How to get confidence to go the gym?

[Jesus_ist_König]

Okay so my gym is small there arent many ppl mostly 40 year old moms. Yet my hair is long and always messy, the only way my hair looks good is when I wash it with water until its completely wet, then only dry it a little, like super little bit with the towel (hair gets so dry when i use towel) and then I use a curl definer conditioner or what its called
The problem, the waves need time to get wavy and until then my hair is wet and saggy for the next 2 hours.
Its always so much effort and I only want to go to the gym so i dont see the point in going through all that.
When I dont do that routine, my hair becomes a mess and really volumous and frizzy and I look like an electrocuted homeless guy.

What easy fix can I do?

I know and i am aware that the 40 year old moms and other ppl dont give a fuck about my appearance, yet I still cant get the nerves to get outside looking like this.
Im on vyvanse, it doesnt make me more low inhib, not really

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

I really wanna work out so bad but not that bad that I wanna see ppl and go outside

 

[khrome]

i mean what hair type do you have / what does it look like once you do your "method" (or describe it)

 

[slimester]

jus workout bro

 

[nature]

I really wanna work out so bad but not that bad that I wanna see ppl and go outside

get a buzz

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

i mean what hair type do you have / what does it look like once you do your "method" (or describe it)

When you rip out one of my hairs its type 2b-2c (wavy)
but when i wash it it looks between curly and wavy hair, more like spaghetti, its not curly hair, the curls are long and weak, one wind blow and it turns into straight hair

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

get a buzz

No

 

[JustCallMeKash]

Okay so my gym is small there arent many ppl mostly 40 year old moms. Yet my hair is long and always messy, the only way my hair looks good is when I wash it with water until its completely wet, then only dry it a little, like super little bit with the towel (hair gets so dry when i use towel) and then I use a curl definer conditioner or what its called
The problem, the waves need time to get wavy and until then my hair is wet and saggy for the next 2 hours.
Its always so much effort and I only want to go to the gym so i dont see the point in going through all that.
When I dont do that routine, my hair becomes a mess and really volumous and frizzy and I look like an electrocuted homeless guy.

What easy fix can I do?

I know and i am aware that the 40 year old moms and other ppl dont give a fuck about my appearance, yet I still cant get the nerves to get outside looking like this.
Im on vyvanse, it doesnt make me more low inhib, not really

Wet ur hair dry it out a little with the towel put in the conditioner and go to the gym by tine u get there and finish working out ur hair will look fine

 

[BelgradeSlayer]

Istg bro it's not that deep, go there, lift your weights and go home there's NOTHING to be anxious about. When I went to the gym for the 1st time I was a skinny fat bitch and nobody made fun of me or even looked at me. If you want advice for the lifting itself we can talk in dm's

 

[Blackpillirony]

Okay so my gym is small there arent many ppl mostly 40 year old moms. Yet my hair is long and always messy, the only way my hair looks good is when I wash it with water until its completely wet, then only dry it a little, like super little bit with the towel (hair gets so dry when i use towel) and then I use a curl definer conditioner or what its called
The problem, the waves need time to get wavy and until then my hair is wet and saggy for the next 2 hours.
Its always so much effort and I only want to go to the gym so i dont see the point in going through all that.
When I dont do that routine, my hair becomes a mess and really volumous and frizzy and I look like an electrocuted homeless guy.

What easy fix can I do?

I know and i am aware that the 40 year old moms and other ppl dont give a fuck about my appearance, yet I still cant get the nerves to get outside looking like this.
Im on vyvanse, it doesnt make me more low inhib, not really

Read this : https://looksmax.org/threads/gymcel...body-the-same-way-we-do-its-100-legit.256601/

 

[5’4 Copium Maximus]

Okay so my gym is small there arent many ppl mostly 40 year old moms. Yet my hair is long and always messy, the only way my hair looks good is when I wash it with water until its completely wet, then only dry it a little, like super little bit with the towel (hair gets so dry when i use towel) and then I use a curl definer conditioner or what its called
The problem, the waves need time to get wavy and until then my hair is wet and saggy for the next 2 hours.
Its always so much effort and I only want to go to the gym so i dont see the point in going through all that.
When I dont do that routine, my hair becomes a mess and really volumous and frizzy and I look like an electrocuted homeless guy.

