Cold approaching solo this weekend

[DoctorLooksmax]

Damn thats rough. I can still do 10 drinks easily. But the 20-30 like i used to get me too fucked up now

tbh the reason i feel depressed today is probably the extreme amount of negative reinfrocement I exposed myself to last night rather than the 3 beers I had

 

[fukmylyf]

tbh the reason i feel depressed today is probably the extreme amount of negative reinfrocement I exposed myself to last night rather than the 3 beers I had

thats why cold approaching is a bad idea in ur case

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

thats why cold approaching is a bad idea in ur case

if i dont do it ill be incel-

inceldom destorys my mental health
rejection also destroy my mental health

I cannot win

 

[fukmylyf]

if i dont do it ill be incel-

inceldom destorys my mental health
rejection also destroy my mental health

I cannot win

the tables have been turned. Now u are my patient

 

[Deleted member 2268]

What’s autism about it?

It seems like the NT thing to do is just stand in a circle with your mates drinking not talking to any girls

Yup that’s what the normies do. They are coping hard JFL

 

[Deleted member 2268]

if i dont do it ill be incel-

inceldom destorys my mental health
rejection also destroy my mental health

I cannot win

Why do you care about rejection? Lot T trait tbh

 

[Deleted member 2268]

so what am I meant to then?

you said cold approaching is aspie so you suggest just LDARing as an alternative?

I think he means that you seem a bit uptight and too autistic. You need to relax and just enjoy talking to the girls and be aggressive. Have fun when you’re doing it

 

[the BULL]

bro you have 0 fucking game. you don't need to jestermaxx but you just are so vague
they know perfectly why you're talking to them, go straight to the point

 

[MoggerGaston]

if i dont do it ill be incel-

inceldom destorys my mental health
rejection also destroy my mental health

I cannot win

I feel you man. Its why i dont go clubbing anymore.

Ill approach 5-10 girls, go home alone and feel extremely depressed. Now i only go to places where i can enjoy the music and vibe. Dont have to focus on women

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I feel you man. Its why i dont go clubbing anymore.

Ill approach 5-10 girls, go home alone and feel extremely depressed. Now i only go to places where i can enjoy the music and vibe. Dont have to focus on women

me and you are both classic looks purgatory victims- true sigmas

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

1 other intereaction I had I forgot to mention- it wasnt wiht a foid but was kinda funny

I stepped outside the smoking area of the first bar after the brunnete girl rejected me- saw some guy standing alone in the smoking area and went and chatted to him. He said he was out alone too so at this point i figured he could maybe be friend and we could approach together even though he was like 30. I asked him where he was from and he said he was half italian half irish, then he asked me if i wanted to buy coke off him lol. Got kinda sad cos i thought he was actually being friendly to me but turned oout he just wanted to seel me drugs.

 

[LightSkinNoob]

brutal. I can't wrap my head around that tbh OP is GL.

Me neither, wtf is going on

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Me neither, wtf is going on

it might be that I was out alone- I felt like i was solid around 80th percentile looks in the places I went.

Maybe im overrating myself still but i think im being accurate

many men i mogged were making out with girls i found cute

 

[LightSkinNoob]

it might be that I was out alone- I felt like i was solid around 80th percentile looks in the places I went.

Maybe im overrating myself still but i think im being accurate

many men i mogged were making out with girls i found cute

Lots of guys go out with their girlfriends, I don’t why they do this but they do.

Maybe try approaching girls to join you on the dance floor.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Lots of guys go out with their girlfriends, I don’t why they do this but they do.

Maybe try approaching girls to join you on the dance floor.

my experiences approaching on the dancefloor were absolutely brutal-

actually out on the streets and in the smoking area girls were a lot nicer and even had some positivie interactions.

I think next time I will jsut not even try on the dancefloor only try and chat to girls in the smoking area and bring them to dancefloor with me after

only small negative of this is i kind of have to smoke to make it easier to chat to girls outside but having like 3 or 4 cigs on a night out is probs negligibile impact on collagen etc given i go out like once a month

 

[fukmylyf]

it might be that I was out alone- I felt like i was solid around 80th percentile looks in the places I went.

