosted me except one girl who said she was camping. The most suifuel part is that the only girl I wanted unadded me jfl. I thought it was going well lol, but
Anyway it's
time to lay down and die.
Today I spent all day long thinking about the ghosting and I was just working on autopilot. At one point I got lost in thought, thinking about how I'm nobody's favorite person. It goes beyond just being somebody's number 1, I'm not even anyone's number 2 or 3. Nobody wakes up and thinks about me as they go about their day, they just see me and then remember I exist. All the self improvement and social skills I've acquired are meaningless. There is no path forward. No matter how much I engage with people, they already have their best friends and their circles.

You have to articulate yourself in a non NT way. Its not about what you say its how you say it

 

[SubSigma]

I experienced this my whole life. The only thing that really changed it was when I leanmaxxed and started taking ssris. 90% of being nt is not what you say, but how you say it.

 

[try2beme]

Ull find your people, it isnt them

 

[Deleted member 32529]

i get you bro

even when I had a good solid friend group for years, who I had many key/core moments with in teen years, and I was well liked within the group, when it got down to it they still p much all chose too stay friends with my ex over me.

brutal period innit

 

[Deleted member 26642]

Don't be like me nigga I've accepted and talk to nobody ever now