Do you live a passive or active lifestyle?

[BigBallsLarry]

How are you planning to lock in?

First i need to finish school, since I'm doing miserably right now, and after that I'll make plans with my dad and girlfriend.

 

[Deleted member 158905]

An active lifestyle is one where YOU take the initiative, chase goals and shape your reality. You take care of your health and actively look for opportunities that can improve your life and push it it's limits.

A passive lifestyle is basically living on autopilot. Instead of looking and chasing opportunities, you sit and wait for them to somehow come your way. You don't look for friends, you don't look for jobs, you don't bother working on yourself, and you just hope everything will eventually come to you. People in this lifestyle WILL eventually do things, but only because they're forced to because their time is running out.

I myself live very much a passive lifestyle, i found myself too deep in my head to actively try to do something with my life (except maybe going to the gym). This lifestyle HAS made me worried about my future, but i still actively choose to ignore that. I believe that it's a coping mechanism to keep yourself brainlessly happy.

@Gengar @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @Daddy's Home @TechnoBoss

well it depens i live like 50/50 bcs there are periods when i am realy active and there are when i just root all day in my room they are changind every 2 weeks sometimes every month

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Thanks again man. I really do appreciate it.

Of course bro, that's what the community is here for

 

[BigBallsLarry]

well it depens i live like 50/50 bcs there are periods when i am realy active and there are when i just root all day in my room they are changind every 2 weeks sometimes every month

I have the same situation aswell then, this month was pretty bad interms of rotting...

 

[Insomnia]

First i need to finish school, since I'm doing miserably right now, and after that I'll make plans with my dad and girlfriend.

Thinking of anything in particular

 

[savage21]

An active lifestyle is one where YOU take the initiative, chase goals and shape your reality. You take care of your health and actively look for opportunities that can improve your life and push it it's limits.

A passive lifestyle is basically living on autopilot. Instead of looking and chasing opportunities, you sit and wait for them to somehow come your way. You don't look for friends, you don't look for jobs, you don't bother working on yourself, and you just hope everything will eventually come to you. People in this lifestyle WILL eventually do things, but only because they're forced to because their time is running out.

I myself live very much a passive lifestyle, i found myself too deep in my head to actively try to do something with my life (except maybe going to the gym). This lifestyle HAS made me worried about my future, but i still actively choose to ignore that. I believe that it's a coping mechanism to keep yourself brainlessly happy.

@Gengar @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @Daddy's Home @TechnoBoss

It’s a mix for me tbh. For example I don’t seek friends or relationships (the latter probably not by choice ). And I stay inside a lot rather than clubbing or going out. But I actively try to improve myself personally. (I sound like a corny red pilled gym influencer while typing this)

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Of course, gengar

You will be a great teacher

Thanks for believing in me, bhaijaan!

 

[Deleted member 158905]

I have the same situation aswell then, this month was pretty bad interms of rotting...

last week was pretty active maybe even 2 but now i am getting into rooting again im changing fast

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Thinking of anything in particular

Well if i do pass my school i'm basically guaranteed to be able to get into most restaurant/gastronomy places in my town, so that's a starter.

With my English skills, if i get good enough, i could even become an international chef, but that's like 10 years into the future, but i definitely want to do something with cooking.

If that doesn't work out, maybe a personal trainer of some sorts?

 

[BigBallsLarry]

It’s a mix for me tbh. For example I don’t seek friends or relationships (the latter probably not by choice ). And I stay inside a lot rather than clubbing or going out. But I actively try to improve myself personally. (I sound like a corny red pilled gym influencer while typing this)

That's still active to me, if you're chasing your goals and dreams and actively looking towards your future.

 

[Insomnia]

Well if i do pass my school i'm basically guaranteed to be able to get into most restaurant/gastronomy places in my town, so that's a starter.

With my English skills, if i get good enough, i could even become an international chef, but that's like 10 years into the future, but i definitely want to do something with cooking.

If that doesn't work out, maybe a personal trainer of some sorts?

You need to shoot higher, don’t settle for small shit

 

[BigBallsLarry]

You need to shoot higher, don’t settle for small shit

I don't need anything high, it's basically out of my league, I've made too many mistakes as a teenager to achieve anything big.

 

[Insomnia]

I don't need anything high, it's basically out of my league, I've made too many mistakes as a teenager to achieve anything big.

It’s out of your league because you aren’t trying to get into that league.

 

[valentine]

passive

 

[BigBallsLarry]

It’s out of your league because you aren’t trying to get into that league.

It's basically impossible for me, atleast for now, my entire family and life situation is limiting me from everything

 

[BigBallsLarry]

passive

Why aren't you trying to live an active one? Your looks definitely aren't limiting you

 

[valentine]

Why aren't you trying to live an active one? Your looks definitely aren't limiting you

im the most hideously ugly incel of all time.

