Dbdr comments on the Wheat Waffles situation | Why you need to be prepared for the worst if you share your face and experiences in bp spaces

[Acquiescence]

This is some pretty brutal stuff lads. It’s why I personally, as someone who has posted my full face here before and will be sharing my surgery before / afters, do my best to always adhere to the following principles:

• Have barely any social media presence
• Preemptively “doxxed” my lookism views and surgery plans to immediate family, just to get the cat out of the bag and relieve the “what if” ruminations, since I live with them and know I would inevitably slip up or reveal things I didn’t want to (especially when getting surgeries, but even for smaller things like regularly ordering dut and taz to the house, or going in to get face laser hair removal and dysport)
• Purposely work for employers who, in all likelihood, wouldn’t insta fire me if they ever somehow found out
• Wrote a dedicated reminder notes document (inb4 autism, idgaf it’s helpful) and make it a point to read through it almost every day, drilling into my head to:
  • never ever bring the bp up to friends, coworkers, bosses, family not in the know, and so on
  • be fully ready at any time, any day, to be suddenly confronted either irl or online by some random, or a friend, family member, employer, coworker, etc about the bp and to have a prepared explanation ready to delve into
  • be fully prepared (or at least, be braced mentally) to lose out on relationships, opportunities, jobs, and even more, despite all precautions taken and explanations given (although this is just good life advice in general tbh; it’s a cruel, chaotic world out there, full of suffering with no guarantees for anybody)

Don’t take it from me, take it from Wheat / Dbdr / Rehab / any other public bp figure. Getting into this stuff isn’t just some silly game or phase of your life - it can and will have very real world consequences that will last a lifetime. You have to be reasonably prepared for the worst to occur at all times

Realistically speaking though, most of us are just regular, everyday normie nobodies with no large channel or following to speak of. This likely won’t ever happen to us. But still, it’s good to be aware and ready and expecting, for the bp reaper always comes to collect

 

[Sonneillon]

Bump

 

[160cmcurry]

 

[Uehdbwidbfngj]

If you do not hsve your face on here are you fine?

 

[first snow]

If you do not hsve your face on here are you fine?

no, you're on feds watchlist now and they'll keep track of you
watch behind your back, don't trust anyone, that's all i can advice you to do right now

 

[Uehdbwidbfngj]

no, you're on feds watchlist now and they'll keep track of you
watch behind your back, don't trust anyone, that's all i can advice you to do right now

Im going to coom inside your rectum

 

[first snow]

Im going to coom inside your rectum

why?

 

[first snow]

Im going to coom inside your rectum

your username is very meaningful btw

 

[Uehdbwidbfngj]

your username is very meaningful btw

 

[alurmo]

he did what most couldnt, leave the toxic community

 

[Brus Wane]

What's the dbdr story?

I didn't know he got doxxed or what happened

I used to watch his videos while doing cardio because they usually lasted 20-30 mins and that was perfect

Then one day he stopped uploading

Brooootal

 

[Deleted member 44222]

What happened to wheat waffles

 

[WrathOfOlives]

I have a yt channel that gets comparable views to wheat and dbdr so I have a unique perspective on this.

I know this sounds super insensitive but what they did was kinda cucked.... (and I'm friendly with wheat) I think you are at your happiest when you are yourself, so any relationship where a prerequisite is self censoring your thoughts, I don't think is worth maintaining. "Ohh noo, reddit soyjak man #1949 doesn't want to be friends with me", isn't exactly a curse. Also, what kind of message does that send out to their audiences "make sure to fold as soon as you get any pushback to saying controversial truths" nah, fuck that.

