Converting matches to lays

[Deleted member 21742]

So I'm at the point where I have accumulated about 100 matches in 7 days. How do I convert them to lays. Do I go ahead and ask upfront, or should I take em out first. Mind you I want nothing but sex from them. What's your most efficient approach? And please no doomers should comment. People with heads only

 

[Foreverbrad]

Can you act NT if you take them out? Are your photos frauded to hell?

 

[Deleted member 21742]

Can you act NT if you take them out? Are your photos frauded to hell?

I can do that very well

 

[Foreverbrad]

Right well I'd say if you're just chasing body count be direct. They can't change their minds easily if they invited you straight over and you can have bad sex and go. Sometimes it'll be good sex but usually not because they're uncomfortable.

If you want to have the best experiences (and risk losing some because there's no chemistry) then take them out. Don't spend money on them though, that's cucked.

 

[Deleted member 21742]

Right well I'd say if you're just chasing body count be direct. They can't change their minds easily if they invited you straight over and you can have bad sex and go. Sometimes it'll be good sex but usually not because they're uncomfortable.

If you want to have the best experiences (and risk losing some because there's no chemistry) then take them out. Don't spend money on them though, that's cucked.

How often do girls agree to come over straight away and how do u ask?

 

[Deleted member 21264]

How you look like. Based on that you can either turn them into lays or not

 

[Foreverbrad]

How often do girls agree to come over straight away and how do u ask?

Used to be pretty often but since I've descended to 3 PSL (3 is 2020's 4 honestly, so many dudes looksmaxing) it's probably around 1 in 100 success rate.

Try opening with "do you appreciate honesty?" Then whatever they reply just say you're not looking for anything serious and that you could have fun together.

 

[Deleted member 21742]

Used to be pretty often but since I've descended to 3 PSL (3 is 2020's 4 honestly, so many dudes looksmaxing) it's probably around 1 in 100 success rate.

Try opening with "do you appreciate honesty?" Then whatever they reply just say you're not looking for anything serious and that you could have fun together.

I'll try it I guess. Numbers game

 

[the BULL]

Mass spam "i can make some exceptional pancakes in the morning" and they Will get the hint. The ones Who don't want to have sex at First date or have sex with you Will ignore and you can filter them out.

 

[Foreverbrad]

Mass spam "i can make some exceptional pancakes in the morning" and they Will get the hint. The ones Who don't want to have sex at First date or have sex with you Will ignore and you can filter them out.

Do most hookups really involve an overnight stay? I'm normally in and out in an hour, two if it's good

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Literally depends on your looks level. I'm a tyronelite so I can only speak on my experience but I've personally never use "game" or trying to come up with something special to say to women. I open with something I like about them or literally just say "hey" when I do actually message women (I usually wait for them to message me first). I try to be pretty straightforward. You matched for a reason so obviously there is established attraction on both sides. But every woman is a bit different so, based on how you look, what say can be taken lightly or to the heart. I think if you're sub-7, your best bet is to just run a numbers game. Some women will be down to chill because they aren't doing anything for the day or the next and you're prob her best option at that moment. But just because a chick rejects you doesn't mean she'll reject you days from now. She may have other dates or shit to do or may want to get to know you a little first. Best to keep chicks on the back burner and hookup with the chicks who're down now until the other ones come around.

 

[Deleted member 21052]

yo i have the same problem.

I used to be a ignorant low inhib kid and called women whores out of the jump and thats how i got my lays.

but now im more well rounded and mature so not sure if that shit would work again

 

[the BULL]

Do most hookups really involve an overnight stay? I'm normally in and out in an hour, two if it's good

Maybe but obv i don't do that either. Once you had sex and she's tired She obv doesn't care about wanting you to stay overnight and you neither lol

 

[Foreverbrad]

Maybe but obv i don't do that either. Once you had sex and she's tired She obv doesn't care about wanting you to stay overnight and you neither lol

I got made bacon rolls once by staying overnight but it probably wasn't worth the bad sleep.

 

[Deleted member 21742]

Mass spam "i can make some exceptional pancakes in the morning" and they Will get the hint. The ones Who don't want to have sex at First date or have sex with you Will ignore and you can filter them out.

Smart man. I'll try

 

[Deleted member 21742]

Literally depends on your looks level. I'm a tyronelite so I can only speak on my experience but I've personally never use "game" or trying to come up with something special to say to women. I open with something I like about them or literally just say "hey" when I do actually message women (I usually wait for them to message me first). I try to be pretty straightforward. You matched for a reason so obviously there is established attraction on both sides. But every woman is a bit different so, based on how you look, what say can be taken lightly or to the heart. I think if you're sub-7, your best bet is to just run a numbers game. Some women will be down to chill because they aren't doing anything for the day or the next and you're prob her best option at that moment. But just because a chick rejects you doesn't mean she'll reject you days from now. She may have other dates or shit to do or may want to get to know you a little first. Best to keep chicks on the back burner and hookup with the chicks who're down now until the other ones come around.