Maybe im overrating myself still but i think im being accurate

many men i mogged were making out with girls i found cute

yes, u lack status and social skills. And worse yet, ur in denial about it.

only small negative of this is i kind of have to smoke to make it easier to chat to girls outside but having like 3 or 4 cigs on a night out is probs negligibile impact on collagen etc given i go out like once a month

see what i mean, autism. How do u think ur NT when u unironically say shit like this? Or comments like "taking my nose job out for a test drive." JFL bro. And I notice u only listen to ppl that confirm ur beliefs. So whats the answer if ur chad

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

yes, u lack status and social skills. And worse yet, ur in denial about it.


see what i mean, autism. How do u think ur NT when u unironically say shit like this? Or comments like "taking my nose job out for a test drive." JFL bro. And I notice u only listen to ppl that confirm ur beliefs. So whats the answer if ur chad

80th percentile looks is not a chad

 

[infini]

I was just looking at cars passing by for like 10 minutes because their headlights looked so damn good and trippy. Had a great experience.

feels good to zone out after working out and watch the world go by, practice intimidating and ioimaxxing.

 

[treveo]

Went out alone both friday and saturday- results were well to be honestly mostly shit but im gonna break down by interactions by the night for you guys so you can JFL at me

Friday:

-Just finished watching the world cup, im chilling with @LowTrust on discord making some morphs having a beer to low inhib max before I go out. At around 10pm I hit the streets.

-First I stop off at a smoking area of bar nearby me- some guy starts chatting to me quite quickly, he tells me hes been suffering from anxiety and this is his first night out in 2 years cos of how rough hes felt- Brutal! After chatting a bit more he offers me his phone number and says in 4 weeks time hes parents are away and I can stay at his house in manchester and we can go on a night out together. I say yeah sounds cool but honestly I probably wont take up the offer cos im worried he might be a fag trying to rapemax me. But it felt good to get warmed up speaking to someone and now it was on to chat to some actual foids.

-My main approaching tactic is just going up to girls on the street asking if they have a lighter- this priobably wouldve worked well a decade ago when more young girls smoke but now barely any do they all vape or just dont consume any nicotine products. I am brutally cucked by elf bars.

-Anyway approach a few girls on the street adking for lighters, all say they dont have any and most are walking opposite direction to me when approaching so its hard to make anything of the interaction

-I decide to approach a girl at the cashpoint, a pair of girls standing in front of me one is a whale, one is a kinda cute mtb with braces. I ask the girls for a lighter, they say no but the girls like 'oh I don't smoke you know' and turns around to make eye contact with me. The girl starts taking a load of snapchat selfies so I say 'oh do you need a photographer then', shes like 'no thanks babe its just the reverse camera does me no favours', I say 'oh its the same for me it the lens distortion'. It this point I feel the interaction going pretty well she asks he where im going tonight and asks if Im going to the same club as she is- I shouldve said yes tbh but didnt wanna come across as desperate guy out alone with no friends so i was like muh i have my own plans somehwere elese but then i got her isntagram and she actually messaged me- im still talking to her now so maybe she'll meet me next weekend but she will probably get bored agfter like 3 days of texting and just stop replying to me- thats how it usually works anyway.

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heres her actual messages to me on instagram- she thoguth i looked 17 which is giga lifefuel.


-Approached a bit tits goth looking girl and she had a lighter but I couldnt really push the convo much further since she turned her back to me after lighting my cig and basically gave me negative body language with the whole 'dont you fucking dare approach me' vibe.

-anyway I did a few more approaches but nothing of much note happened, but when I was slaking down the street a 50 year manlet curry with a pajeet accent came up to me and asked me if I would accompany him into PRZYM (a club) cos they wouldnt let him in alone. I was tempted to say yes and then jsut ditch him as soon as I was inside and do my own approaches but i was worried he was trying to non-consent some girls in there since he was a turbo subhuman with no chance of pussy so I said no. If he had just been a LTN i wouldve said yes.

-After this I called it a night- firdays pretty quiet in my city and saturdays a lot more bustling so I was encouraged by these results and figured if I went out again the next night I could do much better sicne there would be so much more footfall it would be easier to approach and I coudl have more success (spoiler:I didnt).





Saturday night:

-To warm up for the night, I was chatting to @ReadBooksEveryday on discord

-Had just one beer and hit the streets, it was much busier than the previous night as is normal where I live, I began approaching a few girls on the steets asking for lighters but nothing went anywhre.

-Since the bars were way more rammed tonight I figured id try doing some approaches inside as well. I stood outside the usual bar Ive tryed this at before and tryed to make conversation with some random late 20s lads, they werent super friendly tbh but it made me look like I wasnt alone before i went to show my ID to the bouncers so I could get in.

-Got inside the bar, had a little scout out around the place, the quality of girls was pretty decent, the gender ratio wasnt too bad either, close to 50/50, maybe slgithy more men than women but not bad at all for nightlife venue, lots of cuties too, I saw one RTT mogger but other than that I felt like i either mogged most men or was roughly on par with them- I was feeling optimistic.

