Do you have friends?

[Lonenely sigma]

People here often debate whether you need good looks or not to have friends, my take is that you do unless you are willing to be just a side-character and not the main one in the group.

That said, I legit haven't had a friend since 2022, he was a cool guy but we drifted apart because I became too envious of his great cheekbones and just couldn't cope with him being the main character in every interaction ever.

And hanging out with other social outcasts always seemed embarassing to me, why'd I want to be associated with someone who isn't popular either?

 

[aryan mogger]

No bcuz im lonewolf sigma

 

[Lonenely sigma]

No bcuz im lonewolf sigma

Mirin' reply edit

 

[ToryToad]

I have friends but i am just like u said the side character

 

[strixent]

Looks dont really matter in terms of getting friends unless your extremely ugly and nd

 

[batman1997]

1 retarded friend Who reality didnt hit him yet

 

[Arminus]

People here often debate whether you need good looks or not to have friends, my take is that you do unless you are willing to be just a side-character and not the main one in the group.

That said, I legit haven't had a friend since 2022, he was a cool guy but we drifted apart because I became too envious of his great cheekbones and just couldn't cope with him being the main character in every interaction ever.

And hanging out with other social outcasts always seemed embarassing to me, why'd I want to be associated with someone who isn't popular either?

I don’t have any none even message me asking how I am orbother to speak

 

[Lonenely sigma]

I have friends but i am just like u said the side character

I've been there, back in the day when I was trying to muh "get out there" in high school.

I actuay did build some "circles" but like, nobody specifically invited me anywhere. I was in groups and stuff, they'd invite everyone to come, and I started testing how many times I could not show up for them to call me.

If it took more than 2 times I'd just never go out with that group again. Aanndd yeah, it took more than 2 times with all social circles so yeah, here I am now lol

 

[Lefty Rankin]

People here often debate whether you need good looks or not to have friends, my take is that you do unless you are willing to be just a side-character and not the main one in the group.

That said, I legit haven't had a friend since 2022, he was a cool guy but we drifted apart because I became too envious of his great cheekbones and just couldn't cope with him being the main character in every interaction ever.

And hanging out with other social outcasts always seemed embarassing to me, why'd I want to be associated with someone who isn't popular either?

Last time I had a friend was in 2017. I had one in 2018 too but it kind of doesn't count because it was a chick. She was just good for drinking with because we were the only like minded people in the town we were living in at the time.

 

[Lookologist003]

You don't need looks to make friends, unless you want to make friends with Chads or... What I mean is, there's a type of NT Chad or good looking dude that will use you, if you're ugly, as the butt of jokes. But even some Chads are respectful, maybe they wouldn't become friends with a subhuman, but they'd at least not patronize or whatever.

Chads tend to hang around with other Chads or at least guys who are around the same level in HS and when they have a choice of who they can spend time with. It makes clubbing easier, cus there's nobody facially handicaped in your crew

 

[Arminus]

I've been there, back in the day when I was trying to muh "get out there" in high school.

I actuay did build some "circles" but like, nobody specifically invited me anywhere. I was in groups and stuff, they'd invite everyone to come, and I started testing how many times I could not show up for them to call me.

If it took more than 2 times I'd just never go out with that group again. Aanndd yeah, it took more than 2 times with all social circles so yeah, here I am now lol

I can definitely relate to this back from high school and Fr it hurts like mad

 

[WKW]

I've been there, back in the day when I was trying to muh "get out there" in high school.

I actuay did build some "circles" but like, nobody specifically invited me anywhere. I was in groups and stuff, they'd invite everyone to come, and I started testing how many times I could not show up for them to call me.

If it took more than 2 times I'd just never go out with that group again. Aanndd yeah, it took more than 2 times with all social circles so yeah, here I am now lol

In fairness to them how many times have you hung out with them?

If it’s a lot and they don’t give a shit if you showed up or not then that’s brutal

 

[Sceptical]

i have one who i hangout with sometimes

though i do envy normies who are with their friends, sharing a laugh or a silly inside joke between them.

it's hard not to feel left out when im sitting all alone in a bus or whether it's somewhere else in public

 

[uksucks]

You need to be a similar looks level for it to work

If you're aware of the Blackpill, you will notice if one is the main character in every interaction

 

[Shahnameh]

Drifted apart from my friends, some I haven't spoken to in over 5 years.

