I feel like gaming is a chore and wasting of precious time nowaday. It drained my finite mental juice you know what I mean
yh bro it prolly means ur serotonin is drained
The thing is even if I get a gf it just feels so so like we fucked and then what next?
The reason is simple the younger you are the more hope you have, and the easier is to recover from missed life stages or set-backs, as you get older you realize being a loser gets worse as you get older, and video/pc gaming will never feel that void. No amount gaming will ever fill the void of having a healthy balanced life with sexual access to women and close friends and family and a decent job.
yea that's exactly what happened with me. at some point you're just like "fuck dude I'm a loser" and realize that becoming attractive to hoes yields greater results than ranking up ingame. video games are still fun for me but playing 6+ hours everyday gets in the way of not being a loser fuck up.
one thing I'm lacking is a family relationship not with foids cuz foids somehow can't give the same feeling of belongingness inside me. I didn't that a family relationship is as important as a romantic relationship I did this to myself
i agree the thing most folks enjoy video/pc games but used it as a escape, playing 6+ hours a day , makes time and days go by quick even more so if your not having New experiences and hitting life goals. All of sudden you have no new goals, or experiences to catalog the time-line of your life 4 years pass but it felt like 1 year because you didn't do nothing.
elo fixes everything
I think a lot of guys use it to achieve success and validation that they don't see irl
i workout for 35 minutes 3-4 times a week, and go jogging after work. if play any pc/video i make sure to only play when i really want to enjoy it and not as a time filler. I watch and look survival and preping chanels, buy gear and stock up on food or supplies for emergency, i test and make sure my devices work, the emergency solar/hand crank radio, the the emergency lights, mini solar panels etc. The hiking boots and gear. NOTE to anyone if you buy survival boots or hiking boots, break them in just casually got for a walk in them for 2 weeks.
believe it or not could be some truth ive never meet a gamer who played 6+ hours a day or 20 hours a day that was bad or below avg. Even myself on every single game i play or have played im in the top 1 percent to 30 percent. Even if you tone down the play-time like i have due to being busy and doing other things, past experience of being a gamer who played very long hours never leaves you. You can pick up a new game and be better then 75 percent of the player base in a short time in little as 1-3weeks, your better then 75 percent of the player base who has played the game for 3 months if not 1-2 years.
Thats the problem you need all the pillars of life to be content.
Sad to say you need strong family ties in this world, if not you must create your own family aka wife and children or long-term partner and children. And to do that you first NEED THE WOMEN, You also MAINLY need the looks.
This is good. When I stopped paying attention to the so called industry and just started played whatever looks interesting to me at the moment, my enjoyment for games come back very quickly (this applies to all media).
The problem is most guys understand women don't love men in the same way, and most men just want a decent exchange price. But what women tend to do in 9 out of 10 times, is give a better deal, to other men when young, and as they age make more demands and offer up a even crazy price for their goods. You need to find women who respect and value and lust for you. Iam not talking about women who have low desire for you, and gave you a chance after some years.
