Acquiescence
#1 Oofy Doofy Jestermaxxer
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This is some pretty brutal stuff lads. It’s why I personally, as someone who has posted my full face here before and will be sharing my surgery before / afters, do my best to always adhere to the following principles:
- Have barely any social media presence
- Preemptively “doxxed” my lookism views and surgery plans to immediate family, just to get the cat out of the bag and relieve the “what if” ruminations, since I live with them and know I would inevitably slip up or reveal things I didn’t want to (especially when getting surgeries, but even for smaller things like regularly ordering dut and taz to the house, or going in to get face laser hair removal and dysport)
- Purposely work for employers who, in all likelihood, wouldn’t insta fire me if they ever somehow found out
- Wrote a dedicated reminder notes document (inb4 autism, idgaf it’s helpful) and make it a point to read through it almost every day, drilling into my head to:
- never ever bring the bp up to friends, coworkers, bosses, family not in the know, and so on
- be fully ready at any time, any day, to be suddenly confronted either irl or online by some random, or a friend, family member, employer, coworker, etc about the bp and to have a prepared explanation ready to delve into
- be fully prepared (or at least, be braced mentally) to lose out on relationships, opportunities, jobs, and even more, despite all precautions taken and explanations given (although this is just good life advice in general tbh; it’s a cruel, chaotic world out there, full of suffering with no guarantees for anybody)
Realistically speaking though, most of us are just regular, everyday normie nobodies with no large channel or following to speak of. This likely won’t ever happen to us. But still, it’s good to be aware and ready and expecting, for the bp reaper always comes to collect
