Dating app but for friends?

Notcel

Notcel

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I have none
 
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Unfortunately if it doesn't happen naturally you really can't force friendship. The few friends I've made over my lifetime happened naturally without much effort when you click. If you don't click with someone the friendship will not work

Sadly most of the few people I clicked with and was friends with either live too far away to sustain a friendship or they just got busier lives (family, kids, job) and we drifted apart over time. I still have one friend I've been friends with for around 10 years who I see occasionally. All the times I tried putting myself out there to make friends amounted to nothing. The only times things worked was when I wasn't even actively putting in effort to make friends
 
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motivational ad song with man saying:
Iโ€™m not gonna lie, I didnโ€™t read the post.
I saw all those words and just kept going.
Maybe there was something important in there,
maybe it explained everything perfectly,
but I never stopped to check.

I just looked at it for a second and thought,
โ€˜yeahโ€ฆ Iโ€™m not reading all that.โ€™
So if the answers were sitting right there in front of me,
thatโ€™s on me.
I ignored the whole thing and started talking anyway.

 
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Im 17, america
Will be rougher once you graduate if you still have no friends. After 18 it's way harder to make new friends (not that it's easy at your age either if you aren't the most social person)
 
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Unfortunately if it doesn't happen naturally you really can't force friendship. The few friends I've made over my lifetime happened naturally without much effort when you click. If you don't click with someone the friendship will not work

Sadly most of the few people I clicked with and was friends with either live too far away to sustain a friendship or they just got busier lives (family, kids, job) and we drifted apart over time. I still have one friend I've been friends with for around 10 years who I see occasionally. All the times I tried putting myself out there to make friends amounted to nothing. The only times things worked was when I wasn't even actively putting in effort to make friends
Yeah the one friendship that held on was one where we talk once a month which is nice but there isnt a genuine one
 
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Will be rougher once you graduate if you still have no friends. After 18 it's way harder to make new friends (not that it's easy at your age either if you aren't the most social person)
Way to make me more hopeful bud
 
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Yeah the one friendship that held on was one where we talk once a month which is nice but there isnt a genuine one
Brutal
 
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Way to make me more hopeful bud
Gotta keep it real kek. Other than the one friend I had since middle school I've never had any luck forming lasting quality friendships in a bunch of years of my adulthood
 
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ah okay, well trying to get into the populare guys or a big circle is the worst, you can either become friends with one populare guy or just try and find the nicest mf and yeah, also even if someone isnt populare they can still be evil asl
 
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It's a good app (y)
1779095003725
 
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