Dealing with my first ever rejection

[SecularIslamist]

Test the waters in hinge bro. Doubt there’s a non primitive Muslim girl in the west and on a dating app lmao.

Nearly 95% of them are dressed too slutty to me. One is even naked in the thread below

I'm happy to accept a non-Muslim as long as they convert and someone who dresses decently - at least knee length clothing and covers cleavage.

Maherfishing in London

Greatest Chadfish experiment

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Yes you're not bad looking but you being 6'0" wouldn't have mattered. You already passed the looks threshold. This time you were rejected for something else. What did you say to her on the phone?

It was a 30 min conversation. These stand out

• I was greying
• My family treat girls differently
• I have almost no friends
• I live by myself
• I implied I want to go on dates and don't want to get married straight away - at the same time I said I hate people on this app who plan to marry in years
• I said I get like 4 profile views a day and can't see people who like me
• Enquired about her own past and experiences on the app
• Spoke too much about myself generally.

These stand out. But honestly didn't think it was too bad.

 

[Gengar]

Bhai bashan does not like islam, prolly got rejected by hijabi foid once and decided islam was the problem

Yeah forget him, he's a major coper. Thinks he knows more about our community than he does, as an outsider.

 

[Bashan]

Bhai we pray 5 times a day.

Yet you're still a hopeless virgin. Like I said, try 6 times maybe that would help.

 

[Geoff2024]

Yet you're still a hopeless virgin. Like I said, try 6 times maybe that would help.

Bhai, I am ok with the fate allah has allowed for me, sex does not define me.

 

[Gengar]

Nearly 95% of them are dressed too slutty to me.

Maherfishing in London

Greatest Chadfish experiment

looksmax.org

It was a 30 min conversation. These stand out

• I was greying
• My family treat girls differently
• I have almost no friends
• I live by myself
• I implied I want to go on dates and don't want to get married straight away - at the same time I said I hate people on this app who plan to marry in years
• I said I get like 4 profile views a day and can't see people who like me
• Enquired about her own past and experiences on the app
• Spoke too much about myself generally.

These stand out. But honestly didn't think it was too bad.

Motherfucker and you are surprised she rejected you? So many red flags in here bhai. The bolded things are fine. Rest are all bad.

 

[Geoff2024]

Yeah forget him, he's a major coper. Thinks he knows more about our community than he does, as an outsider.

Exactly, tries to seem like he knows it all, very cringe bhai don't be like him

 

[jojoyou]

Go have a drink and enjoy with friends

 

[Gengar]

Bhai, I am ok with the fate allah has allowed for me, sex does not define me.

Ma sha Allah bhai. Mirin your deen. I am just like you. Don't let degenerates turn you into a degenerate. You got this!

 

[Gengar]

Exactly, tries to seem like he knows it all, very cringe bhai don't be like him

Don't worry bhai. I am nothing like that.

 

[Geoff2024]

Ma sha Allah bhai. Mirin your deen. I am just like you. Don't let degenerates turn you into a degenerate. You got this!

Mirin bhai, I am still sinning, but inshallah my religion deen gets stronger and stronger each day.

 

[Geoff2024]

Don't worry bhai. I am nothing like that.

Honestly the reason I wanna ascend is to be content with myself not to slay, I am the type of guy that wants something real with one woman.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Motherfucker and you are surprised she rejected you? So many red flags in here bhai. The bolded things are fine. Rest are all bad.

I thought honesty was the best policy

Which one was the worst one? Was it the fact I enquired about her past/experiences on Muzz? We're all on there for same purpose so didn't think it was that bad..

I forgot I also did also tell her I sometimes want to delete the app and just meet someone IRL lol

 

[KingBetaTut]

Nearly 95% of them are dressed too slutty to me. One is even naked in the thread below

I'm happy to accept a non-Muslim as long as they convert and someone who dresses decently - at least knee length clothing and covers cleavage.

Maherfishing in London

Greatest Chadfish experiment

looksmax.org

It was a 30 min conversation. These stand out

• I was greying
• My family treat girls differently
• I have almost no friends
• I live by myself
• I implied I want to go on dates and don't want to get married straight away - at the same time I said I hate people on this app who plan to marry in years
• I said I get like 4 profile views a day and can't see people who like me
• Enquired about her own past and experiences on the app
• Spoke too much about myself generally.

These stand out. But honestly didn't think it was too bad.