What easy fix can I do?

I know and i am aware that the 40 year old moms and other ppl dont give a fuck about my appearance, yet I still cant get the nerves to get outside looking like this.
Im on vyvanse, it doesnt make me more low inhib, not really

DNR but if you want advice, people dont give a single fuck about what others are doing in the gym, you can be lifting 0,5kg dumbbells and people won’t even notice

 

[slimester]

When you rip out one of my hairs its type 2b-2c (wavy)
but when i wash it it looks between curly and wavy hair, more like spaghetti, its not curly hair, the curls are long and weak, one wind blow and it turns into straight hair

jus cut ur hair

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

i mean what hair type do you have / what does it look like once you do your "method" (or describe it)

When i do the long procedure and stuff, then the hair doesn look bad but when i dont do it then it looks kinda like this

not me, someguy from reddit but my hair gets exactly like the top of this guys hair

super frizzy and bro you cant go outside with that

 

[JustCallMeKash]

Wet ur hair dry it out a little with the towel put in the conditioner and go to the gym by tine u get there and finish working out ur hair will look fine

Aslong as u do the process ur brain already expects the result so by jst going u can trick ur self into thinking its going to look good fast or it already looks good

 

[JustCallMeKash]

jus cut ur hair

Hair is 25% looks

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Istg bro it's not that deep, go there, lift your weights and go home there's NOTHING to be anxious about. When I went to the gym for the 1st time I was a skinny fat bitch and nobody made fun of me or even looked at me. If you want advice for the lifting itself we can talk in dm's

Okay, but understand that im not overreacting, the hair doesnt look slightly bad, it looks homeless and dirty when i dont do the stuff

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Aslong as u do the process ur brain already expects the result so by jst going u can trick ur self into thinking its going to look good fast or it already looks good

I think i could try to not wetten it as much? and then the conditioner?

 

[fooki_saab]

Nigga what the fuck are you saying. Pick up your fatass from your broken gaming chair and go to the gym. Stupid ass nigga bro onb

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Nigga what the fuck are you saying. Pick up your fatass from your broken gaming chair and go to the gym. Stupid ass nigga bro onb

nobody goes outside with this shit, this i a very extreme picture of my hair, it doesnt always look that bad when i dont use product but its in that direction @JustCallMeKash

 

[slimester]

Hair is 25% looks

u can cut ur hair and still have a good look. I'm not saying go bald but I'm saying cut it so its more manageable. this is basic knowledge if ur not a retard

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

u can cut ur hair and still have a good look. I'm not saying go bald but I'm saying cut it so its more manageable. this is basic knowledge if ur not a retard

hair matters so much especially hairstyle

 

[fooki_saab]

nobody goes outside with this shit, this i a very extreme picture of my hair, it doesnt always look that bad when i dont use product but its in that direction @JustCallMeKash

Bro what the fuck does hair have to do with the gym. Insecure pussy

 

[JustCallMeKash]

u can cut ur hair and still have a good look. I'm not saying go bald but I'm saying cut it so its more manageable. this is basic knowledge if ur not a retard

True once it gets to a certain length sure

 

[slimester]

hair matters so much especially hairstyle

so then find a more manageable hairstyle

 

[algerianmogger]

Okay so my gym is small there arent many ppl mostly 40 year old moms. Yet my hair is long and always messy, the only way my hair looks good is when I wash it with water until its completely wet, then only dry it a little, like super little bit with the towel (hair gets so dry when i use towel) and then I use a curl definer conditioner or what its called
The problem, the waves need time to get wavy and until then my hair is wet and saggy for the next 2 hours.
Its always so much effort and I only want to go to the gym so i dont see the point in going through all that.
When I dont do that routine, my hair becomes a mess and really volumous and frizzy and I look like an electrocuted homeless guy.