 

[BigBallsLarry]

im the most hideously ugly incel of all time.

You're the biggest larper of all time

 

[BigBallsLarry]

@kababcel @Greyascension @Gomez @BeanCelll

 

[FiendFiend]

An active lifestyle is one where YOU take the initiative, chase goals and shape your reality. You take care of your health and actively look for opportunities that can improve your life and push it it's limits.

A passive lifestyle is basically living on autopilot. Instead of looking and chasing opportunities, you sit and wait for them to somehow come your way. You don't look for friends, you don't look for jobs, you don't bother working on yourself, and you just hope everything will eventually come to you. People in this lifestyle WILL eventually do things, but only because they're forced to because their time is running out.

I myself live very much a passive lifestyle, i found myself too deep in my head to actively try to do something with my life (except maybe going to the gym). This lifestyle HAS made me worried about my future, but i still actively choose to ignore that. I believe that it's a coping mechanism to keep yourself brainlessly happy.

@Gengar @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @Daddy's Home @TechnoBoss

its a mix of both.

There are days where im working for like 12 hours, doing lots of shit, there are days where i just sit here all day

im always trying new shit, new nootropics,stimulants, pills to rape anxiety, new softmax, looking at other procedures i can get done. The goal is to look good, be financially ahead most people, and obviously have a girlfriend/wife which comes in part of looking good and learning to rape my high inhib.

lol if u live on autopilot, always be working towards something even if takes 10 minutes out ur day

 

[BeanCelll]

Passive 100% need to change that though, maybe with the new year soon.

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Passive 100% need to change that though, maybe with the new year soon.

New year new me

 

[BigBallsLarry]

its a mix of both.

There are days where im working for like 12 hours, doing lots of shit, there are days where i just sit here all day

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im always trying new shit, new nootropics,stimulants, pills to rape anxiety, new softmax, looking at other procedures i can get done. The goal is to look good, be financially ahead most people, and obviously have a girlfriend/wife which comes in part of looking good and learning to rape my high inhib.

lol if u live on autopilot, always be working towards something even if takes 10 minutes out ur day

There HAVE to be rest days, that doesn't mean you're living a passive lifestyle or a mix of both.

You're living a very much active lifestyle, just with a bit of rest there and then, which is normal.

 

[kababcel]

An active lifestyle is one where YOU take the initiative, chase goals and shape your reality. You take care of your health and actively look for opportunities that can improve your life and push it it's limits.

A passive lifestyle is basically living on autopilot. Instead of looking and chasing opportunities, you sit and wait for them to somehow come your way. You don't look for friends, you don't look for jobs, you don't bother working on yourself, and you just hope everything will eventually come to you. People in this lifestyle WILL eventually do things, but only because they're forced to because their time is running out.

I myself live very much a passive lifestyle, i found myself too deep in my head to actively try to do something with my life (except maybe going to the gym). This lifestyle HAS made me worried about my future, but i still actively choose to ignore that. I believe that it's a coping mechanism to keep yourself brainlessly happy.

@Gengar @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @Daddy's Home @TechnoBoss

Well RIGHT NOW, im extremely passive but im trying to make a change of myself, in the near future I hope I can be an extremely active person, I have lots of goals and dreams I wanna achieve and things I wanna get off my bucket list but we will see

 

[Greyascension]

@kababcel @Greyascension @Gomez @BeanCelll

Active bhai, It gets very tiring sometimes to the point where I only have a few hours to myself a week unless I'm staying up very late. I have 2 jobs and day trade

 

[reeven]

I be both sometimes

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Well RIGHT NOW, im extremely passive but im trying to make a change of myself, in the near future I hope I can be an extremely active person, I have lots of goals and dreams I wanna achieve and things I wanna get off my bucket list but we will see

Good luck then, i'm glad you have your mind set on it! Never fall for the LDAR propaganda

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Active bhai, It gets very tiring sometimes to the point where I only have a few hours to myself a week unless I'm staying up very late. I have 2 jobs and day trade

2 jobs is a lot, mirin brah Good luck with it all of course.

 

[Greyascension]

2 jobs is a lot, mirin brah Good luck with it all of course.