Nearly 95% of them are dressed too slutty to me. One is even naked in the thread below

I'm happy to accept a non-Muslim as long as they convert and someone who dresses decently - at least knee length clothing and covers cleavage.

Maherfishing in London

Greatest Chadfish experiment

looksmax.org

It was a 30 min conversation. These stand out

• I was greying
• My family treat girls differently
• I have almost no friends
• I live by myself
• I implied I want to go on dates and don't want to get married straight away - at the same time I said I hate people on this app who plan to marry in years
• I said I get like 4 profile views a day and can't see people who like me
• Enquired about her own past and experiences on the app
• Spoke too much about myself generally.

These stand out. But honestly didn't think it was too bad.

I mean if you havent tried hinge b4 why wouldn’t you want to at least find out your smv on there?

 

[Geoff2024]

I thought honesty was the best policy

Which one was the worst one? Was it the fact I enquired about her past/experiences on Muzz? We're all on there for same purpose so didn't think it was that bad..

I forgot I also did also tell her I sometimes want to delete the app and just meet someone IRL lol

Can your mom find a good god fearing woman for you?

 

[SecularIslamist]

I mean if you havent tried hinge b4 why wouldn’t you want to at least find out your smv on there?

I know it's better. A lot of guys here who have used both have said it's a massive confidence booster over Muzz AND the girls are better looking. But being Muslim, dressing decently and no alcohol is a must for me. I understand nearly all won't be Muslim and all will drink, but I feel I can make them convertmax JFL.

They also would want sex before marriage. I don't mind other intimate relations but not that w/o marriage.

Can your mom find a good god fearing woman for you?

Yes but only back home. I have consistently said I don't want that. I know she can find a good one - in looks, education and personality', but still I don't want to. I'm not marrying a non-western raised foid.

 

[Geoff2024]

I know it's better. A lot of guys here who have used both have said it's a massive confidence booster over Muzz AND the girls are better looking. But being Muslim, dressing decently and no alcohol is a must for me. I understand nearly all won't be Muslim and all will drink, but I feel I can make them convertmax JFL.


Yes but only back home. I have consistently said I don't want that. I know she can find a good one - in looks, education and personality', but still I don't want to. I'm not marrying a non-western raised foid.

Why not? The western Muslims are fucked mentally

 

[Gengar]

Mirin bhai, I am still sinning, but inshallah my religion deen gets stronger and stronger each day.

I sin everyday too (by not praying) so don't worry. And in sha Allah.

 

[Gengar]

Honestly the reason I wanna ascend is to be content with myself not to slay, I am the type of guy that wants something real with one woman.

Mirin your mentality bhai. Yes I feel the same way; I don't care about slaying or anything. LTR mogs. But alas sadly I am a subhuman.

 

[Geoff2024]

Don't worry bhai. I am nothing like that.

The muslim brotherhood is what redeems this shit site

 

[Geoff2024]

Mirin your mentality bhai. Yes I feel the same way; I don't care about slaying or anything. LTR mogs. But alas sadly I am a subhuman.

Me too bhai have you seen me? We are in the same boat

 

[SecularIslamist]

Why not? The western Muslims are fucked mentally

Yes this is true. But I feel communication and understanding would be a problem.

To be completely honest I'm not the best Muslim (presently and before). I'm basically a Friday Muslim tbh. But I do feel strongly about faith. Many women on Muzz are on my level tbh. Some are at opposite extremes.

I feel MENA women from places like Turkey, Morroco and Algeria are fine. Not too westernised and not too Islamic (astagfirullah).

 

[Geoff2024]

Mirin your mentality bhai. Yes I feel the same way; I don't care about slaying or anything. LTR mogs. But alas sadly I am a subhuman.

+ Allah has written someone for me and you, believing in his plan is part of the deen bro.

 

[Gengar]

I thought honesty was the best policy

Which one was the worst one? Was it the fact I enquired about her past/experiences on Muzz? We're all on there for same purpose so didn't think it was that bad..

I forgot I also did also tell her I sometimes want to delete the app and just meet someone IRL lol

You're right; honesty is the best policy, however, being honest can get you in trouble, too. I can attest to that fact. Anyway, there's a bunch of stuff here that are equally bad. No, you inquiring about her past wasn't the worst one on the list but for many women it's a bad question. Personally I think it's a normal question to ask but many women think differently.

 

[Geoff2024]

Yes this is true. But I feel communication and understanding would be a problem.