What easy fix can I do?

I know and i am aware that the 40 year old moms and other ppl dont give a fuck about my appearance, yet I still cant get the nerves to get outside looking like this.
Im on vyvanse, it doesnt make me more low inhib, not really

Come on man. The last thing people would care about is to look at you
Grow balls and go lift weights

 

[algerianmogger]

Just rock a beanie or a cap for an hour

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Bro what the fuck does hair have to do with the gym. Insecure pussy

shut the fuck up bro if you were blackpilled you would understand

 

[khrome]

nobody goes outside with this shit, this i a very extreme picture of my hair, it doesnt always look that bad when i dont use product but its in that direction @JustCallMeKash

icl if i were u i would just go short, best decision i ever made and i looked good with long hair
u got that homeless hair no offense at all but if it suits you i think a buzz would be good jfl

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Just rock a beanie or a cap for an hour

cap doesnt look good on me what i do think i can rock is this

 

[khrome]

shut the fuck up bro if you were blackpilled you would understand

I have the same issue as you lol i hate going to the gym and outside as i feel everyone is staring/judging me, but in reality i know that nobody is

 

[khrome]

cap doesnt look good on me what i do think i can rock is this
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if that's meant to represent you then ur fine either way

 

[algerianmogger]

cap doesnt look good on me what i do think i can rock is this
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If it makes you go to the gym then wear it
And believe me people have hell lot bigger problems than a guy with frizzy hair in the gym

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

icl if i were u i would just go short, best decision i ever made and i looked good with long hair
u got that homeless hair no offense at all but if it suits you i think a buzz would be good jfl

When i take care of it and do the 2h stuff it looks like this

is it really that bad?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

If it makes you go to the gym then wear it
And believe me people have hell lot bigger problems than a guy with frizzy hair in the gym

im aware of that but i dont know im very picky abt that

 

[khrome]

When i take care of it and do the 2h stuff it looks like this

is it really that bad?

Doesnt look that bad at all i thought you meant like the first image you sent, that looks fine lol good even - kinda depends on how tall it goes tho if its like an afro maybe not

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Doesnt look that bad at all i thought you meant like the first image you sent, that looks fine lol good even - kinda depends on how tall it goes tho if its like an afro maybe not

okay i dont want to make the hair shorter. the main problem is
when i dont make the hair wet then the hair is super long and a lot of volume

is there an easy fix to do this without drowning (yes i have to normally) my hair in water?

 

[dr.nikki]

Fang an zu sparen und leg dir ein home-gym zu, oder frag deine Eltern. War echt ein game changer für mich. Hat mehrere Vorteile.

 

[Quetila]

Okay so my gym is small there arent many ppl mostly 40 year old moms. Yet my hair is long and always messy, the only way my hair looks good is when I wash it with water until its completely wet, then only dry it a little, like super little bit with the towel (hair gets so dry when i use towel) and then I use a curl definer conditioner or what its called
The problem, the waves need time to get wavy and until then my hair is wet and saggy for the next 2 hours.
Its always so much effort and I only want to go to the gym so i dont see the point in going through all that.
When I dont do that routine, my hair becomes a mess and really volumous and frizzy and I look like an electrocuted homeless guy.

What easy fix can I do?

I know and i am aware that the 40 year old moms and other ppl dont give a fuck about my appearance, yet I still cant get the nerves to get outside looking like this.
Im on vyvanse, it doesnt make me more low inhib, not really

pussy

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Fang an zu sparen und leg dir ein home-gym zu, oder frag deine Eltern. War echt ein game changer für mich. Hat mehrere Vorteile.

real

 

[avgsub5human]

dont overthink and just go. theres no magic to it, treat it as exposure therapy