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Whenever my dad drops me off to uni when I visit home, it's often just me and him in the car discussing life in general. The topic of women comes up often and he has remarked how it now feels like he is talking to a man and how mature I sound, but he says he is worried about my views on women.
My dad asks me what my main goal in life is when it comes to women and shit. So I told him it was to be a high value man so I can have MULTIPLE women/options and that god had given women one power over men which no other being has. The ability to emotionally rattle men, no other creature on this earth outside family, is capable of such destruction upon a man's psyche, that allowing such irrational and volatile beings monopoly over one's love and emotions is foolish. And true power comes from the ability to walk away from a woman and replace her. Once a woman knows she can be replaced and you are willing to walk away, she will fall in line.
My dad being the bluepilled man he is (he is a little redpilled though but I guess that comes with age) tells me I am right but I am being immoral. That such behaviour will only inspire fear and insecurity in whatever woman marries me, she won't be happy (I think that's bullshit in all honesty, women enjoy this sort of behaviour). He carried on and said that the guys I am listening to they all end up having divorces and shit, and that if I want to raise kids I need to not do this shit.
I told him I agree, when it comes to kids you need to compromise. But what if I don't have kids yet? What then?
He pauses and tells me do I not want marriage?
I tell him outside of "halal" shit, what is the point of marriage as a guy when you aren't planning kids? Women want commitment, as a man when you marry you give your #1 barganing chip - your commitment, all for what? There is no advantage to being married, all it means is that now the woman no longer has to work to keep you and she can be lazy.
He tries to then tell me how forgiving women are, but then I drop a statistic redpill and tell him if women are so forgiving why do they start 70% of divorces?
He pauses
I then carry on with my little monologue. See for example the cousin of mine who recently got married? He is 5'3, balding and fat, and what did he marry? A divorcee who is 27 years old. That woman will treat him like shit because he has no options, she has a monopoly over him and he has nothing. Sticking through with a situation like that isn't a power, it's weakness and desperation. The stuff you say only applies when it comes to raising kids, but at the moment? At the moment I'm a young man who does not have kids, so none of this stuff applies to me.
My dad goes silent and he merely says that while I am telling the truth, I can't do this because if I have kids they will be neglected.
I think I am making a little progress with my dad in all honesty, he is becoming more welcoming of my views and seems to sort of agree that my views are legit when it comes to being a single man. But I think in all honesty the only reason he still isn't fully on board because he has only been with 1 woman (my mother) his entire life and grew up in rural bangladesh in the 70s where women weren't really openly whoring out.
The final nail in the coffin would be if a bengali girl who is a good muslim was to be caught being a whore/he saw the avg muslim girl's phone. I do think dropping such a blackpill on my dad would be a bit too much. He is happy the way he is, my mother raises his kids well and that's all that matters. I just feel bad that my dad will die never knowing this shit, he has lived a lie his entire life. He is a good man, hardworker too, and the fact he is being decieved by society and Islam just angers me.
My dad asks me what my main goal in life is when it comes to women and shit. So I told him it was to be a high value man so I can have MULTIPLE women/options and that god had given women one power over men which no other being has. The ability to emotionally rattle men, no other creature on this earth outside family, is capable of such destruction upon a man's psyche, that allowing such irrational and volatile beings monopoly over one's love and emotions is foolish. And true power comes from the ability to walk away from a woman and replace her. Once a woman knows she can be replaced and you are willing to walk away, she will fall in line.
My dad being the bluepilled man he is (he is a little redpilled though but I guess that comes with age) tells me I am right but I am being immoral. That such behaviour will only inspire fear and insecurity in whatever woman marries me, she won't be happy (I think that's bullshit in all honesty, women enjoy this sort of behaviour). He carried on and said that the guys I am listening to they all end up having divorces and shit, and that if I want to raise kids I need to not do this shit.
I told him I agree, when it comes to kids you need to compromise. But what if I don't have kids yet? What then?
He pauses and tells me do I not want marriage?
I tell him outside of "halal" shit, what is the point of marriage as a guy when you aren't planning kids? Women want commitment, as a man when you marry you give your #1 barganing chip - your commitment, all for what? There is no advantage to being married, all it means is that now the woman no longer has to work to keep you and she can be lazy.
He tries to then tell me how forgiving women are, but then I drop a statistic redpill and tell him if women are so forgiving why do they start 70% of divorces?
He pauses
I then carry on with my little monologue. See for example the cousin of mine who recently got married? He is 5'3, balding and fat, and what did he marry? A divorcee who is 27 years old. That woman will treat him like shit because he has no options, she has a monopoly over him and he has nothing. Sticking through with a situation like that isn't a power, it's weakness and desperation. The stuff you say only applies when it comes to raising kids, but at the moment? At the moment I'm a young man who does not have kids, so none of this stuff applies to me.
My dad goes silent and he merely says that while I am telling the truth, I can't do this because if I have kids they will be neglected.
I think I am making a little progress with my dad in all honesty, he is becoming more welcoming of my views and seems to sort of agree that my views are legit when it comes to being a single man. But I think in all honesty the only reason he still isn't fully on board because he has only been with 1 woman (my mother) his entire life and grew up in rural bangladesh in the 70s where women weren't really openly whoring out.
The final nail in the coffin would be if a bengali girl who is a good muslim was to be caught being a whore/he saw the avg muslim girl's phone. I do think dropping such a blackpill on my dad would be a bit too much. He is happy the way he is, my mother raises his kids well and that's all that matters. I just feel bad that my dad will die never knowing this shit, he has lived a lie his entire life. He is a good man, hardworker too, and the fact he is being decieved by society and Islam just angers me.
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