-I headed upstairs to the main dancefloor area, some guy I walked past stopped me and told me i was 'built like a brick shithouse', I thanked him and said he looked built himself, he said 'nah mate im just fat as fuck', then I told him he had a good frame and should be thankful cos frame cannot be changed whereas he could simply build muslce and lean down then mog me. He said to me 'go out there a pull mate youre looking good'.

-After this I approached a blonde MTB, she chatted to me for a little bit but was extremley plutonic and didn't give me really any positive body language or IOI so I left her be after just a few minutes

-I approached a short spanish looking girl with glasses who was slightly chubby with big tits, not my usual type but shed jsut entered the venue so i figures strike while the iron is hot- I went up to her and said 'hey hows your night going'- she looked at me as if id just spat on her grandmothers grave. she looked back at me point blank but didn't say anything in response to my question- it was like she was disgusted I had even dared try and talk to her.

-I was a little bit wounded from the fact a slightly chubby girl rejected me in such a brutal manner- so even though I had planned to just drink the one beer that night, I went to the bar and bought a tequilla shot to numb the pain- shot down, back to the dancefloor and time to approach again.

-I saw a pair of girls , one fat one, one slim cute brunnete- probs MTB, I approached the slim brunette asking her how her nights going, she told me to go away, didnt even want to entertain my presence.

-After 3 approaches in the bar I decided to fuck it off because I literally had better results chatting to girls on the street.

-I start walking again, see a cute blonde girl who looked familiar with a teeny tiny waist standing by herself and ask her for a ligher- she says she didnt have one I thought about maybe trying to continue the convo from there cos her body language seemed positive which i thought was maybe a half IOI but I was feeling so low energy from the brutality id experienced in the club so didnt pursue it further.

-A bit later I remember why this girl looked familiar, she had matched me on hinge and actually first messaged me but then randomly stopped replying to me after like a day, based on this she probably was giving me an IOI so i kind of fucked this one.

-I asked another group of girls- one stopped and said yes , chatted to her for a bit but she ran off with her friends pretty quickly.

-Decided to hit up another bar- I was on my last ciggarette so knew the night was nearly over, I asked a group of girls outside the bar for a light, they gave me one but then turned away and carried on talking in a circle and all turned their backs to me so I gave up.

-Went into the bar- saw another RTTmaxxed love island guy who girls were giving bait IOIs too, some middle aged woman tryed to dance with me and I kept trying to soft reject her by turning away but she was really persistent, I left soon after this cos I felt done for the night and that was about all that happened.

tagging:

@GamerCel @LowTrust @PrinceLuenLeoncur @gymmaxedhorse @forevergymcelling @Chadethnic101 @alriodai @6ft4 @ReadBooksEveryday

Good effort dude…but the ‘I need a lighter line’ is a bit of a drag.

 

[infini]

This is extremely bad. Why the fuck would you approach girls indirectly asking for lighter that makes you seem like a pussy. Guys with balls go up to girls and just introduce themselves.

You have to be very sexual at night. Touch the girl, go for a makeout, ask her to come back to your place. I have over 30 night game slays so I know how this works. Most girls at night are out with their friends you have to find the DTF ones.

You have to approach atleast 10-15 girls per night if you want any kind of consistent results.

You can’t take stuff personally if a girl says no just talk to another one.

We’re you getting a lot of IOIs? Usually when I walk into a bar I get a ton of IOIs but that’s due to height and physique. Tall jacked RTT guys perform really well at bars and clubs

It's either compliment or get complimented right? there's a fine line between aggression and simping

80th percentile looks is not a chad

FaceAndLMS said Chad is 8 plus. Best to not bother arguing with it. Nice avi also but feel like I'm not supposed to.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

80th percentile looks is not a chad

You are a HTN

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Good effort dude…but the ‘I need a lighter line’ is a bit of a drag.

What would you suggest as an alternative ?

 

[New Poster]

If you'really going to approach, ask them back to your place at least. You will learn soon enough that numbers mean nothing.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Ch

If you'really going to approach, ask them back to your place at least. You will learn soon enough that numbers mean nothin

Chances or a girl going home with a normie she just met are close to 0. But if you swap instas and meet her another time you have a much better chance of a slay

 

[New Poster]

You are a HTN

Ch


Chances or a girl going home with a normie she just met are close to 0. But if you swap instas and meet her another time you have a much better chance of a slay

It''s the exact opposite

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

It''s the exact opposite

Where do you live?

In the UK it doesn’t work like this

 

[New Poster]

Where do you live?