To be completely honest I'm not the best Muslim (presently and before). I'm basically a Friday Muslim tbh. But I do feel strongly about faith. Many women on Muzz are on my level tbh. Some are at opposite extremes.

I feel MENA women from places like Turkey, Morroco and Algeria are fine. Not too westernised and not too Islamic (astagfirullah).

My brother, as long as you have an atom of faith in your heart and you really believe in Allah, don't worry and worry gradually on your religion

 

[Gengar]

Why not? The western Muslims are fucked mentally

Some good ones here and there but they're a tiny minority that's already claimed.

 

[Gengar]

+ Allah has written someone for me and you, believing in his plan is part of the deen bro.

You are too positive when it comes to me. I am an utter subhuman, I don't have any hopes.

 

[human304]

Tbf, we are Indian but Muslim. Our phenos are pretty much Pakistanis.

so by this logic a muslim from West Bengal, Assam, Kerala and Hyderabad looks like a guy from Pakistan ????

also there is no Pakistani pheno , they have the Central Asia and/or Arab pheno. another thing Islam is a religion not a race.

 

[SecularIslamist]

so by this logic a muslim from West Bengal, Assam, Kerala and Hyderabad looks like a guy from Pakistan ????

also there is no Pakistani pheno , they have the Central Asia and/or Arab pheno. another thing Islam is a religion not a race.

I'm from Bangladesh. The girl yesterday thought I looked either Pakistani or Arab JFL.

 

[human304]

I'm from Bangladesh. The girl yesterday thought I looked either Pakistani or Arab JFL.

" tell her no bitch I have Aryan pheno " , your ancestors were probably aryans / persians and or migrated from central asia and settled in bengal.

you probably have a straight nose, fair skin . in Pakistani textbooks they portray bengali's as short , ugly and dark skinned people so might have got shocked. (you can check pakistan class 9-10 text books to verify my point). she is indirectly insulting you.

agian there is no Pakistani pheno, you should also tell her that its a made up nation that is only glued together by islam and the bond is slowly weakening ( situation is dire in Pakistan in 2023).

 

[JohnDoe]

It could have been any number of things really. Your voice, something you said like maybe your views/requirements/outlook on life/what you expect from her/etc. Chances are that someone who would block you out of the blue like that isn't worth talking to or marrying. Muzz really is hit or miss, mostly miss for men since south asian foids are very picky in general, and then you have the rare MTB and her standards must be through the roof. The good thing is that your looks don't seem to be the problem otherwise she wouldn't have bothered talking to you for 2 weeks. You can try hinge, there's probably south asian foids on there but just don't expect them to be very religious or anything. From what i can see, you seem like a catch, well educated, earn above average with a good career, good looking for south asian standards and your height 5'8 which isn't tall but you can easily fraud 2 inches with good shoes and then it's not too much of a problem. Was the foid paki or bengali?
Women are retarded, especially western south asian foids. Keep your head up bhai.

 

[Bojack]

Man; I must have been rejected thousands of times by this point.

 

[JohnDoe]

" tell her no bitch I have Aryan pheno " , your ancestors were probably aryans / persians and or migrated from central asia and settled in bengal.

you probably have a straight nose, fair skin . in Pakistani textbooks they portray bengali's as short , ugly and dark skinned people so might have got shocked. (you can check pakistan class 9-10 text books to verify my point). she is indirectly insulting you.

agian there is no Pakistani pheno, you should also tell her that its a made up nation that is only glued together by islam and the bond is slowly weakening ( situation is dire in Pakistan in 2023).

woah woah hold on there pajeet, lot of opinion being passed off as fact here. No offence to the OP but bengalis are usually shorter/darker skinned and he's said as much in previous posts. Pakistanis are taller, fairer skinned but i personally think bengalis have better facial structures on average, regardless there's not much difference between us in the eyes of non-south asians. There definitely is a pakistani pheno, you don't know what you're talking about. I can instantly tell if a guy is paki/indian/bengali and i'm 99% correct when i do guess.

 

[SecularIslamist]

It could have been any number of things really. Your voice, something you said like maybe your views/requirements/outlook on life/what you expect from her/etc. Chances are that someone who would block you out of the blue like that isn't worth talking to or marrying.

That would be retarded. I honestly don't think I said anything that bad or worthy of a block. @TRUE_CEL disagreed but you can see the points I made in the post at the top of this page.

