Dad delivered a chilling message to me on the phone at lunch.

[Xangsane]

I don't want to give out too much details, but he advised me to "never choose a non-Muslim, especially a white woman, because his brothers and cousins who didn't marry white are living more comfortably than the ones who married white, including himself, who ended up in shitholes relative to the others".

"I just want to see you do very well and sent off to a good Muslim woman so you don't end up like me. Preferably Arab but if she's of another race, highly educated in a respectable field, and is doing very well with her life, you can go with her. We will both watch you when you're meeting a prospective wife. You deserve better than me."

 

[mingren]

based dad

 

[Deleted member 23558]

fuk u

 

[Deleted member 23286]

Your dad is a wise man, I am also against miscegenation.

 

[Marsiere214]

Did he also talk to you about phenotypes?

 

[Xangsane]

Did he also talk to you about phenotypes?

No.

 

[Xangsane]

Your dad is a wise man, I am also against miscegenation.

based dad

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Of the poll options what would you advise?

 

[mingren]

Of the poll options what would you advise?

idk

 

[Marsiere214]

No.

Can you ask him which European phenotype is the best?

 

[Deleted member 23286]

Ethnic Secular Moslems (Arabs, not the derogatory "ethnics") are probably best fit for you. They're culturally similar with you with a similar upbringing in the Westernized Arab world. They also tend to be the best looking as Western = rich there.

>TL;DR
You're set, m8

 

[Deleted member 14693]

why tf are you asking a forum for your life choices

 

[Deleted member 17578]

My dad told me to never marry ever and never have children. As he deeply regrets getting married and getting children.

Brutal to hear from ur own dad that he regrets having you ngl.

 

[Deleted member 14815]

Based and islampilled

 

[the BULL]

you muslimcels are too afraid that there is no religion barrier preventing her from cheating on you

 

[Deleted member 24371]

listen to ur dad but make your own decision

 

[Deleted member 23286]

listen to ur dad but make your own decision

AKA more polite way to say "ignore your dad's opinion"

 

[Deleted member 24371]

AKA more polite way to say "ignore your dad's opinion"

no just don't blindly accept it, consider it carefully against other things

 

[Xangsane]

no just don't blindly accept it, consider it carefully against other things

Ethnic Secular Moslems (Arabs, not the derogatory "ethnics") are probably best fit for you. They're culturally similar with you with a similar upbringing in the Westernized Arab world. They also tend to be the best looking as Western = rich there.

>TL;DR
You're set, m8

I would strongly prefer a woman who doesn't drink or smoke. A lot of Westernised Muslims, including foids, go to shisha bars.

 

[Xangsane]

you muslimcels are too afraid that there is no religion barrier preventing her from cheating on you

Looksmaxxing while starting a family, even while my future wife is pregnant and we have children of our own, is still important, so she wouldn't cheat on me for a young Chad/giga secular Chaddam who drinks. I should try and maintain a sustainable body % percentage yet still be lean.

 

[Xangsane]

Based and islampilled

Do you think Dad gave me some good advice?

 

[the BULL]

Looksmaxxing while starting a family, even while my future wife is pregnant and we have children of our own, is still important, so she wouldn't cheat on me for a young Chad/giga secular Chaddam who drinks. I should try and maintain a sustainable body % percentage yet still be lean.

women don't give a single fuck about that
they may want to cheat for whatever reason

 

[Deleted member 14815]

Do you think Dad gave me some good advice?

Yes

 

[Xangsane]

My dad told me to never marry ever and never have children. As he deeply regrets getting married and getting children.

I would like about three children. I wonder what my future wife would think.

Brutal to hear from ur own dad that he regrets having you ngl.

That's not nice!

 

[Xangsane]

Yes

I shall pass onto my dad what you said.

 

[Deleted member 21661]

If you're Muslim don't marry a non Muslim. They will probably be degenerates and only "convert" to get some stability with you after a degenerate lifestyle for several years

 

[Deleted member 20631]

Muslim only if you want your marriage to last

 

[Deleted member 24371]

I shall pass onto my dad what you said.

tell him wassup from jim

 

[Xangsane]

If you're Muslim don't marry a non Muslim. They will probably be degenerates and only "convert" to get some stability with you after a degenerate lifestyle for several years

Would you count the Christian Blasian girl rejecting me a blessing in disguise?

 

[Xangsane]

If you're Muslim don't marry a non Muslim. They will probably be degenerates and only "convert" to get some stability with you after a degenerate lifestyle for several years

My white mum was heavily involved in late 1980s/early 1990s rave and goth culture but had an interest in religion before meeting my father, and that's when she converted.

 

[Deleted member 21661]

Would you count the Christian Blasian girl rejecting me a blessing in disguise?

Yes, date a Muslim girl.
Also, I don't hate black people but (at least in America) marrying a black person creates a lot of different issues. I think you should marry an arab/middle easterner, if not some European Muslim or something.

 

[Deleted member 21661]

My white mum was heavily involved in late 1980s/early 1990s rave and goth culture but had an interest in religion before meeting my father, and that's when she converted.

