Confidence

[mentalmaxxing]

How can I improve my confidence? I'm hyper ND and every time I watch clav videos i relate to him so much, my social anxiety is so high im stressing in school while just walking in corridor. In classroom when teacher asks me to answer the question i usually just say im not ready to not open my mouth. I feel like everyone is looking at me and laughing

 

[Thinking_CEL]

I mean clav proved being ND doesn’t mean shit if u look good half the shit he says to women would even be enough to put a mtn under the jail cells

 

[vampireㅤㅤㅤ]

I mean clav proved being ND doesn’t mean shit if u look good half the shit he says to women would even be enough to put a mtn under the jail cells

clav isn’t ND, he can hold a conversation. Acting Eccentric doesn’t automatically mean neurodivergent and nonfunctional socially

 

[cryptoman72]

Nootropics are definitely a good fix. But if you’re actually ugly or a step away from goodlooking/mid, the process of improving your looks could help if it’s not actually your brain that’s wiring you to have true social anxiety. Look into nootropics on here for sure though I’m sure you know selank, it’s one of many and helps with this problem.

 

[mentalmaxxing]

I mean clav proved being ND doesn’t mean shit if u look good half the shit he says to women would even be enough to put a mtn under the jail cells

so i simply need to ascend?

 

[nxri]

clav isn’t ND, he can hold a conversation. Acting Eccentric doesn’t automatically mean neurodivergent and nonfunctional socially

you've never masked before ?

 

[vampireㅤㅤㅤ]

you've never masked before ?

this is a real aspie

 

[mentalmaxxing]

Also my parents brothers etc. has very good charisma and low inhib so i dont think that its genetics

 

[nxri]

this is a real aspie

jesus bro is this what constitutes neurodivergence to you

 

[vampireㅤㅤㅤ]

jesus bro is this what constitutes neurodivergence to you

yeah, you’re most likely just low T and awkward and need to go outside more

 

[IQㅤ]

How can I improve my confidence? I'm hyper ND and every time I watch clav videos i relate to him so much, my social anxiety is so high im stressing in school while just walking in corridor. In classroom when teacher asks me to answer the question i usually just say im not ready to not open my mouth. I feel like everyone is looking at me and laughing

The way I see it you have two paths with confidence:

You have Path A: Pharma

Path B: Internal Work

I would suggest going down Path B: understand the nature behind your social anxiety. There is likely underlying trauma and years of it built up within you. I suggest journaling and breaking your social anxiety down into first principles then coming back to me.

I may be able to help you

Cheers

 

[Thinking_CEL]

clav isn’t ND, he can hold a conversation. Acting Eccentric doesn’t automatically mean neurodivergent and nonfunctional socially

He’s clearly nd tho hard to tell cause he’s chad but if u look at him and picture a subhuman or a normie laughing randomly like he does saying random shit out of context it looks autistic asf especially when he’s at a public setting

He himself admits he’s autistic

 

[vampireㅤㅤㅤ]

The way I see it you have two paths with confidence:

You have Path A: Pharma

Path B: Internal Work

I would suggest going down Path B: understand the nature behind your social anxiety. There is likely underlying trauma and years of it built up within you. I suggest journaling and breaking your social anxiety down into first principles then coming back to me.

I may be able to help you

Cheers

ok hrlp me

 

[vampireㅤㅤㅤ]

He’s clearly nd tho hard to tell cause he’s chad but if u look at him and picture a subhuman or a normie laughing randomly like he does saying random shit out of context it looks autistic asf especially when he’s at a public setting

He himself admits he’s autistic

i agree although there’s definitely degrees, you can see the same thing with connor murphy

 

[mentalmaxxing]

yeah, you’re most likely just low T and awkward and need to go outside more

me?

The way I see it you have two paths with confidence:

You have Path A: Pharma

Path B: Internal Work

I would suggest going down Path B: understand the nature behind your social anxiety. There is likely underlying trauma and years of it built up within you. I suggest journaling and breaking your social anxiety down into first principles then coming back to me.

I may be able to help you

Cheers

Where can we talk privately?

 

[IQㅤ]

me?

Where can we talk privately?

You may PM me

 

[someone192819]

get on meds for social anxiety

 

[nxri]

yeah, you’re most likely just low T and awkward and need to go outside more

intelligent high-functioning autists can mask perfectly bro

 

[fsimm]

How can I improve my confidence? I'm hyper ND and every time I watch clav videos i relate to him so much, my social anxiety is so high im stressing in school while just walking in corridor. In classroom when teacher asks me to answer the question i usually just say im not ready to not open my mouth. I feel like everyone is looking at me and laughing

It’s not a confidence issue but social anxiety, and to fix it is by consistently doing small things you’d normally avoid so your brain learns there’s no real threat.