I think as a man you don't really need friends all that much

 

[Lookologist003]

If it took more than 2 times I'd just never go out with that group again. Aanndd yeah, it took more than 2 times with all social circles so yeah, here I am now lol

This is a bad attitude to have. I wouldn't even expect that of my best friends. You can't expect your friends to be constantly thinking about you. Most of the time, they're not. Even if your friends are reminded occasionally of you, that's a healthy friendship, not fucking obsession. Even if it were your girlfriend, needy AF.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

What I mean is, there's a type of NT Chad or good looking dude that will use you, if you're ugly, as the butt of jokes.

SPOT ON, this was exactly my experience especially in the commie blocks of eastern europe jfl.

I had """friends""" but they made fun of me.

People will claim we are all equal and stuff, but if you look at their actions and not words, you will see both men and women accept natural hiererachy in terms of their friendships.

It makes clubbing easier, cus there's nobody facially handicaped in your crew

Yeah, other than just the hierarchy, its also the lack of common things to do for a subhuman and a chad.

A chad isn't going to be playing FPS games on friday night, an incel will however. The chad will be getting some ass in a club

 

[ripzyzz]

No I haven't had any real friends since elementary school 10 years ago. Kids tried to be my friend in middle and high school but I would kinda ignore them or give very brief closed off answers to their attempts at conversation. One time in 9th grade there was even a girl who approached me and said she would give me her number to help with some assignment but I said "no that's ok" and walked away while she kept practically screaming "are you sure????" and I kept saying "yes im sure" and walking away. Now I'm a 22 year old friendless KHV, I guess I got what i wanted. Idk I'm a dumbass

 

[Lonenely sigma]

This is a bad attitude to have. I wouldn't even expect that of my best friends. You can't expect your friends to be constantly thinking about you. Most of the time, they're not. Even if your friends are reminded occasionally of you, that's a healthy friendship, not fucking obsession. Even if it were your girlfriend, needy AF.

One time, on the first day of like third year of hs, I agreed with my friends to meet at the entrance, but I was 10 minutes late and they entered without me.

Then I just went home, sad and angry because they didn't wait for me and literally broke in tears. I know this is really narcissistic but I just couldn't help it, the lack of validation my whole life had its toll on me

 

[Lonenely sigma]

In fairness to them how many times have you hung out with them?

Depends on the group but like, back in 2021 when I did this shit I literally looked horrendous, now I look better, actually quite "lookable" on a good day, but still, that shit scarred me for life.

 

[Lookologist003]

A chad isn't going to be playing FPS games on friday night, an incel will however. The chad will be getting some ass in a club

"You play video games while Chad plays sex games"

I had """friends""" but they made fun of me.

Like legit mockery or friendly banter? I hope you didn't turn into jester to win approval, heard that story too many time from incels. Those kind of fake friends are awful.

The only thing I wish is that I had legit blackpilled friends. The other week I met up with my best friend from HS, who's about a 6/10 but kinda short and he was telling me to "just find a girlfriend", have you tried Tinder blah blah, bluepilled lorem ipsum. I already deal with this bullshit enough from my parents.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Like legit mockery or friendly banter? I hope you didn't turn into jester to win approval, heard that story too many time from incels. Those kind of fake friends are awful.

Weeeelll... lets just say I tried talking about my only real passion, that being looks, with men.

Then they started making fun of my looks obsession and started calling me a "faggot" and telling me I should just "blast roids"

(Khm khm, I am looking at you, @shizuku11111)

Most people I hanged out with said I have a good sense of humor though and that I can think of stuff on the spot.

Still, what you mentioned is very true, I've been there, in the sense I just listened to a chad talk and just was a quiet cuck listening to his stories. That was so pathetic holy shit I am ashamed of myself, but what did I know back then...

The only thing I wish is that I had legit blackpilled friends. The other week I met up with my best friend from HS, who's about a 6/10 but kinda short and he was telling me to "just find a girlfriend", have you tried Tinder blah blah, bluepilled lorem ipsum. I already deal with this bullshit enough from my parents.

Yeah, same.

You gotta be careful talking about looks in general, before it'd just make you a metrosexual in the eyes of many but now its a legit social suicide, they can see you as a chronically online incel weirdo.

I did have one "friendo" back in hs, he talked about selling consultations about steroids and anti-hairloss chemicals on looksmaxxing discord servers and told me how it was the most depressing shit he has ever seen, "literal 14 year olds talking about plastic surgeries and stuff"... thats the closest I've ever got to a blackpilled friend

 

[Lookologist003]

You gotta be careful talking about looks in general, before it'd just make you a metrosexual in the eyes of many but now its a legit social suicide, they can see you as a chronically online incel weirdo.