 

[nuttheb]

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This is some pretty brutal stuff lads. It’s why I personally, as someone who has posted my full face here before and will be sharing my surgery before / afters, do my best to always adhere to the following principles:

• Have barely any social media presence
• Preemptively “doxxed” my lookism views and surgery plans to immediate family, just to get the cat out of the bag and relieve the “what if” ruminations, since I live with them and know I would inevitably slip up or reveal things I didn’t want to (especially when getting surgeries, but even for smaller things like regularly ordering dut and taz to the house, or going in to get face laser hair removal and dysport)
• Purposely work for employers who, in all likelihood, wouldn’t insta fire me if they ever somehow found out
• Wrote a dedicated reminder notes document (inb4 autism, idgaf it’s helpful) and make it a point to read through it almost every day, drilling into my head to:
  • never ever bring the bp up to friends, coworkers, bosses, family not in the know, and so on
  • be fully ready at any time, any day, to be suddenly confronted either irl or online by some random, or a friend, family member, employer, coworker, etc about the bp and to have a prepared explanation ready to delve into
  • be fully prepared (or at least, be braced mentally) to lose out on relationships, opportunities, jobs, and even more, despite all precautions taken and explanations given (although this is just good life advice in general tbh; it’s a cruel, chaotic world out there, full of suffering with no guarantees for anybody)

Don’t take it from me, take it from Wheat / Dbdr / Rehab / any other public bp figure. Getting into this stuff isn’t just some silly game or phase of your life - it can and will have very real world consequences that will last a lifetime. You have to be reasonably prepared for the worst to occur at all times

Realistically speaking though, most of us are just regular, everyday normie nobodies with no large channel or following to speak of. This likely won’t ever happen to us. But still, it’s good to be aware and ready and expecting, for the bp reaper always comes to collect

why not his fam talk to him about youtube vids

 

[Deleted member 112901]

I have a yt channel that gets comparable views to wheat and dbdr so I have a unique perspective on this.

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I know this sounds super insensitive but what they did was kinda cucked.... (and I'm friendly with wheat) I think you are at your happiest when you are yourself, so any relationship where a prerequisite is self censoring your thoughts, I don't think is worth maintaining. "Ohh noo, reddit soyjak man #1949 doesn't want to be friends with me", isn't exactly a curse. Also, what kind of message does that send out to their audiences "make sure to fold as soon as you get any pushback to saying controversial truths" nah, fuck that.

High T take

 

[DieVoGel6949]

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This is some pretty brutal stuff lads. It’s why I personally, as someone who has posted my full face here before and will be sharing my surgery before / afters, do my best to always adhere to the following principles:

• Have barely any social media presence
• Preemptively “doxxed” my lookism views and surgery plans to immediate family, just to get the cat out of the bag and relieve the “what if” ruminations, since I live with them and know I would inevitably slip up or reveal things I didn’t want to (especially when getting surgeries, but even for smaller things like regularly ordering dut and taz to the house, or going in to get face laser hair removal and dysport)
• Purposely work for employers who, in all likelihood, wouldn’t insta fire me if they ever somehow found out
• Wrote a dedicated reminder notes document (inb4 autism, idgaf it’s helpful) and make it a point to read through it almost every day, drilling into my head to:
  • never ever bring the bp up to friends, coworkers, bosses, family not in the know, and so on
  • be fully ready at any time, any day, to be suddenly confronted either irl or online by some random, or a friend, family member, employer, coworker, etc about the bp and to have a prepared explanation ready to delve into
  • be fully prepared (or at least, be braced mentally) to lose out on relationships, opportunities, jobs, and even more, despite all precautions taken and explanations given (although this is just good life advice in general tbh; it’s a cruel, chaotic world out there, full of suffering with no guarantees for anybody)

Don’t take it from me, take it from Wheat / Dbdr / Rehab / any other public bp figure. Getting into this stuff isn’t just some silly game or phase of your life - it can and will have very real world consequences that will last a lifetime. You have to be reasonably prepared for the worst to occur at all times

Realistically speaking though, most of us are just regular, everyday normie nobodies with no large channel or following to speak of. This likely won’t ever happen to us. But still, it’s good to be aware and ready and expecting, for the bp reaper always comes to collect

I don't really have any connections besides my parents tho. But I'm not some dude with a large following so that helps.

