Devastated after girlfriend left me

[bddcoper]

Makes me so sad as she fell in love first and wanted to date I gave her everything and tried to listen. She would never tell me what’s wrong she would always get moody then get mad when I mirror her energy. I don’t get it I wait 3 months over the summer for a long distance relationship just to get broken up with 2 days after coming back in person.

I’ve managed to improve myself so much since two years ago (knew her after I ascended since December-January) and when I asked her she said it wasn’t a looks thing and that I just wasn’t considerate or affectionate enough. I don’t believe her despite her always calling me cute or pretty randomly. When I brought up stuff I was upset by just said she’d be willing to change but not for me because I’m not worth the effort.

This all escalated because of a mean reply I sent after she was bitchy to me yesterday (guessing the plan b she took 2 days ago made her moody). She showed her friend and an hour later she texts me that we are broken up I invite her over to talk and she just tells me everything above

I was okay last night but this morning I woke up devastated and couldn’t fall back asleep. She was my first real love and I was hers.
I’m sure I’ll find someone else but maybe I won’t either way I know I’ll still be scarred months from now because of her words and know this will happen in my next relationship

 

[oyjah]

Makes me so sad as she fell in love first and wanted to date I gave her everything and tried to listen. She would never tell me what’s wrong she would always get moody then get mad when I mirror her energy. I don’t get it I wait 3 months over the summer for a long distance relationship just to get broken up with 2 days after coming back in person.

I’ve managed to improve myself so much since two years ago (knew her after I ascended since December-January) and when I asked her she said it wasn’t a looks thing and that I just wasn’t considerate or affectionate enough. I don’t believe her despite her always calling me cute or pretty randomly. When I brought up stuff I was upset by just said she’d be willing to change but not for me because I’m not worth the effort.

This all escalated because of a mean reply I sent after she was bitchy to me yesterday (guessing the plan b she took 2 days ago made her moody). She showed her friend and an hour later she texts me that we are broken up I invite her over to talk and she just tells me everything above

I was okay last night but this morning I woke up devastated and couldn’t fall back asleep. She was my first real love and I was hers.
I’m sure I’ll find someone else but maybe I won’t either way I know I’ll still be scarred months from now because of her words and know this will happen in my next relationship

Wish u the best bro, read the whole thing and tbh nowadays relationships are really complicated. Hope u will be able to get back on ur feet soon bro

 

[vantaa_s]

Makes me so sad as she fell in love first and wanted to date I gave her everything and tried to listen. She would never tell me what’s wrong she would always get moody then get mad when I mirror her energy. I don’t get it I wait 3 months over the summer for a long distance relationship just to get broken up with 2 days after coming back in person.

I’ve managed to improve myself so much since two years ago (knew her after I ascended since December-January) and when I asked her she said it wasn’t a looks thing and that I just wasn’t considerate or affectionate enough. I don’t believe her despite her always calling me cute or pretty randomly. When I brought up stuff I was upset by just said she’d be willing to change but not for me because I’m not worth the effort.

This all escalated because of a mean reply I sent after she was bitchy to me yesterday (guessing the plan b she took 2 days ago made her moody). She showed her friend and an hour later she texts me that we are broken up I invite her over to talk and she just tells me everything above

I was okay last night but this morning I woke up devastated and couldn’t fall back asleep. She was my first real love and I was hers.
I’m sure I’ll find someone else but maybe I won’t either way I know I’ll still be scarred months from now because of her words and know this will happen in my next relationship

dnr

 

[Azi.org]

Dnr fakecel

 

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[Divineincel]

Makes me so sad as she fell in love first and wanted to date I gave her everything and tried to listen. She would never tell me what’s wrong she would always get moody then get mad when I mirror her energy. I don’t get it I wait 3 months over the summer for a long distance relationship just to get broken up with 2 days after coming back in person.

I’ve managed to improve myself so much since two years ago (knew her after I ascended since December-January) and when I asked her she said it wasn’t a looks thing and that I just wasn’t considerate or affectionate enough. I don’t believe her despite her always calling me cute or pretty randomly. When I brought up stuff I was upset by just said she’d be willing to change but not for me because I’m not worth the effort.

