NitoRump
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Austin Dunham actually cooked with this one.
People here have the warped reality that if you're a Chad you will have girls approaching you and you won't need to do anything at all and have absolutely zero game and you still will be drowning in pussy.
Especially if the guy is the full package, great face, tall, jacked physique etc. women are especially intimidated and will become insecure as fuck and way too scared to make the approach. You will see girls admiring chad from a distance or chit chatting with their friends about him but never go up to the guy.
The only ones who would approach are girls way below his looks level who don't care even if they are rejected as they know chad is way out of their league.
Most women, ESPECIALLY good looking ones have fragile little egos that would be absolutely shattered to pieces if they approach Chad and he rejects them.
And Austin Dunham is right, its more on the Chad to go and approach the girl, and make her comfortable, lowering the intimidation level that comes with him naturally.
The guys you see get approached most often are some skinny tiktok prettyboy with fringe haircuts, but actual tall, jacked and more masculine Chads are almost never approached, their intimidation level for both men and women is too high.
Imagine a prime stacy walking in the room, of course most men are naturally nervous to go approach. Now couple that with the intimidation factor that comes from a built guy's physical presence and imagine how that would make a woman feel.
Point of my post is no matter how good looking you become, even more so you still need to make the approach and have decent game. None of this PUA game shit these geeks teach, but actual conversational skills to make the woman feel more comfortable around you at first.