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If you ask women on dates, they either
1) assume you’re desperate.
2) assume you’re going as a friend
3) end up not being attracted to you.
I know of precisely zero examples where the “guy asks girl on date” script leads to a successful long-term relationship. I know plenty of examples where the “girl asks guy on date” script works out.
The truth is that girls are attracted to some guys, and not attracted to others. Asking girls on dates has an approximately 0% chance of leading to anything worthwhile.
And there is a definite cost:
1) General emotional pain from putting yourself out there and getting rejected.
2) Nuclear rejection, in which you become “that guy” who’s been rejected by a bunch of girls. Nothing more unattractive in a guy.
3) Asking people out stops you from being happy being single, because, after all, you obviously wanted something more.
If a woman really likes you, she'll not expect you to take her on dates, she'll fuxk you directly, you simply can't build attraction on a fucking date lol simply doesn't works like that.
1) assume you’re desperate.
2) assume you’re going as a friend
3) end up not being attracted to you.
I know of precisely zero examples where the “guy asks girl on date” script leads to a successful long-term relationship. I know plenty of examples where the “girl asks guy on date” script works out.
The truth is that girls are attracted to some guys, and not attracted to others. Asking girls on dates has an approximately 0% chance of leading to anything worthwhile.
And there is a definite cost:
1) General emotional pain from putting yourself out there and getting rejected.
2) Nuclear rejection, in which you become “that guy” who’s been rejected by a bunch of girls. Nothing more unattractive in a guy.
3) Asking people out stops you from being happy being single, because, after all, you obviously wanted something more.
If a woman really likes you, she'll not expect you to take her on dates, she'll fuxk you directly, you simply can't build attraction on a fucking date lol simply doesn't works like that.