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This forum has a horrible obsession with being an emotionless zombie because they think that a girl will leave them the instant they try to open up.
The reality is that opening up is both inevitable and necessary in a LTR.
Its inevitable because good luck trying to maintain your emotionless zombie facade for more then a couple of years
And it's necessary because: if you don't feel comfortable being open with a girl then that means that you don't trust her because you think that she will leave you if she sees the real you. And that lack of trust will poison your relationship.
If a girl genuinely likes you she will want you to be more attached to her.
So if a girl that likes you sees that you are sad she will think:
And on the other hand if a girl sees that your sad and decides to leave you because you "showed weakness" then the girl never liked you to begin with, because if she did like you she would have used that opportunity to get closer to you.
The reality is that opening up is both inevitable and necessary in a LTR.
Its inevitable because good luck trying to maintain your emotionless zombie facade for more then a couple of years
And it's necessary because: if you don't feel comfortable being open with a girl then that means that you don't trust her because you think that she will leave you if she sees the real you. And that lack of trust will poison your relationship.
If a girl genuinely likes you she will want you to be more attached to her.
So if a girl that likes you sees that you are sad she will think:
Oh no someone that I like is sad! I should cheer him up that way he will be more attached to me.
And on the other hand if a girl sees that your sad and decides to leave you because you "showed weakness" then the girl never liked you to begin with, because if she did like you she would have used that opportunity to get closer to you.
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