In the UK it doesn’t work like this

I'm in california, but I'm 100% sure if I got on a BA flight over to whatever shithole you live in I could get laid two hours after wheels touch down. I've been doing this for nearly a decade. Women are women.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I'm in california, but I'm 100% sure if I got on a BA flight over to whatever shithole you live in I could get laid two hours after wheels touch down. I've been doing this for nearly a decade. Women are women.

I knew you’d be American as soon as you responded to me

Nightlife culture in the UK and actually most of Western Europe is very different

It’s incredibly rare for girls to go home with a stranger they just met

 

[Deleted member 2268]

It''s the exact opposite

What’s your bodycount don’t give advice if you have zero results

 

[Deleted member 2268]

It''s the exact opposite

My bad I just read your comment. Yeah you have to take girls home the same night

 

[Deleted member 2268]

If you'really going to approach, ask them back to your place at least. You will learn soon enough that numbers mean nothing.

Yup

 

[Deleted member 2268]

What would you suggest as an alternative ?

Introduce yourself like a normal person JFL

 

[New Poster]

I knew you’d be American as soon as you responded to me

Nightlife culture in the UK and actually most of Western Europe is very different

It’s incredibly rare for girls to go home with a stranger they just met

It''s probably not that rare, and in no universe are women going to be more attracted to men on social media than irl. You cuck yourself into oblivion by not escalating in person. On top of that, no one wants to go through the extra steps of setting up and going on a date. You go from having perfect logistics irl to introducing this separate event that you have sit through before you can possibly escalate. You're destroying your own chances by putting all these additional obstacles between you and sex. Even more, all attractive girls are in relationships. The only way to peel them off other guys is to escalate in the moment. They're not going out with you on a date.

The only reason you think this is fear. Escalating is scary if you're insecure, so you need a million iois and a full on date before you feel comfortable. Unfortunately, you nuke your own chances along the way.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

It''s probably not that rare, and in no universe are women going to be more attracted to men on social media than irl. You cuck yourself into oblivion by not escalating in person. On top of that, no one wants to go through the extra steps of setting up and going on a date. You go from having perfect logistics irl to introducing this separate event that you have sit through before you can possibly escalate. You're destroying your own chances by putting all these additional obstacles between you and sex. Even more, all attractive girls are in relationships. The only way to peel them off other guys is to escalate in the moment. They're not going out with you on a date.

The only reason you think this is fear. Escalating is scary if you're insecure, so you need a million iois and a full on date before you feel comfortable. Unfortunately, you nuke your own chances along the way.

@forevergymcelling @PrinceLuenLeoncur @FailedNormieManlet back me up on this one

You cannot bring a girl home the night you meet them in the UK- you have to get their instagram and then meet them another time ideally like the next weekend I guess.

 

[New Poster]

@forevergymcelling @PrinceLuenLeoncur @FailedNormieManlet back me up on this one

You cannot bring a girl home the night you meet them in the UK- you have to get their instagram and then meet them another time ideally like the next weekend I guess.

You're coping in a self destructive way

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You're coping in a self destructive way

Well I have a dozen slays since the start of 2022 and some were pretty hot + my face is normie so I’m doing something right at least.

I’ll stick to what I’ve found gets the best results for me, while continuing to experiment and di what feels natural in the moment and you do you

 

[New Poster]

Well I have a dozen slays since the start of 2022 and some were pretty hot + my face is normie so I’m doing something right at least.

I’ll stick to what I’ve found gets the best results for me, while continuing to experiment and di what feels natural in the moment and you do you

Fair enough

 

[treveo]

What would you suggest as an alternative ?

I’d think on my feet…the line will be different with each girl….something situational. For me example…if she’s wearing cool trainers or a fur coat…use that an an opener.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I’d think on my feet…the line will be different with each girl….something situational. For me example…if she’s wearing cool trainers or a fur coat…use that an an opener.

That’s actually a good suggestion rather than just always using the lighter excuse- however I do think the lighter is a nice back up it you’re stuck or a beginner to approaching like me

 

[treveo]

That’s actually a good suggestion rather than just always using the lighter excuse- however I do think the lighter is a nice back up it you’re stuck or a beginner to approaching like me

Use the lighter line as a follow up to your compliment or observation about her…she’ll be invested more.

Looking forward to your next report.

 

[LowTrust]

That’s actually a good suggestion rather than just always using the lighter excuse- however I do think the lighter is a nice back up it you’re stuck or a beginner to approaching like me

just be extremely low inhib talk to everyone create a cool and likeable presence then when you talk to a girl it will appear extremely NT rather than a little boy asking his crush out for the first time