Dating with BDD

[Hopeful333]

im too young to drink and cant go to any parties anyway, only 16 and busy studying + parents wouldnt let me
ill probably try to see if partying/clubbing could help me once im older, but its less about getting quick laid and more about finding a loyal girlfriend. the main problem is my confidence/self image anyway

You're fucking 16!

I've heard it quoted here that one of your only chances at real proper love is doing just be first.

As in just be the first boy she gets with.

You've got a good shot here.

 

[RAITEIII]

the main problem is my confidence/self image anyway

Does this mean that you look better than what you think and that your level of confidence/ self image aren't reasonably on par with your looks?

 

[Vidyacoper]

Does this mean that you look better than what you think and that your level of confidence/ self image aren't reasonably on par with your looks?

kinda but its more like ill never be happy with the way i look unless i reach the levels i idolise in my head (chico) ive felt like shit ever since i realised the gap between me and him and cant really feel happy as much anymore because its all i think about - thats what i mean by having lost my confidence

You're fucking 16!

I've heard it quoted here that one of your only chances at real proper love is doing just be first.

As in just be the first boy she gets with.

You've got a good shot here.

i dont think id be confident enough to date until im looksmaxxed, and i dont think thatll be until atleast around age 21... im scared it might even be too late once i reach that age - too late to find a girlfriend with a low lay count

 

[RAITEIII]

kinda but its more like ill never be happy with the way i look unless i reach the levels i idolise in my head (chico) ive felt like shit ever since i realised the gap between me and him and cant really feel happy as much anymore because its all i think about - thats what i mean by having lost my confidence

i dont think id be confident enough to date until im looksmaxxed, and i dont think thatll be until atleast around age 21... im scared it might even be too late once i reach that age - too late to find a girlfriend with a low lay count

I don't know your looks or potential so I can't say anything about that.

Many of us have the knowledge end don't need to keep regurgitating it in our head. It applies to you, to me, to everyone:

Don't make a draft out of your life and enjoy everything you can now at its fullest while looking into continuous improvement.

What you might think might or might not happen lol. And bitterness due to lost time could be just around the corner.

 

[RAITEIII]

I dont even remember who this is. Its over for my memory