I think the worst I did was talk about myself too much and saying my family are conservative to women. This feels brutal, even if she felt there was a potential conflict she already made her mind. I can imagine if I was younger it would wreck me but I'm too old to give a fuck now.

Muzz really is hit or miss, mostly miss for men since south asian foids are very picky in general, and then you have the rare MTB and her standards must be through the roof. The good thing is that your looks don't seem to be the problem otherwise she wouldn't have bothered talking to you for 2 weeks. You can try hinge, there's probably south asian foids on there but just don't expect them to be very religious or anything. From what i can see, you seem like a catch, well educated, earn above average with a good career, good looking for south asian standards and your height 5'8 which isn't tall but you can easily fraud 2 inches with good shoes and then it's not too much of a problem. Was the foid paki or bengali?
Women are retarded, especially western south asian foids. Keep your head up bhai.

She was bengali'. I think I showed you her pics before. Some people said she's HTB lol. She was 5'5 so quite tall for bengali.

I'm pissed off that I'm having to resort to a non-Muslim app after all to get better quality and more matches. I do get likes on my profile but they're too LTB for me too seriously consider. Even this one I felt high tier LTB after she showed me more pics.

Insha'Allah I don't have to resort to haram on Hinge. I will be responsible for committing my own sins but growing up in this cucked western non-Muslim society is leaving me with no choice. I will never drink alcohol, but if having sex with someone I can LTR and potentially marry/convert than I'm considering it sadly.

 

[JohnDoe]

That would be retarded. I honestly don't think I said anything that bad or worthy of a block. @TRUE_CEL disagreed but you can see the points I made in the post at the top of this page.

I think the worst I did was talk about myself too much and saying my family are conservative to women. This feels brutal, even if she felt there was a potential conflict she already made her mind. I can imagine if I was younger it would wreck me but I'm too old to give a fuck now.

She was bengali'. I think I showed you her pics before. Some people said she's HTB lol. She was 5'5 so quite tall for bengali.

I'm pissed off that I'm having to resort to a non-Muslim app after all to get better quality and more matches. I do get likes on my profile but they're too LTB for me too seriously consider. Even this one I felt high tier LTB after she showed me more pics.

Insha'Allah I don't have to resort to haram on Hinge. I will be responsible for committing my own sins but growing up in this cucked western non-Muslim society is leaving me with no choice. I will never drink alcohol, but if having sex with someone I can LTR and potentially marry/convert than I'm considering it sadly.

Fuck you blew it hard, holy fuck bro this was a trainwreck. Even my autistic ass knows better.
Multiple red flags, to us guys we don't think too much about stuff like that but women think differently and make a note of everything in their mind so you have to be careful about what you say, especially in the early stages. Truecel is right, you said a lot of shit you shouldn't have. Lets go over it.
>I am greying
I'm assuming you're talking about your hair? What was the need to mention this? It's an obvious turnoff for women in their 20s when you mention grey hair, it's a sign of premature aging. There's simply no need to ever say such a thing to a girl you just started talking to. Dye your hair ir something and if greying is referring to something else then ignore this.
>my family treat girls differently
Another redflag. Again, why mention this when you know these western muslim foids hate guys who are too religious but also family who she thinks will restrict her and not let her live life the way she wants. This is ofcourse assuming you meant it in a negative way like typical south asian families who favor men over women and this is obviously not something she wants to hear.
>i have no friends and live by myself
Another redflag, this tells her you're anti-social, introvert, don't get along with others, recluse, something wrong with you etc. Basically told her you're non-nt which is a death sentence. The living alone part can be a good thing only if everything else checks out which you made sure it didn't.
>i hate people who wait years to get married
You basically said you hate her since she has been on the app for a year and probably felt offended, maybe not but not necessary to say this and it's being a little pushy aka you want to get married asap but she probably wants to take her time even though you want to go on dates.
Fairly obvious what happened now that i read that post. Women want to talk about themselves and they want a fun and interesting guy, not a loner with strict family.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Fuck you blew it hard, holy fuck bro this was a trainwreck. Even my autistic ass knows better.

Holy fuck I need self awareness.

Multiple red flags, to us guys we don't think too much about stuff like that but women think differently and make a note of everything in their mind so you have to be careful about what you say, especially in the early stages. Truecel is right, you said a lot of shit you shouldn't have. Lets go over it.
>I am greying
I'm assuming you're talking about your hair? What was the need to mention this? It's an obvious turnoff for women in their 20s when you mention grey hair, it's a sign of premature aging. There's simply no need to ever say such a thing to a girl you just started talking to. Dye your hair ir something and if greying is referring to something else then ignore this.

