Do any of you get IOI's?

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I used to get a lot of very obvious IOI's now I barely get any

My health got fucked up though so I stopped looksmaxxing and only do the bare minimum to level of looksmaxxing to remain presentable in the meantime so that's my excuse

But I'm curious if any of you get IOI's because even though my looks have taken a hit I still feel like the level of attention I get has dropped precipitously and more than reasonable considering my looks

I'm curious if women are just giving out less IOI's in general nowadays to everyone

Lmk your thoughts :unsure:
 
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Whats that
 
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In the past, kinda rare but did happen. Nowadays, almost never. Got one recently. :feelsautistic:
 
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Whats that
IOI = Indicator of Interest

Girls staring at you
Smiling at you while staring
Playing with their hair while staring at you while smiling

Basically girls trying to communicate that they find you attractive
 
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Indicator of interest. Emphasis on “indicator.” Doesn’t necessarily imply actual interest, but could be that.
 
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IOI = Indicator of Interest

Girls staring at you
Smiling at you while staring
Playing with their hair while staring at you while smiling

Basically girls trying to communicate that they find you attractive
No then
 
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Indicator of interest. Emphasis on “indicator.” Doesn’t necessarily imply actual interest, but could be that.
Blud askin a incel forum how many girls like them💔

I PM u btw
 
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In the past, kinda rare but did happen. Nowadays, almost never. Got one recently. :feelsautistic:
Do you feel women are becoming less expressive towards men in general or would you say it is another reason in your case?
 
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Blud askin a incel forum how many girls like them💔

I PM u btw
Lol, to be fair, this isn’t an incel forum. It’s a looksmax forum. :Comfy:
 
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Do you feel women are becoming less expressive towards men in general or would you say it is another reason in your case?
Less expressive, for sure. To ward off unwanted advances.
 
I used to get a lot of very obvious IOI's now I barely get any

My health got fucked up though so I stopped looksmaxxing and only do the bare minimum to level of looksmaxxing to remain presentable in the meantime so that's my excuse

But I'm curious if any of you get IOI's because even though my looks have taken a hit I still feel like the level of attention I get has dropped precipitously and more than reasonable considering my looks

I'm curious if women are just giving out less IOI's in general nowadays to everyone

Lmk your thoughts :unsure:
last one i got was like a month ago , i was wearing an eyeliner…:p
 
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Less expressive, for sure. To ward off unwanted advances.
In my case I feel like women are just less attracted to men and the bar is steadily raising

I still get occasional IOI's but it used to be a constant thing for me

Maybe it's just the first time in my life I'm not a mogger

Do you mind sharing where you are located?
 
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none, I'm ugly as fuck. If girls ever look at me a sign of disgust goes on their face.
 
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i barely go out anymore so no but i got a decent amount of ioi's back in hs
 
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none, I'm ugly as fuck. If girls ever look at me a sign of disgust goes on their face.
I'm experiencing neutrality for the first time and this feels brutal enough, I can't even imagine what that must feel like
 
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In my case I feel like women are just less attracted to men and the bar is steadily raising

I still get occasional IOI's but it used to be a constant thing for me

Maybe it's just the first time in my life I'm not a mogger

Do you mind sharing where you are located?
I’m in The Netherlands. I used to get them more frequently in the past, but I think that changed because I got older and look worse now. I’m not sure if they’re less attracted to men, perhaps they just get more attention than they used to. They just need to hop on a dating app and they’ll see men out of their looks range, for the better, matching with them. Knowing they can get better than the average guy they see outside, they might be showing less interest since they lost that. And have higher standards now. Could be. However, it’s important that not everything should be taken as an IOI. Some women have a bad habit of smiling at everyone, and men think it’s an IOI, so they approach them or make an unwanted advance in general, and then they stop doing that altogether because of men’s behavior. Could also be a mix of things.
 
I'm experiencing neutrality for the first time and this feels brutal enough, I can't even imagine what that must feel like
yeah, I mean it doesn't happen often, but either way it fucking hurts even if it only happened once in your life. this happens like every now and then (the disgust on their face), but girls rarely ever look at me whether we are in a conversation or not. i feel like legit no one looks at my fucking face.
 
