casual sex is so useless I just want to be loved

[Hueless]

Its sad to have such cucked thoughts but we know u cant help it

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Low t cumskin
Getting laid is all that matters
Log out and never come back

 

[190cm90kg]

slaying whores knowing they have bf/orbiter feels like life on cheatmode. u have a brain parasite for believing in bullshit like romance

 

[GrowthReaper]

I want to ask you something.... are you religious?

agnostic, but I'm also pretty spiritual

 

[GrowthReaper]

are you dumb? just LTR a girl you like and low-key slay on the side. only focusing on slaying is just as stupid as only seeking a LTR.

got to mix it, otherwise you're missing out.

the problem is that girls don't want to LTR me (and most of the times I don't want to LTR them either), they only want a hookup

 

[Deleted member 7580]

girls only see prettyboys as hookups. Only medium guys ltr @Biggdink

3.5 seems to be max psl for relationships

 

[GrowthReaper]

slaying whores knowing they have bf/orbiter feels like life on cheatmode. u have a brain parasite for believing in bullshit like romance

it feels good the first couple of times. Sad to know you think like this, my man

 

[GrowthReaper]

are you dumb? just LTR a girl you like and low-key slay on the side. only focusing on slaying is just as stupid as only seeking a LTR.

got to mix it, otherwise you're missing out.

"just find a girl you like bro"

That's the hard part bro, and the ones I do like turn out to be fucking whores with no plans of LTRs

 

[GrowthReaper]

You said in a comment you're 18. If that's true then shut the fuck up, you're literally so young you've barely experienced life yet. If you really desire a serious relationship you have the rest of your teens + 20s to find it. But tbh this whole post comes off as a poorly veiled bragging attempt.

leave it to an incel to think having sex is a brag lmao

 

[Corleone]

"just find a girl you like bro"

That's the hard part bro, and the ones I do like turn out to be fucking whores with no plans of LTRs

can't relate to your experience, bro.

what kind of girls are you sleeping with that don't start to develop feelings after you slept with them a couple of times? where do you meet them? how do you get to fuck them in the first place?

90% of girls i slept multiple times with, at some point, started to tell me that they wanted something more than just casual hook-ups. it is their biological instinct to get attached after a while.

 

[GrowthReaper]

I cried listening to 'glimpse of us' today so we are in a similar boat. Shits rough

holy shit bro I feel understood, thank you

 

[GrowthReaper]

what kind of girls are you sleeping with that don't start to develop feelings after you slept with them a couple of times? where do you meet them? how do you get to fuck them in the first place?

Mostly girls from my school. Also from dating apps like yubo but I'm not expecting LTRs from those.

Usually I don't really want to get with them more than 1 or 2 times, so it doesn't get to that anyway, but it's clear from the start their intentions are to hu and not create a connection.

I've been having a FWB with a girl in my group of friends for like a year and she has made it clear to me several times that she doesn't want a relationship + she wants it to be a secret (it still is). Though once a girl in my school DM'ed me, we started talking and shit, she asked me out and we went on 3 dates, she was in the same boat as me, wanted an LTR. We only kissed on the 3rd date and I was happy asf but she started acting weird and pretty much ghosted me, and no it's not because I'm a bad kisser lol

 

[Corleone]

Though once a girl in my school DM'ed me, we started talking and shit, she asked me out and we went on 3 dates, she was in the same boat as me, wanted an LTR. We only kissed on the 3rd date and I was happy asf but she started acting weird and pretty much ghosted me, and no it's not because I'm a bad kisser lol

easy fix, bro. no wonder the girls don't want a LTR if you only fuck them 2-3times max.

Fix:
#1: fuck them as early as possible, the longer you spent with dates/kissing etc. before the first sex, the more time you give them to find something that bothers or bores them and gives them a chance to call off the building relationship

#2: if you like them with post-nut clarity aka just talking to them, having them around, which can be rare (most girls are annoying and retarded) make sure to fuck them as often as possible and cuddle with them naked for a few minutes afterward. even if you are a bit bored of them and would rather fuck a new slut, which is way more exciting.

#3: they'll start seeking a relationship

#4: get into the relationship

#5: lowkey cheat on the side, make sure not to get caught

 

[Gargamel]

Niggas here still think slaying is worthwhile

Find a good becky that will worship you and love you. It's the best thing for a man tbh

Of course, this site is all about looks and mogging but honestly once you touch grass, you realize the world is so much bigger.

Having a healthy relationship with your friends, family, and partner is all that matters.

I'm pretty sure you are going for brainwashed tiktok whores that have no self-awareness or goals.

 

[GrowthReaper]

easy fix, bro. no wonder the girls don't want a LTR if you only fuck them 2-3times max.