Fair enough. But I didn't think greying was that bad - especially for guys. Btw I look young despite it. That's how the convo got going because she said I look young - or it's not too late to get married and I retorted I'm greying lol. It wasn't like I randomly mentioned it like an autist, the convo flowed fine I was jokey about it anyway.

>my family treat girls differently
Another redflag. Again, why mention this when you know these western muslim foids hate guys who are too religious but also family who she thinks will restrict her and not let her live life the way she wants. This is ofcourse assuming you meant it in a negative way like typical south asian families who favor men over women and this is obviously not something she wants to hear.

Yeah. She was like it's weird how my parents let me choose a spouse but wouldn't let my sister (I previously mentioned this on our chat). She had actually raised the point during our call - not me. On reflection, yeah this definitely spooked her. During our chats she did ask 'are your family conservative?' I responded we're neither. I think this call was the last straw

>i have no friends and live by myself
Another redflag, this tells her you're anti-social, introvert, don't get along with others, recluse, something wrong with you etc. Basically told her you're non-nt which is a death sentence. The living alone part can be a good thing only if everything else checks out which you made sure it didn't.

This is understandable but I really can't say the opposite though. She regularly asked how my weekend is, what I do in my spare time. I lied a couple of times at first but it got to the stage she was enquiring so much I literally mentioned all my real friends are hundreds of miles away and I don't have any contacts near me. I do genuinely LDAR.

>i hate people who wait years to get married
You basically said you hate her since she has been on the app for a year and probably felt offended, maybe not but not necessary to say this and it's being a little pushy aka you want to get married asap but she probably wants to take her time even though you want to go on dates.

We talked about this prior to the call. She said she wants to get married within 6 months to a year. I said that sounds perfect just like me. But yeah I did sound hostile to those who were looking to be in a relationship for over a year. This point probably isn't as bad as the other.

Fairly obvious what happened now that i read that post. Women want to talk about themselves and they want a fun and interesting guy, not a loner with strict family.

My family (mother) might be strict towards women but I'm given off the leash. Its not like I'd be like her but yeah I'm guessing my my mother wouldn't approve of women going out or dressing the way she does (although imo she dressed fine).

There are some loner girls on the app as well in strict family, hoping they can escape their family without damaging their relationship with them. Maybe I'll try them. I liked this one literally because she was the best looking of the bunch not because I liked her profile - which was non-existent. She is definitely liberal because I FB stalked her. Not too liberal though, to the point I can compromise.

Thanks for your response and breakdown. It's given me some food for thought.

 

[JohnDoe]

Holy fuck I need self awareness.

Fair enough. But I didn't think greying was that bad - especially for guys. Btw I look young despite it. That's how the convo got going because she said I look young - or it's not too late to get married and I retorted I'm greying lol. It wasn't like I randomly mentioned it like an autist, the convo flowed fine I was jokey about it anyway.


Yeah. She was like it's weird how my parents let me choose a spouse but wouldn't let my sister (I previously mentioned this on our chat). She had actually raised the point during our call - not me. On reflection, yeah this definitely spooked her. During our chats she did ask 'are your family conservative?' I responded we're neither. I think this call was the last straw

This is understandable but I really can't say the opposite though. She regularly asked how my weekend is, what I do in my spare time. I lied a couple of times at first but it got to the stage she was enquiring so much I literally mentioned all my real friends are hundreds of miles away and I don't have any contacts near me. I do genuinely LDAR.

We talked about this prior to the call. She said she wants to get married within 6 months to a year. I said that sounds perfect just like me. But yeah I did sound hostile to those who were looking to be in a relationship for over a year. This point probably isn't as bad as the other.

My family (mother) might be strict towards women but I'm given off the leash. Its not like I'd be like her but yeah I'm guessing my my mother wouldn't approve of women going out or dressing the way she does (although imo she dressed fine).

There are some loner girls on the app as well in strict family, hoping they can escape their family without damaging their relationship with them. Maybe I'll try them. I liked this one literally because she was the best looking of the bunch not because I liked her profile - which was non-existent. She is definitely liberal because I FB stalked her. Not too liberal though, to the point I can compromise.