Thank you bhai, I just really want something for my future, I want to make everybody happy while also hitting my goals in looks. I spend at least 2 hours a day on looks and 2 or 3 researching things

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Thank you bhai, I just really want something for my future, I want to make everybody happy while also hitting my goals in looks. I spend at least 2 hours a day on looks and 2 or 3 researching things

You're a great person homie I'm rooting for ya

 

[Regular Doomer]

that's good, keep it up homie

nothing comes free for men, we go out there and take it, even friends and girls, we are hunters after all right? only women who live in tutorial mode wait and still get things for themselves

 

[BigBallsLarry]

nothing comes free for men, we go out there and take it, even friends and girls, we are hunters after all right? only women who live in tutorial mode wait and still get things for themselves

Of course, well said

We wuzz hunters and shieet

 

[Daddy's Home]

I believe it depends solely on the level of conscientiousness and the environment in which someone grew up & the resources available to them
Unfortunately, in my case, it's passive

That's how I've been my whole life

Everything has been on autopilot, fate, and destiny

Absolutely zero ambition / proactive motivation on my part towards absolutely anything (what was truly important in anyone's life, things like having a relationship, what career to pursue, what city to move to, etc.)

People on the outside always told me, "Hey, you should do x now, etc.," and that's pretty much what I did, things like learning to ride a bike, getting my driver's license, finishing high school, going to x college, going to x job, etc. (they only happened because external factors/people pushed me from behind and said something like, "Hey, it's time to do this, everyone else is doing it," or something like that)

Everything related to how and when all this happened was determined by things quite beyond my control, and I always put in the minimum effort and usually as late as possible, so as not to stray too far from my comfort zone..

Unfortunately, If I look at my parents, my grandparents, all my extended family members, my friends etc. about 80-90% of them have lived and continue to live this kind of passive life..

Like, I could never be the guy in the video below..

 

[BigBallsLarry]

I believe it depends solely on the level of conscientiousness and the environment in which someone grew up & the resources available to them
Unfortunately, in my case, it's passive

That's how I've been my whole life

Everything has been on autopilot, fate, and destiny

Absolutely zero ambition / proactive motivation on my part towards absolutely anything (what was truly important in anyone's life, things like having a relationship, what career to pursue, what city to move to, etc.)

People on the outside always told me, "Hey, you should do x now, etc.," and that's pretty much what I did, things like learning to ride a bike, getting my driver's license, finishing high school, going to x college, going to x job, etc. (they only happened because external factors/people pushed me from behind and said something like, "Hey, it's time to do this, everyone else is doing it," or something like that)

Everything related to how and when all this happened was determined by things quite beyond my control, and I always put in the minimum effort and usually as late as possible, so as not to stray too far from my comfort zone..

Unfortunately, If I look at my parents, my grandparents, all my extended family members, my friends etc. about 80-90% of them have lived and continue to live this kind of passive life..

Like, I could never be the guy in the video below..

I feel the exact same as you, i guess we're all twinning (you, me and @Gengar.. we're decembercels aswell )

 

[Gomez]

An active lifestyle is one where YOU take the initiative, chase goals and shape your reality. You take care of your health and actively look for opportunities that can improve your life and push it it's limits.

A passive lifestyle is basically living on autopilot. Instead of looking and chasing opportunities, you sit and wait for them to somehow come your way. You don't look for friends, you don't look for jobs, you don't bother working on yourself, and you just hope everything will eventually come to you. People in this lifestyle WILL eventually do things, but only because they're forced to because their time is running out.

I myself live very much a passive lifestyle, i found myself too deep in my head to actively try to do something with my life (except maybe going to the gym). This lifestyle HAS made me worried about my future, but i still actively choose to ignore that. I believe that it's a coping mechanism to keep yourself brainlessly happy.

@Gengar @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @Daddy's Home @TechnoBoss

Actively in a passive way if that makes sense
school is definitely pushing me back if i was working i would be fully living actively​

 

[Cash💸]

Passive

 

[Cash💸]

I believe it depends solely on the level of conscientiousness and the environment in which someone grew up & the resources available to them
Unfortunately, in my case, it's passive

That's how I've been my whole life

Everything has been on autopilot, fate, and destiny

Absolutely zero ambition / proactive motivation on my part towards absolutely anything (what was truly important in anyone's life, things like having a relationship, what career to pursue, what city to move to, etc.)

People on the outside always told me, "Hey, you should do x now, etc.," and that's pretty much what I did, things like learning to ride a bike, getting my driver's license, finishing high school, going to x college, going to x job, etc. (they only happened because external factors/people pushed me from behind and said something like, "Hey, it's time to do this, everyone else is doing it," or something like that)

Everything related to how and when all this happened was determined by things quite beyond my control, and I always put in the minimum effort and usually as late as possible, so as not to stray too far from my comfort zone..

Unfortunately, If I look at my parents, my grandparents, all my extended family members, my friends etc. about 80-90% of them have lived and continue to live this kind of passive life..

Like, I could never be the guy in the video below..

I feel like the same I have no ambition to do anything in life

 

[Greyascension]

You're a great person homie I'm rooting for ya

You are too bhai I hope the best for you always

 

[Greyascension]

Of course, well said

We wuzz hunters and shieet

We wuzz huntings while da huzz was in da caves.
But nowadays we fighting for da country while da huzz at da houze cheating on uzz