Confidence tips

[PrimeMisael]

I have to attend a banquet and as i mentioned in my first ever post im veru timid but since this is supposed to be my "special day" im supposed to talk to people but i habe no clue what to do and how to communicate with people i dont know how to do small talks and this is a 3 hour long banquet i have to keep people entertained so i was hoping you guys had tips on how to not get scared while talking or on how to talk to people overall.

PS: its for my end of my wrestling season if that's important

 

[truecel9]

I have to attend a banquet and as i mentioned in my first ever post im veru timid but since this is supposed to be my "special day" im supposed to talk to people but i habe no clue what to do and how to communicate with people i dont know how to do small talks and this is a 3 hour long banquet i have to keep people entertained so i was hoping you guys had tips on how to not get scared while talking or on how to talk to people overall.

PS: its for my end of my wrestling season if that's important

shit bro you just gotta accept that your fucked

 

[PrimeMisael]

shit bro you just gotta accept that your fucked

fuckk is there genuinely nothing i can do i have an hour left to practice

 

[truecel9]

fuckk is there genuinely nothing i can do i have an hour left to practice

If you dont run meds there is nothing that can save you

 

[PrimeMisael]

shii i can take an extra dose of my adhd med will that help?

 

[idontlikemyself6]

I have to attend a banquet and as i mentioned in my first ever post im veru timid but since this is supposed to be my "special day" im supposed to talk to people but i habe no clue what to do and how to communicate with people i dont know how to do small talks and this is a 3 hour long banquet i have to keep people entertained so i was hoping you guys had tips on how to not get scared while talking or on how to talk to people overall.

PS: its for my end of my wrestling season if that's important

say you’re sick last second

 

[PrimeMisael]

say you’re sick last second

i tried but my mom found out i was lying

 

[PrimeMisael]

okay so i got home like 10 minutes ago and i guess it went fine i didnt end up taking extra meds but my mom told me if i behave and at least pretend like i wanted to be there then she would buy me whatever i want so i went on youtube and practiced conversations and small talk but i didnt really have to do anything everyone kind of just started talking to me and from there i guess i just said to myself that if i literally just forget about it it wont be as bad n it worked.

PS:i did not end up ruining the fun like i thaught i would

 

[botchedbytufano]

okay so i got home like 10 minutes ago and i guess it went fine i didnt end up taking extra meds but my mom told me if i behave and at least pretend like i wanted to be there then she would buy me whatever i want so i went on youtube and practiced conversations and small talk but i didnt really have to do anything everyone kind of just started talking to me and from there i guess i just said to myself that if i literally just forget about it it wont be as bad n it worked.

PS:i did not end up ruining the fun like i thaught i would

get evaluated, shouldn't be scared to talk to people especially who are coming to congratulate you

 

[PrimeMisael]

get evaluated, shouldn't be scared to talk to people especially who are coming to congratulate you

i know i shouldnt but for some reason whenever i try to speak it feels as if im choking the words just dont come out and im extremely insecure so that just makes everything 10x worse since it feels like everyone is judging me even when its to congratulate and also it just felt overwhelming since it was super crowded, taking a bite of my food felt like everyone was watching me in disgust.