Thanks for your response and breakdown. It's given me some food for thought.

Many fish in the sea, time to try again and this time not let out such unnecessary information. Also, let her do most of the talking and you may be LDARing but you don't need to mention it.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Many fish in the sea, time to try again and this time not let out such unnecessary information. Also, let her do most of the talking and you may be LDARing but you don't need to mention it.

Agreed. But they'll find out anyway...

Once most people are in a relationship and then kids. Having friends or a social circle hardly matters. Maybe for youngsters, but my age range is 22-27 years old.

 

[JohnDoe]

Agreed. But they'll find out anyway...

Once most people are in a relationship and then kids. Having friends or a social circle hardly matters. Maybe for youngsters, but my age range is 22-27 years old.

Yh it doesn't matter that much but initially they do want you to be a social person, to have friends and do fun stuff like going on holidays, restaurants, the usual bullshit that women like to do. Basically they want some kind of proof that you're NT. However, i thought that was the point of going on dates, to find out what the other person is truly like so not sure what these foids are after really if they ghost before even going on one date. Although in your case it was too many redflags but hopefully next time it turns out better.

 

[Zer0/∞]

You’re a Bengali?

 

[Zer0/∞]

Why do curryfoids like you and not me? Fucking ragefuel, you’re probably a poopskin compared to me.

 

[NeedToSucceed]

hows your experience on that app?

are most girls virgin or not?

are they strict muslims?

 

[SecularIslamist]

You’re a Bengali?

Yes.

Why do curryfoids like you and not me? Fucking ragefuel, you’re probably a poopskin compared to me.

Nah I never get told I look Bengali. Usually Pakistani or arab. Sometimes Persian/Iranian.

hows your experience on that app?

Shit. It's basically ethnicity match 99% of my profile views are same ethnicity.

Apparently I didn't do too bad approx 20 matches in 24 hours. But all LTBs apart from one MTB.

are most girls virgin or not?

Some are divorced. Sure many are lying after all they seem to be secularised and liberal but I don't think they are complete whitewashed hoes.

are they strict muslims?

Nearly all of them are not. Even the hijabi one. You come across the odd salafi type but that's it. Funny thing is, if you ARE religious that's a negative. So many people say I want someone who's 'modern' a.k.a not religious jfl. I'm not even religious but sounded a little misogynist in my call hence why I spooked this girl.

 

[Zer0/∞]

Yes.

Nah I never get told I look Bengali. Usually Pakistani or arab. Sometimes Persian.


Shit. It's basically ethnicity match 99% of my profile views are same ethnicity.

Apparently I didn't do too bad approx 20 matches in 24 hours. But all LTBs apart from one MTB.

Some are divorced. Sure many are lying after all they seem to be secularised and liberal but I don't think they are complete whitewashed hoes.

Nearly all of them are not. Even the hijabi one. You come across the odd salafi type but that's it. Funny thing is, if you ARE religious that's a negative. So many people say I want someone who's 'modern' a.k.a not religious jfl.

Are you a KHHV? Lifefuel if true.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Are you a KHHV? Lifefuel if true.

No. I had a fuckaround spell at uni when I was younger. Regret it. But no P in V in approx 5 years. I will never go near haram again inshallah.

 

[Acne Victim]

lol first rejection? damn lil bro how can you even find this forum before getting rejected countless times

 

[SecularIslamist]

lol first rejection? damn lil bro how can you even find this forum before getting rejected countless times

First ever time using OLD. I've only had two short term relationship before.

Other than that I feel KHHV ngl. I'm 28 btw jfl. I'm glad I'm older as I'm around an age where I just don't give a fuck anymore..I can imagine this destroying my old self

 

[NeedToSucceed]

Nearly all of them are not. Even the hijabi one. You come across the odd salafi type but that's it. Funny thing is, if you ARE religious that's a negative. So many people say I want someone who's 'modern' a.k.a not religious jfl. I'm not even religious but sounded a little misogynist in my call hence why I spooked this girl.

are you looking for a religious girl?

where can one find real muslim women online this day and age

 

[SecularIslamist]

are you looking for a religious girl?

where can one find real muslim women online this day and age

Tbh I'm not that religious - so I don't think a religious one would want me and vice versa. Although I abide more to the ethics than practice. I'm just 'moderately practicing' tbh.

The actual religious ones get arranged marriages at young age. They end up much happier and live fulfilling lives tbh