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Iron
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Yeah I know, it crushes you on a genetic level when the date doesn’t go the way you wanted it too. It won’t be easy and you will get sad afterwards if it things go bad it’s only natural. you won’t be able to learn from the mistakes and come out a better man if you won’t keep trying. I used to be very self critical and would just assume if things don’t exactly go the way I wanted to there was something terribly wrong.Dates are hard bro. Its 50/50 i swear. Either the girl is just super turned on by me and want to fuck no matter what or else i have to play chess with her, saying the right thing at the right time, being funny etc. I’m starting to get better but each time i don’t get laid off a date i put it on my looks lacking and it kills my confidence.
Remember one thing, if the girl went out on a date with you and is willing to talk she doesn’t have an issue with your looks.
Also not every date should go well. Sometimes there is a lack of connection and two people just don’t like each other and that’s fine. Stop faking things and just look for a genuine connection because one women is all you need in your life.