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

nah, fuck that.

@2025cel

 

[afroheadluke]

@2025cel

FUCKER!

 

[KKKuroiso]

Bump, good Thread, bookmarked and labeled

 

[lifeless]

not reading fuck that overweight ginger faggot

 

[Deleted member 135388]

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This is some pretty brutal stuff lads. It’s why I personally, as someone who has posted my full face here before and will be sharing my surgery before / afters, do my best to always adhere to the following principles:

• Have barely any social media presence
• Preemptively “doxxed” my lookism views and surgery plans to immediate family, just to get the cat out of the bag and relieve the “what if” ruminations, since I live with them and know I would inevitably slip up or reveal things I didn’t want to (especially when getting surgeries, but even for smaller things like regularly ordering dut and taz to the house, or going in to get face laser hair removal and dysport)
• Purposely work for employers who, in all likelihood, wouldn’t insta fire me if they ever somehow found out
• Wrote a dedicated reminder notes document (inb4 autism, idgaf it’s helpful) and make it a point to read through it almost every day, drilling into my head to:
  • never ever bring the bp up to friends, coworkers, bosses, family not in the know, and so on
  • be fully ready at any time, any day, to be suddenly confronted either irl or online by some random, or a friend, family member, employer, coworker, etc about the bp and to have a prepared explanation ready to delve into
  • be fully prepared (or at least, be braced mentally) to lose out on relationships, opportunities, jobs, and even more, despite all precautions taken and explanations given (although this is just good life advice in general tbh; it’s a cruel, chaotic world out there, full of suffering with no guarantees for anybody)

Don’t take it from me, take it from Wheat / Dbdr / Rehab / any other public bp figure. Getting into this stuff isn’t just some silly game or phase of your life - it can and will have very real world consequences that will last a lifetime. You have to be reasonably prepared for the worst to occur at all times

Realistically speaking though, most of us are just regular, everyday normie nobodies with no large channel or following to speak of. This likely won’t ever happen to us. But still, it’s good to be aware and ready and expecting, for the bp reaper always comes to collect

Good thinking

 

[Eminchadwanabe]

FUCKER!

I dont get it

 

[6ft4]

What do wheat and dbdr both having in common?
They're both ginger and sub 5 and low in basic social sentience and have family that hate them and sided with the people who shit on them because their son got called a few buzzwords by normie sheep

Guys like @WrathOfOlives @Clavicular @Zeta are doing just fine building status off the back of PSL content

 

[CorinthianLOX]

That’s why I will never post my face publically on any blackpill/lookism space.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

be fully ready at any time, any day, to be suddenly confronted either irl or online by some random, or a friend, family member, employer, coworker, etc about the bp and to have a prepared explanation ready to delve into

Acting completely clueless is the best case scenario.

I had some dudes starting to talk to me about looksmaxxing (some 18 yo dudes who were pinning ghk-cu and thought they are some low inhib gods because of that). I acted clueless, said idk what it means, idk what it is and they left me alone pretty quickly.

Though, awhile ago I didn't act clueless but just didn't want to talk about it, and I wasn't really "left alone" lol.

 

[Acquiescence]

Acting completely clueless is the best case scenario.

I had some dudes starting to talk to me about looksmaxxing (some 18 yo dudes who were pinning ghk-cu and thought they are some low inhib gods because of that). I acted clueless, said idk what it means, idk what it is and they left me alone pretty quickly.

Though, awhile ago I didn't act clueless but just didn't want to talk about it, and I wasn't really "left alone" lol.

Yeah that’s the only real revision I’d make to this 1 year later good catch

I won’t even admit I know what botox or a hair piece is

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Yeah that’s the only real revision I’d make to this 1 year later good catch

I won’t even admit I know what botox or a hair piece is

4real, I've done it a few times now and it works like a charm. Like I don't fucking want to talk with some random about peptides or bonesmashing when I'm out trying to have a good time.

