Does anyone love helping out and giving advice to others to see them get better and be happier, only to get it thrown back in their face?

How much do you like to help out others?


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Xangsane

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I feel my efforts go unappreciated many times, but it is what it is.
 
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Maybe earlier this would have been true but now no more. I don't care about others. In fact in theory I am a Dark Triad aka I have the traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. Unfortunately I do not have the looks to back it up. I feel someday in the future if I do not meet my end goals I may snap and I may end up doing some bad shit.
 
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For fuck sake Arthur why do I have to explain everything for you
 
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Maybe earlier this would have been true but now no more. I don't care about others. In fact in theory I am a Dark Triad aka I have the traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. Unfortunately I do not have the looks to back it up. I feel someday in the future if I do not meet my end goals I may snap and I may end up doing some bad shit.
Being dark triad wouldn't get you anywhere.
 
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No, I'm being serious, bro.
what do you want to say? I am not saying I want to have a Dark Triad personality because of the meme here. I am saying that my personality now has literally become like that. I can't help.
 
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what do you want to say? I am not saying I want to have a Dark Triad personality because of the meme here. I am saying that my personality now has literally become like that. I can't help.
Have you talked to someone about your problems?
 
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No. It's not that bad. I am a pretty normal person at least right now. But I do not really care about others now. Maybe only about my family. It is a clown world full of clowns. Nothing makes sense. There is a hope that things would get better one day. And if they do, I maybe able to get out of this and become more like the normal person. And I feel that would happen (or maybe it is just a coping mechanism). But if they don't then I fear that I may either rope or go ER.
 
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No. It's not that bad. I am a pretty normal person at least right now. But I do not really care about others now. Maybe only about my family. It is a clown world full of clowns. Nothing makes sense. There is a hope that things would get better one day. And if they do, I maybe able to get out of this and become more like the normal person. And I feel that would happen (or maybe it is just a coping mechanism). But if they don't then I fear that I may either rope or go ER.
Please, seek therapy. I suggest you exercise regularly (for enjoyment) and find some group activity to do to get those endorphins up.
 
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Please, seek therapy. I suggest you exercise regularly (for enjoyment) and find some group activity to do to get those endorphins up.
Thanks. I exercise daily, trying to go to 12% bf. Have hobbies too.

I dislike group activity because average normie is very faggy. Some are also retarded and I want to spit on them. They talk the same useless bs. Maybe by fucking hookers and models and smoking wed etc my brain has become totally incapable of finding pleasure in simple things. Average normie is too simple. And these extreme things that I seek now are not possible because I am not a chad. It is like I am a chad in a non chad body. Too bad I have to daily do my stupid software job and deal with bluepillers. It is OVER
 
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Why do you keep making posts about me without a mention? :lul: ya zalami ayre fik

@Baldingman1998
 
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Why do you keep making posts about me without a mention? :lul: ya zalami ayre fik

@Baldingman1998
No no, this has nothing to do with you. My ex girlfriend was like this, and so were some of my other peers when I was at school/uni, but I did what I can to make them feel at ease.
 
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everyone is a means to an end for me, IF i help someone i fully expect the favor returned with interest.
 
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Maybe earlier this would have been true but now no more. I don't care about others. In fact in theory I am a Dark Triad aka I have the traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. Unfortunately I do not have the looks to back it up. I feel someday in the future if I do not meet my end goals I may snap and I may end up doing some bad shit.
Dark triad is for losers tbh. Copers who follow the norm trope of "bad boy gets girl". There also needs to be good discussions about classifications of traits. If all i really do is care about my salvation, i guess you could say i have traits of textbook narcissism and such, but to say that those traits alone is what defines what a dark triad person is is false. Its like when a prideful feminists calls a righteous person "prideful" because they have pride in their good works. Both of them are (by definition) acting "prideful", but that does not mean both of them are narcissistic, or that both of them are in a continuous state of pride (no humility). I would be careful about boxing all of your traits into one umbrella. Its better to just learn about all of your traits and start from there. Get rid of the unrighteous ones, learn/ keep and improve the morally precise ones.
 
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No no, this has nothing to do with you. My ex girlfriend was like this, and so were some of my other peers when I was at school/uni, but I did what I can to make them feel at ease.
Im pretty sure thats a legit prophecy

Matthew 7:6 "Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you."
 
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Dark triad is for losers tbh. Copers who follow the norm trope of "bad boy gets girl". There also needs to be good discussions about classifications of traits. If all i really do is care about my salvation, i guess you could say i have traits of textbook narcissism and such, but to say that those traits alone is what defines what a dark triad person is is false. Its like when a prideful feminists calls a righteous person "prideful" because they have pride in their good works. Both of them are prideful, but that does not mean both of them are narcissistic. I would be careful about boxing all of your traits into one umbrella. Its better to just learn about all of your traits and start from there. Get rid of the unrighteous ones, learn/ keep and improve the morally precise ones.
As I said, I didn't chose these traits. In fact I recently realized that my personality fits in that category. Never believed bad boys get girls either. (looks are primary)

And who cares if I fit into that or not. It is what I observed. Whether I fit into that personality type or not is irrelevant.
 
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As I said, I didn't chose these traits. In fact I recently realized that my personality fits in that category. Never believed bad boys get girls either. (looks are primary)

And who cares if I fit into that or not. It is what I observed. Whether I fit into that personality type or not is irrelevant.
Yea that would be different then. People intentionally try to learn how to be dark triad and I think its completely idiotic and self-sabotaging. Noticing your behaviors and personality is a different story though. I don't think it fits your description tbh. True narcissists do not give a fuck about introspection. Try not to associate yourself with these umbrella terms. You end up becoming them. Someone who sees dark triad info thinks the answer to their personality is = dark triad. They actually end up actually becoming dark triad because that is what someone told them they are. Now they feel like their personality is caged, and this is what i think causes the sensitivity. Its a trap tbh and is one that makes a lot of people insane and even worst than where they started off as.
 
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i feel so safe and comfortable reading your threads, its lkike a warm blanket of protection. neeever change xangsane
 
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i say something nice to me nad you hmm me this is why i call u faggot you low eq basterd
 
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i feel so safe and comfortable reading your threads, its lkike a warm blanket of protection. neeever change xangsane
Thank you!
 

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