I know that's right. I still regret ever mistakenly thinking I could convince my friends about blackpill. When Looksmaxxing blew up in 2023, my attempts at converting them resurfaced and blew up in my face. It was so awkward when they started using the word incel, and I have to keep in my mind that, they wont understand.

he talked about selling consultations about steroids and anti-hairloss chemicals on looksmaxxing discord servers and told me how it was the most depressing shit he has ever seen, literal 14 year olds talking about plastic surgeries and stuff... thats the closest I've ever got to a blackpilled friend

Wow. I am so glad that my teens were ruined by this blackpill shit. 14 is too young to be shattering the illusions that make children happy. What do you think @Lonenely sigma What is the optimal age for a man to become blackpilled. I think... 17 is that age. There's just so much wrong with children discovering this looks shit.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Wow. I am so glad that my teens were ruined by this blackpill shit. 14 is too young to be shattering the illusions that make children happy. What do you think @Lonenely sigma What is the optimal age for a man to become blackpilled. I think... 17 is that age. There's just so much wrong with children discovering this looks shit.

I did think about the same topic myself, personally, it all went downhill for me in 2022 when I discovered this shit, and I was 17 at the time. Now I am 20 and looking back I don't think I've gained too much from getting blackpilled at that time.


Really, it depends on the circumstances. For instance, in my case, surgeries could help a fair bit, but there is just no realistic chance for me to earn the money given my location.


Likewise, if I was a kid born in the west, I'd rather learn about this stuff around the age of 15. Then I'd work a part-time job and by the time I am 20 I'd have enough for all surgeries, just before I go to uni.


But leaving the looksmaxxing part aside, which is also predetermined by your genes to begin with, getting blackpilled teaches you about people in general. The whole example of not going out due to not being the "main character like the Chad would" - thats a blackpill concept. Something like that wouldn't even occur to me before.

So that may be a negative to an otherwise NT kid, but on the other side, if you get blackpilled young you'd avoid MANY cringe memories, you'd stand for yourself in your "struggle" against other people much more regularly, you'd, in a long run, never become a betabuxxer... it has its benefits, certainly, but its certainly a depressing stuff to keep in mind.

It basically enables you to know the rules of the game, while knowing full well you can't change the cards.

 

[first snow]

of course it's always about cheekbones for an org user

can relate tbh

 

[pope]

No I haven't had any real friends since elementary school 10 years ago. Kids tried to be my friend in middle and high school but I would kinda ignore them or give very brief closed off answers to their attempts at conversation. One time in 9th grade there was even a girl who approached me and said she would give me her number to help with some assignment but I said "no that's ok" and walked away while she kept practically screaming "are you sure????" and I kept saying "yes im sure" and walking away. Now I'm a 22 year old friendless KHV, I guess I got what i wanted. Idk I'm a dumbass

Same sometimes i regret what i did but at the same time fuck it i was gonna sperg out anyways

 

[first snow]

of course it's always about cheekbones for an org user

can relate tbh

lol ironically enough i just now had a discussion about cheekbones
can't make this up

 

[我需要阴部]

Very few tbh

 

[Klasik616]

Not really all I do is rot or work

 

[ShowerCelling]

People here often debate whether you need good looks or not to have friends, my take is that you do unless you are willing to be just a side-character and not the main one in the group.

That said, I legit haven't had a friend since 2022, he was a cool guy but we drifted apart because I became too envious of his great cheekbones and just couldn't cope with him being the main character in every interaction ever.

And hanging out with other social outcasts always seemed embarassing to me, why'd I want to be associated with someone who isn't popular either?

only online sadly

 

[Vincent Freeman]

ah yes now I know why I roasted you on my previous account
youre that spastic who thinks that if he had one mm in the cheekbones people would crawl in front of him

 

[LTNUser]

Nah,not much

 

[Lonenely sigma]

ah yes now I know why I roasted you on my previous account
youre that spastic who thinks that if he had one mm in the cheekbones people would crawl in front of him

Personal experience is the best teacher, isn't that what they say?

Though I gotta admit, skull, eyes, forward growth in general... these things are better people-magnets than just cheekbones

 

[1966Ford]

No, because I'm a lonenely sigma

 

[aloooeJIEEES]

People here often debate whether you need good looks or not to have friends, my take is that you do unless you are willing to be just a side-character and not the main one in the group.

That said, I legit haven't had a friend since 2022, he was a cool guy but we drifted apart because I became too envious of his great cheekbones and just couldn't cope with him being the main character in every interaction ever.

And hanging out with other social outcasts always seemed embarassing to me, why'd I want to be associated with someone who isn't popular either?

No I don't
Only " frens " that i won't ever communicate with after school or other place where we only meet