There was once this dude in the club who came to me and started to talk about him getting a "bimax and a facelift" lol. I was so fucking surprised that normies are that mental already.

Yeah JFL at him wanting a "facelift" while being fucking 19 years old
Most of them just see a bunch of tiktoks and spew some stupid shit out of their mouths.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

4real, I've done it a few times now and it works like a charm. Like I don't fucking want to talk with some random about peptides or bonesmashing when I'm out trying to have a good time.

There was once this dude in the club who came to me and started to talk about him getting a "bimax and a facelift" lol. I was so fucking surprised that normies are that mental already.

Yeah JFL at him wanting a "facelift" while being fucking 19 years old
Most of them just see a bunch of tiktoks and spew some stupid shit out of their mouths.

Not to mention, after I told him "Aight bro whatever good luck" he walked away from me and then went to some fucking chick and started telling her about his "surgeries" lmaoo, the chick looked so fucking confused.

"I'm getting bimax I'm getting a facelift I'm getting fucking everything I dont care anymore"

 

[crazyguy]

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This is some pretty brutal stuff lads. It’s why I personally, as someone who has posted my full face here before and will be sharing my surgery before / afters, do my best to always adhere to the following principles:

• Have barely any social media presence
• Preemptively “doxxed” my lookism views and surgery plans to immediate family, just to get the cat out of the bag and relieve the “what if” ruminations, since I live with them and know I would inevitably slip up or reveal things I didn’t want to (especially when getting surgeries, but even for smaller things like regularly ordering dut and taz to the house, or going in to get face laser hair removal and dysport)
• Purposely work for employers who, in all likelihood, wouldn’t insta fire me if they ever somehow found out
• Wrote a dedicated reminder notes document (inb4 autism, idgaf it’s helpful) and make it a point to read through it almost every day, drilling into my head to:
  • never ever bring the bp up to friends, coworkers, bosses, family not in the know, and so on
  • be fully ready at any time, any day, to be suddenly confronted either irl or online by some random, or a friend, family member, employer, coworker, etc about the bp and to have a prepared explanation ready to delve into
  • be fully prepared (or at least, be braced mentally) to lose out on relationships, opportunities, jobs, and even more, despite all precautions taken and explanations given (although this is just good life advice in general tbh; it’s a cruel, chaotic world out there, full of suffering with no guarantees for anybody)

Don’t take it from me, take it from Wheat / Dbdr / Rehab / any other public bp figure. Getting into this stuff isn’t just some silly game or phase of your life - it can and will have very real world consequences that will last a lifetime. You have to be reasonably prepared for the worst to occur at all times

Realistically speaking though, most of us are just regular, everyday normie nobodies with no large channel or following to speak of. This likely won’t ever happen to us. But still, it’s good to be aware and ready and expecting, for the bp reaper always comes to collect

dbdr forces his experiences.

 

[Acquiescence]

dbdr forces his experiences.

What u mean brah. Like tales or purposely puts himself into bad situations?

Perhaps somewhat but he also has some brutal life debuffs going for him that he can realistically do nothing about

I will say though, homie can be giga dumb sometimes. Like he’s been coping so fucking hard about his hairloss and has debated hopping on fin for like 3 fucking years now. Despite his community dogpiling him to stop coping and hop on the very first community post he made on it. And yet to this day he complains about progressively balding and being 300lbs

I do feel for him though it’s realistically over and he has to cope somehow

 

[crazyguy]

What u mean brah. Like tales or purposely puts himself into bad situations?

Perhaps somewhat but he also has some brutal life debuffs going for him that he can realistically do nothing about

I will say though, homie can be giga dumb sometimes. Like he’s been coping so fucking hard about his hairloss and has debated hopping on fin for like 3 fucking years now. Despite his community dogpilling him to stop coping and hop on the very first community post he made on it. And yet to this day he complains about being balding and 300lbs

I do feel for him though it’s realistically over and he has to cope somehow

the latter
he actually went to a speed dating event