I'm also a tyronelite. How long does it take the girls to message first. Also do you usually message first? I get too eager and message right after matching. Only few girls have messaged me like 5 minutes after matching. I never stay longer than that without messaging first

 

[aBetterMii]

Brag thread

 

[Deleted member 21742]

Brag thread

How man. I'm honestly seeking advise. Also 100 in a week is that worth bragging about?

 

[Blackgymmax]

Just demand sex you subhuman. I dont even go on tinder without posting my dick so they know whats down

 

[Deleted member 21742]

Just demand sex you subhuman. I dont even go on tinder without posting my dick so they know whats down

Bro u need to stop being stupid everywhere

 

[Deleted member 12234]

I'm also a tyronelite. How long does it take the girls to message first. Also do you usually message first? I get too eager and message right after matching. Only few girls have messaged me like 5 minutes after matching. I never stay longer than that without messaging first

Depends on the girl. Some girls will literally wait days or a over a week to message me first after matching.. some will message me first immediately or after a couple hours. I've noticed the ones who message me first within a day are the ones who are usually DTF/meet right away since they show high interest. But when I do message chicks, I usually comment on something in their profile/pics that interests me or just say "hey ". I don't do that corny pickup line shit that seems to be popular lol. Like if I notice a girl is at a cool looking place in her pics, I'll ask about it. Then I try to do the "vibe check" to make sure a bitch isn't crazy lol. I'll ask to talk otp and this can establish even more attraction if there is a mutual vibe (you both know each other aren't crazy). And if a girl likes your voice or how you speak, it can be a huge halo for you too. I have never met up with a woman before talking with her on the phone. That's usually how it goes.


TLDR:

Comment on something in their profile > check the waters (see how she is as a person) > if she's spontaneous/open minded, ask to talk otp > if you both get along well, plan to meet up.

 

[aBetterMii]

How man. I'm honestly seeking advise. Also 100 in a week is that worth bragging about?

100 in week mogs me to sui

 

[Deleted member 21742]

Depends on the girl. Some girls will literally wait days or a over a week to message me first after matching.. some will message me first immediately or after a couple hours. I've noticed the ones who message me first within a day are the ones who are usually DTF/meet right away since they show high interest. But when I do message chicks, I usually comment on something in their profile/pics that interests me or just say "hey ". I don't do that corny pickup line shit that seems to be popular lol. Like if I notice a girl is at a cool looking place in her pics, I'll ask about it. Then I try to do the "vibe check" to make sure a bitch isn't crazy lol. I'll ask to talk otp and this can establish even more attraction if there is a mutual vibe (you both know each other aren't crazy). And if a girl likes your voice or how you speak, it can be a huge halo for you too. I have never met up with a woman before talking with her on the phone. That's usually how it goes.


TLDR:

Comment on something in their profile > check the waters (see how she is as a person) > if she's spontaneous/open minded, ask to talk otp > if you both get along well, plan to meet up

 

[Deleted member 21742]

Thanks man. What would you say your conversion rate is like. Also you didn't answer if you usually message them first majority of the time. How often do girls message after a long time

 

[Deleted member 21742]

100 in week mogs me to sui

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Thanks man. What would you say your conversion rate is like. Also you didn't answer if you usually message them first majority of the time. How often do girls message after a long time

I rarely message first (maybe 15% of my matches). I have no idea of the percentage of girls who message me first since they dont always do it immediately after a match. Like I said, it could be mins, hours, days, weeks, etc. And I posted this on another thread but there is a big difference between being offered to meetup and actually meeting up. You seem to be overthinking all this shit tho. You're getting a ton of matches. Just run a fucking numbers game like I said. Meetup with the chicks who're down to fuck now and keep the other chicks on the back burner for when they come around. You likely will not have enough time to meetup with most chicks who want to meet up anyway (offered to meet up vs actually meeting up) unless you literally have no life lol

 

[Deleted member 21742]

I rarely message first (maybe 15% of my matches). I have no idea of the percentage of girls who message me first since they dont always do it immediately after a match. Like I said, it could be mins, hours, days, weeks, etc. And I posted this on another thread but there is a big difference between being offered to meetup and actually meeting up. You seem to be overthinking all this shit tho. You're getting a ton of matches. Just run a fucking numbers game like I said. Meetup with the chicks who're down to fuck now and keep the other chicks on the back burner for when they come around. You likely will not have enough time to meetup with most chicks who want to meet up anyway (offered to meet up vs actually meeting up) unless you literally have no life lol

 

[Deleted member 21742]

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