Don't worry about girls right now, son...just focus on XYZ

[klip11]

That's the worst piece of advice you can give a young man. You're essentially telling him to be sexless through his teens, 20s and maybe some of his 30s as well and just to only care about school or wage slaving. Because that's what that advice really boils down to.

And to make it worse, you see other guys around you getting pussy and having girlfriends and they don't have a $100K/year career. They're students just like you.

 

[Dystopian]

It’s good advice because it’s mostly given to incels , why should they care about something they will never get anyways

 

[badamj]

It’s to avoid problems. A lot of people can’t handle being told their “ugly”, just look at idiots who pay thousands for PUA advice when it’s just all about looks (and height if they’re a manlet).

Sometimes people need to hear the hard truth though, before they waste years and years on dumb shit.

 

[Allornothing]

My parents did this when I was leanmaxing and skipping school. It’s annoying because they want you to miss out on your prime years to focus on studying which will barely improve quality of life and only bear fruit when you are old and post-prime. Working on social skills and looks seems unacceptable to them.

It’s to avoid problems. A lot of people can’t handle being told their “ugly”, just look at idiots who pay thousands for PUA advice when it’s just all about looks (and height if they’re a manlet).

Sometimes people need to hear the hard truth though, before they waste years and years on dumb shit.

It’s like when you have ugly friends who can’t get girls, no one wants to kill the mood so they talk about “rizz” and “game” not to hurt their feelings.

 

[klip11]

It’s good advice because it’s mostly given to incels , why should they care about something they will never get anyways

I mean, the advice they should be given is to max out on things that MAY make them more attractive to women.

 

[klip11]

My parents did this when I was leanmaxing and skipping school. It’s annoying because they want you to miss out on your prime years to focus on studying which will barely improve quality of life and only bear fruit when you are old and post-prime. Working on social skills and looks seems unacceptable to them.

Parents should absolutely support you looksmaxxing and improving your social skills. If I had a 15 year old son with a recessed jaw, my Xmas present to him wouldn't be a PS5, but jaw implant surgery

 

[Allornothing]

Parents should absolutely support you looksmaxxing and improving your social skills. If I had a 15 year old son with a recessed jaw, my Xmas present to him wouldn't be a PS5, but jaw implant surgery

If your son isn’t HTN with social circle and a girlfriend you failed

 

[Allornothing]

I had perfect grades and was the best looking in my school everyone respected me but I had no friends cause aspie. Parents weren’t concerned that their son had no friends or girlfriend.

 

[klip11]

If your son isn’t HTN with social circle and a girlfriend you failed

Most parents don't look at it that way. If their son is winner of the state math competition and on the Dean's list, they think they have succeeded as parents, even if he is a friendless 22 year old virgin.

 

[klip11]

I had perfect grades and was the best looking in my school everyone respected me but I had no friends cause aspie. Parents weren’t concerned that their son had no friends or girlfriend.

I would be more concerned about my son having friends and a girlfriend, at least once he hit high school. Much more than I would be concerned about his grades. And if he was struggling socially, I would try to figure out how to help fix it. Maybe he needs to stylemaxx or get involved in some type of athletics or maybe even his looks need fixing. I would consider looksmaxxing up to and including surgery.

 

[MoggerGaston]

People hate young men. They want you to suffer and be incel. Even your own parents (brutal)

 

[Sleeper]

That's the worst piece of advice you can give a young man. You're essentially telling him to be sexless through his teens, 20s and maybe some of his 30s as well and just to only care about school or wage slaving. Because that's what that advice really boils down to.

And to make it worse, you see other guys around you getting pussy and having girlfriends and they don't have a $100K/year career. They're students just like you.

Correct which is why you only see this advice coming from western betabux culture, this idea doesnt exist anywhere else in the world. In most other cultures it seems like the parents obviously dont want their kids to be whores so they shelter them to an extent but once they're adults, they also expect them to have relationships and marriages quickly and are very picky on the quality of partner their kid chooses. This concept of being a sexless retard all your life and then being a betabux to some used up old cow that wont sleep with you anyway is an idea that only comes from feminist cultures

 

[Allornothing]

Also I think mums tell this to their sons because most of them are bitter and narcy. They want to make sure their sons are good betabuxers who don’t hit women and put up with disrespect.

 

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