Yeah no offense to your mom but that's a bad sign tbh. Also, the rave culture and all that now is a lot worse rn than it was 30 years ago, so you need someone really devout.

 

[Xangsane]

Yes, date a Muslim girl.

That's what I'm doing, and Sunni only.

I think you should marry an arab/middle easterner,

This is ideal.

if not some European Muslim or something.

I'm not touching any white girll even with a 50-foot pole.

 

[Deleted member 24371]

My white mum was heavily involved in late 1980s/early 1990s rave and goth culture but had an interest in religion before meeting my father, and that's when she converted.

is that why you used to post siouxsie sioux

 

[Deleted member 17578]

I would like about three children. I wonder what my future wife would think.

That's not nice!

He was just being honest. He told me he got children because it was considered as the normal, right thing to do. But he told me it was a wrong decision and i should not listen to pressures from others

 

[Xangsane]

Also, I don't hate black people but (at least in America) marrying a black person creates a lot of different issues.

My parents are okay with me marrying a black/half-black woman.

 

[Deleted member 21661]

My parents are okay with me marrying a black/half-black woman.

I think arab/middle eastern is best tbh.
You're actually probably right that you don't wanna ever touch a white woman.
I think it's hard to find virgin/traditional women today who haven't had Islam ingrained in them from a really young age.

 

[Xangsane]

is that why you used to post siouxsie sioux

To be fair some of her songs are good, but Mum loved that band back in the day.

 

[Deleted member 24371]

To be fair some of her songs are good, but Mum loved that band back in the day.

send mum pics

 

[Xangsane]

Yeah no offense to your mom but that's a bad sign tbh. Also, the rave culture and all that now is a lot worse rn than it was 30 years ago, so you need someone really devout.

A "secular" Muslim girl who goes to clubs regularly is a massive dealbreaker tbh. A lot of Muslim lads are also secular, and some Muslim girls try to go down this route hoping to get noticed by Chaddams (many of whom are rarely religious).

 

[Xangsane]

He was just being honest. He told me he got children because it was considered as the normal, right thing to do. But he told me it was a wrong decision and i should not listen to pressures from others

Are you childfree?

 

[Deleted member 21661]

A "secular" Muslim girl who goes to clubs regularly is a massive dealbreaker tbh. A lot of Muslim lads are also secular, and some Muslim girls try to go down this route hoping to get noticed by Chaddams (many of whom are rarely religious).

It would be really hard to find a good one in the UK. You might need to go back to an Islamic country to look for one lol

 

[Xangsane]

I think arab/middle eastern is best tbh.

My dad thinks so too. Meanwhile mum said "any race".

You're actually probably right that you don't wanna ever touch a white woman.

They're too degenerate, and Balkans tend to be racist.

I think it's hard to find virgin/traditional women today who haven't had Islam ingrained in them from a really young age.

I feel this too.

 

[Xangsane]

It would be really hard to find a good one in the UK. You might need to go back to an Islamic country to look for one lol

I've also considered arranged marriage if this fails, but I need more money.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Are you childfree?

I am a truecel (decent women don't want anything to do with me). So yeah I am childfree but not by choice.

Ideally i wanted to start a big family, but I realize now that this is almost impossible in modern society due to feminism.

 

[Xangsane]

I am a truecel (decent women don't want anything to do with me). So yeah I am childfree but not by choice.

Ideally i want to start a big family.

You're HTN (Chadlite in prime).

 

[Deleted member 17578]

You're HTN (Chadlite in prime).

 

[Xangsane]

Yes

 

[Deleted member 24586]

I don't want to give out too much details, but he advised me to "never choose a non-Muslim, especially a white woman, because his brothers and cousins who didn't marry white are living more comfortably than the ones who married white, including himself, who ended up in shitholes relative to the others".

"I just want to see you do very well and sent off to a good Muslim woman so you don't end up like me. Preferably Arab but if she's of another race, highly educated in a respectable field, and is doing very well with her life, you can go with her. We will both watch you when you're meeting a prospective wife. You deserve better than me."

Are you muslim? If so then your only option is to marry a muslim, not a non Muslim you dummy. And he's right, white women raise their sons to be trannies don't risk it.

 

[Xangsane]

Are you muslim?

Yes

If so then your only option is to marry a muslim, not a non Muslim you dummy. And he's right, white women raise their sons to be trannies don't risk it.

Muslim men can marry a woman "from the book" (Christian, Jewish and Muslim) but I'm sticking with Muslim only

 

[Gonthar]

I don't want to give out too much details, but he advised me to "never choose a non-Muslim, especially a white woman, because his brothers and cousins who didn't marry white are living more comfortably than the ones who married white, including himself, who ended up in shitholes relative to the others".

"I just want to see you do very well and sent off to a good Muslim woman so you don't end up like me. Preferably Arab but if she's of another race, highly educated in a respectable field, and is doing very well with her life, you can go with her. We will both watch you when you're meeting a prospective wife. You deserve better than me."

Why didn't you tell him: "Yeah...dad, I'm an incel in case you haven't noticed, I can't get any girl, religion is pretty much irrelevant in this case..."