I only get with them a few times because they're boring as fuck. Those aren't the ones I want an LTR with

#2: if you like them with post-nut clarity aka just talking to them, having them around, which can be rare (most girls are annoying and retarded) make sure to fuck them as often as possible and cuddle with them naked for a few minutes afterward. even if you are a bit bored of them and would rather fuck a new slut, which is way more exciting.

The main issue at hand is finding a girl who I like even with post-nut clarity lol

 

[Xangsane]

easy fix, bro. no wonder the girls don't want a LTR if you only fuck them 2-3times max.

Fix:
#1: fuck them as early as possible, the longer you spent with dates/kissing etc. before the first sex, the more time you give them to find something that bothers or bores them and gives them a chance to call off the building relationship

#2: if you like them with post-nut clarity aka just talking to them, having them around, which can be rare (most girls are annoying and retarded) make sure to fuck them as often as possible and cuddle with them naked for a few minutes afterward. even if you are a bit bored of them and would rather fuck a new slut, which is way more exciting.

#3: they'll start seeking a relationship

#4: get into the relationship

#5: lowkey cheat on the side, make sure not to get caught

@GrowthReaper don't listen to this advice, it's toxic for the other side.

I'll give you some advice:

1. Pull back for a while and find some hobbies to fill the void.
2. Avoid dating apps like the plague.
3. Try and date from within your social circle or networking. Girls may be more inclined for an LTR at your age has t way rather than dating apps where they may be more immature.
4. Go for quality over quantity. Only go on dates with girls you can envision being in an LTR with. Don't jump into sex too quickly.
5. Be monogamous.
6. If you have to date multiple girls at once, don't get too physical or romantic with them too soon. Keep things friendly with them and take time to know them. Doing thr former will make them feel attached and you would run the risk of more than one girl doing so.
7. Cut things off early with other girls if you can't see an LTR.
8. Don't have sex with multiple girls, just the one you really really like and can see a future with.
9. BE MONOGAMOUS!

 

[Corleone]

@GrowthReaper don't listen to this advice, it's toxic for the other side.

I'll give you some advice:

1. Pull back for a while and find some hobbies to fill the void.
2. Avoid dating apps like the plague.
3. Try and date from within your social circle or networking. Girls may be more inclined for an LTR at your age has t way rather than dating apps where they may be more immature.
4. Go for quality over quantity. Only go on dates with girls you can envision being in an LTR with. Don't jump into sex too quickly.
5. Be monogamous.
6. If you have to date multiple girls at once, don't get too physical or romantic with them too soon. Keep things friendly with them and take time to know them. Doing thr former will make them feel attached and you would run the risk of more than one girl doing so.
7. Cut things off early with other girls if you can't see an LTR.
8. Don't have sex with multiple girls, just the one you really really like and can see a future with.
9. BE MONOGAMOUS!

bro, no offense, you had 2 girlfriends and barely any sexual experience.

those unicorns you're describing rarely exist. And if they do, he'll do himself a disservice to stay celibate until he meets one of the rare ones. who says that he'll succeed in even getting them to commit once he finds one.

even the good-girls are into bad-boys. so better for him to stay slaying, be interesting, and then turn a slay into a relationship if the girl is of high enough quality.

 

[Xangsane]

bro, no offense, you had 2 girlfriends

*1. I'm currently seeing a girl I want to turn into my gf and wife but there needs to be more vetting.

and barely any sexual experience.

What do you count as sexually experienced?

those unicorns you're describing rarely exist. And if they do, he'll do himself a disservice to stay celibate until he meets one of the rare ones. who says that he'll succeed in even getting them to commit once he finds one.

even the good-girls are into bad-boys. so better for him to stay slaying, be interesting, and then turn a slay into a relationship if the girl is of high enough quality.

Your advice was pretty bad either way, no offence. Feelings could be hurt, reputation could plummet.

 

[HerpDerpson]

Love is attraction, you can't be loved if you're not physically attractive. So people who can't get casual sex can't be moved either.

 

[Corleone]

Your advice was pretty bad either way, no offence. Feelings could be hurt, reputation could plummet.

he wondered why the girls he sleeps with didn't want to stay around to form a relationship with him. so i told him how to change that, and it works for me and countless other guys.

Hell, I have FWBs of 2+ years that still cry about wanting a relationship with me but can't let go. The power-dynamics are totally different if you are a chooser instead of a giver.

 

[Xangsane]

he wondered why the girls he sleeps with didn't want to stay around to form a relationship with him. so i told him how to change that, and it works for me and countless other guys.

Hell, I have FWBs of 2+ years that still cry about wanting a relationship with me but can't let go. The power-dynamics are totally different if you are a chooser instead of a giver.

Your advice is toxic for the other side.

 

[Corleone]

Your advice is toxic for the other side.

but it works.