Dating

[clrter]

Why do I feel repulsed by the notion of dating and having to be with someone but at the same time hate being alone. Just feel so distance when trying to talk to someone.

 

[Deleted member 259412]

Maybe because dating isn't the only way to form bonds? Lol
It's just one of the most “normal” ways to form relationships

Dating involves a series of artificial steps that can be annoying

 

[KT-34]

Why do I feel repulsed by the notion of dating and having to be with someone but at the same time hate being alone. Just feel so distance when trying to talk to someone.

I feel the same, like the concept of putting efforts into another like this isn't interesting to me

 

[clrter]

I agree and maybe it’s because the way I look at women now, instead of lust it’s more do they have favorable traits to mate with. This is also a struggle because I am a catholic

 

[clrter]

Maybe because dating isn't the only way to form bonds? Lol
It's just one of the most “normal” ways to form relationships

Dating involves a series of artificial steps that can be annoying

I agree that’s why I like to hang around men way more and people have asked if I’m gay,. I’m not I’m attracted to women but even trying to bond with a women it always just fizzles out.

 

[Deleted member 19325]

just fuck them