I’m in The Netherlands. I used to get them more frequently in the past, but I think that changed because I got older and look worse now. I’m not sure if they’re less attracted to men, perhaps they just get more attention than they used to. They just need to hop on a dating app and they’ll see men out of their looks range, for the better, matching with them. Knowing they can get better than the average guy they see outside, they might be showing less interest since they lost that. And have higher standards now. Could be. However, it’s important that not everything should be taken as an IOI. Some women have a bad habit of smiling at everyone, and men think it’s an IOI, so they approach them or make an unwanted advance in general, and then they stop doing that altogether because of men’s behavior. Could also be a mix of things.
Ah yes I remember

Well the former is my theory. Idk but I have a sneaking suspicion the amount of moggers these women have access to and the constant social media feminist brainwashing is making these women top 0.1% only. It's just brutal. I'm far from a bad looking guy and these chicks rarely look at me right now. I can't imagine how little attention normal guys are getting. It could be a confluence of factors though.

I did have some woman openly smile at me to get my attention as she was walking by the other day and it was so out of the norm that I was immediately suspicious wtf was wrong with her. I just looked away because I don't want to deal with random women with my health the way it is. Idk if she thought I was cute or was just trying to put herself out there or what.

Nowadays I am surprised when random women act nicely towards me because it's mostly indifference. I realize that this cannot be good for the world when men are surprised when women act nicely towards them.
 
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not anymore
 
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yes, it makes ur eyes look more defined.
I've heard this but I've always been scared to fraud things that can be so easily removed. I think it can be done with the right swag though, like if you're some vampire opium nigga women will just think it's normal.
 
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I used to get a lot of very obvious IOI's now I barely get any

My health got fucked up though so I stopped looksmaxxing and only do the bare minimum to level of looksmaxxing to remain presentable in the meantime so that's my excuse

But I'm curious if any of you get IOI's because even though my looks have taken a hit I still feel like the level of attention I get has dropped precipitously and more than reasonable considering my looks

I'm curious if women are just giving out less IOI's in general nowadays to everyone

Lmk your thoughts :unsure:
Never
 
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Indicator of interest. Emphasis on “indicator.” Doesn’t necessarily imply actual interest, but could be that.
I don't believe in that.

If a girl likes you enough she will just ask you out.

Or at least get her friend to.
 
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sometimes
 
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I don't believe in that.

If a girl likes you enough she will just ask you out.

Or at least get her friend to.
Not really, many girls are too shy for that

Women give IOI's this has been a thing since dawn of time it's not some mystery theory

Not believing in this is just being wrong
 
I used to get a lot of very obvious IOI's now I barely get any

My health got fucked up though so I stopped looksmaxxing and only do the bare minimum to level of looksmaxxing to remain presentable in the meantime so that's my excuse

But I'm curious if any of you get IOI's because even though my looks have taken a hit I still feel like the level of attention I get has dropped precipitously and more than reasonable considering my looks

I'm curious if women are just giving out less IOI's in general nowadays to everyone

Lmk your thoughts :unsure:
Dating market is getting way harder @Foreverbrad @AscensionMan98 @SecularIslamist
 
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I used to get a lot of very obvious IOI's now I barely get any

My health got fucked up though so I stopped looksmaxxing and only do the bare minimum to level of looksmaxxing to remain presentable in the meantime so that's my excuse

But I'm curious if any of you get IOI's because even though my looks have taken a hit I still feel like the level of attention I get has dropped precipitously and more than reasonable considering my looks

I'm curious if women are just giving out less IOI's in general nowadays to everyone

Lmk your thoughts :unsure:
everytime I step out the house I am too bp'd to run pua game
 
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This is my thought
I used to slay easily with way lower SMV back in 2022-2023

Then after 2024 dating apps because a flake fest for me and stopped getting iois
 
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Ah yes I remember

Well the former is my theory. Idk but I have a sneaking suspicion the amount of moggers these women have access to and the constant social media feminist brainwashing is making these women top 0.1% only. It's just brutal. I'm far from a bad looking guy and these chicks rarely look at me right now. I can't imagine how little attention normal guys are getting. It could be a confluence of factors though.

I did have some woman openly smile at me to get my attention as she was walking by the other day and it was so out of the norm that I was immediately suspicious wtf was wrong with her. I just looked away because I don't want to deal with random women with my health the way it is. Idk if she thought I was cute or was just trying to put herself out there or what.

Nowadays I am surprised when random women act nicely towards me because it's mostly indifference. I realize that this cannot be good for the world when men are surprised when women act nicely towards them.
Can you show me in PMs what you look like? I’m curious. That said, I’m not entirely sold on the idea that women are more lookist than they were before. It’s because most couples I see are looksmatched, they’re rarely not looksmatched, from my experience.
 
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