This all escalated because of a mean reply I sent after she was bitchy to me yesterday (guessing the plan b she took 2 days ago made her moody). She showed her friend and an hour later she texts me that we are broken up I invite her over to talk and she just tells me everything above

I was okay last night but this morning I woke up devastated and couldn’t fall back asleep. She was my first real love and I was hers.
I’m sure I’ll find someone else but maybe I won’t either way I know I’ll still be scarred months from now because of her words and know this will happen in my next relationship

JBF theory is real

 

[Kiernan Sheridan]

Honestly bro it just seems like something to learn from. You’re always gonna have struggles in relationships since none of us are perfect, but it seems like she’s just not the one (as much as that hurts)

 

[bddcoper]

Honestly bro it just seems like something to learn from. You’re always gonna have struggles in relationships since none of us are perfect, but it seems like she’s just not the one (as much as that hurts)

But why doesn’t she say anything she apparently only got the idea 2 weeks ago and now acted on it. I wish she wouldve just told me what’s wrong

She says she just wants someone better in every way

 

[vexd]

dnr dnr dnr dnr

 

[bddcoper]

Wish u the best bro, read the whole thing and tbh nowadays relationships are really complicated. Hope u will be able to get back on ur feet soon bro

Thank you man I just saw your comment past all the dnrs just rambling so you don’t have to read the rest ik it’s long

I don’t know what more I could’ve done tbh I’ve taken her out despite me not having much money and cared for her more than she has for me yet it’s not enough. She assumes the worst in me and is upset I don’t take her out more despite knowing my situation and coming from a very poor family herself. It just makes no sense

We had plans we spent the entire summer talking about how amazing our semester would be together and now it’s all gone in 2 days I shouldn’t have listened to her and made her take the plan b. I know even for myself with supraphysiological hormones I act different and more arrogant but it’s just lower inhibition and whatever thoughts I get have always been there… kind of like red kryptonite. It must be the same with her

 

[oyjah]

Thank you man I just saw your comment past all the dnrs just rambling so you don’t have to read the rest ik it’s long

I don’t know what more I could’ve done tbh I’ve taken her out despite me not having much money and cared for her more than she has for me yet it’s not enough. She assumes the worst in me and is upset I don’t take her out more despite knowing my situation and coming from a very poor family herself. It just makes no sense

We had plans we spent the entire summer talking about how amazing our semester would be together and now it’s all gone in 2 days I shouldn’t have listened to her and made her take the plan b. I know even for myself with supraphysiological hormones I act different and more arrogant but it’s just lower inhibition and whatever thoughts I get have always been there… kind of like red kryptonite. It must be the same with her

bro, what matters is you done your best u cared and spent ur time for her, u also took her out despite ur situation. frm what u wrote u didn’t do anything wrong at all, i mean if she doesn’t value what you do and just leaves u like that, i think its best for you to find someone better

Now this makes me think since i have a crush, i cant just see whats on the outside, gotta see if shes genuine or not but unfortunately most women these days aren’t genuine lol

Lmk if u wna talk or anything wish u the best

 

[bddcoper]

bro, what matters is you done your best u cared and spent ur time for her, u also took her out despite ur situation. frm what u wrote u didn’t do anything wrong at all, i mean if she doesn’t value what you do and just leaves u like that, i think its best for you to find someone better

Now this makes me think since i have a crush, i cant just see whats on the outside, gotta see if shes genuine or not but unfortunately most women these days aren’t genuine lol

Lmk if u wna talk or anything wish u the best

One of her complaints is that when we had sex it always hurt because she wasn’t ready. I didn’t know it was a bad type of hurt and already said I didn’t mean it but that’s also why. It’s like she’s never ready enough then is upset the sex is bad we’re both each others first sexually so idk where the expectations come from

I mean I would love to talk but I’m not sure what to even think as I barely know what happened. This was all sudden I miss her obviously but after what she said it’s unlikely we’ll ever be serious again maybe just hook up but even then it’s like how can I hookup with someone who doesn’t love me (and potentially never did).



My tip for you: All women are the same in terms of this hive mentality. They all lie and think the same don’t think any are unique for a second. Even for me I found the most innocent inexperienced girl (all girls school, virgin, im her first) and she just wanted more and envies other girls for their boyfriends. What they see on social media is so overblown so they expect so much out of a relationship. They want a 6’3”+ htn with a good build who showers them with gifts and takes them out and they won’t put in much effort long term unless the right guy shows up. Gifts are optional obviously if you look good enough. Mine wanted me at my best and now leaves me at my worst so if yours can’t be with you through struggle it’s not meant to be

 

[sonic55555]

Makes me so sad as she fell in love first and wanted to date I gave her everything and tried to listen. She would never tell me what’s wrong she would always get moody then get mad when I mirror her energy. I don’t get it I wait 3 months over the summer for a long distance relationship just to get broken up with 2 days after coming back in person.

I’ve managed to improve myself so much since two years ago (knew her after I ascended since December-January) and when I asked her she said it wasn’t a looks thing and that I just wasn’t considerate or affectionate enough. I don’t believe her despite her always calling me cute or pretty randomly. When I brought up stuff I was upset by just said she’d be willing to change but not for me because I’m not worth the effort.

This all escalated because of a mean reply I sent after she was bitchy to me yesterday (guessing the plan b she took 2 days ago made her moody). She showed her friend and an hour later she texts me that we are broken up I invite her over to talk and she just tells me everything above

I was okay last night but this morning I woke up devastated and couldn’t fall back asleep. She was my first real love and I was hers.
I’m sure I’ll find someone else but maybe I won’t either way I know I’ll still be scarred months from now because of her words and know this will happen in my next relationship

did you even get inside of her vagina? or is this some Edating relationship

 

[bddcoper]

did you even get inside of her vagina? or is this some Edating relationship

Obviously it’s in person from uni we started dating officially after she asked me in April then summer is from may to August then she leaves me. We’ve argued online over the summer but i guess she never got over them so it added to the tension

 

[sonic55555]

Obviously it’s in person from uni we started dating officially after she asked me in April then summer is from may to August then she leaves me. We’ve argued online over the summer but i guess she never got over them so it added to the tension

u should date 35 year old foids instead, they are much more loyal

 

[oyjah]

One of her complaints is that when we had sex it always hurt because she wasn’t ready. I didn’t know it was a bad type of hurt and already said I didn’t mean it but that’s also why. It’s like she’s never ready enough then is upset the sex is bad we’re both each others first sexually so idk where the expectations come from

I mean I would love to talk but I’m not sure what to even think as I barely know what happened. This was all sudden I miss her obviously but after what she said it’s unlikely we’ll ever be serious again maybe just hook up but even then it’s like how can I hookup with someone who doesn’t love me (and potentially never did).



My tip for you: All women are the same in terms of this hive mentality. They all lie and think the same don’t think any are unique for a second. Even for me I found the most innocent inexperienced girl (all girls school, virgin, im her first) and she just wanted more and envies other girls for their boyfriends. What they see on social media is so overblown so they expect so much out of a relationship. They want a 6’3”+ htn with a good build who showers them with gifts and takes them out and they won’t put in much effort long term unless the right guy shows up. Gifts are optional obviously if you look good enough. Mine wanted me at my best and now leaves me at my worst so if yours can’t be with you through struggle it’s not meant to be

Well, im not sure about the sex part lol, idk why she was never ready tho. thats weird from her

Unfortunately sometimes breakup just happens all of a sudden, and i think that since u already did ur best, u didn’t do anything wrong. i hope u are able to find someone much better, although genuine females are hard to find i hope u do find one

And also, thanks for the advice u gave and sharing your experience appreciate it.
Also makes me realise tho, women glaze each other so much their egos through the roof and social media makes them have such high expectations for men makes me think its so over lol, to find a good relationship. i think my crush is def one of them

Thx for sharing with me bro, hope u get back up soon u did ur best, wasn’t ur fault best we can do is look forward