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if you don’t have ideal or slightly wide set esr it’s over
i do think that there are some good looking people with slightly close set eyes but generally speaking close set eyes=narrow skull which is ugly
if you have extremely wide set eyes (borderline hypertelorism) it’s truly over unless you get obo
 
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is it ideal
 
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if you don’t have ideal or slightly wide set esr it’s over
i do think that there are some good looking people with slightly close set eyes but generally speaking close set eyes=narrow skull which is ugly
if you have extremely wide set eyes (borderline hypertelorism) it’s truly over unless you get obo
jordan
 
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you can't be real
he is borderline wideset
his esr is 0.47
icba to hop on a measuring software g
from the one eye apart test it looked slightly close set (pfl:icd)
 
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youre just jealous of chads with close set eyes incel
 
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Borderline hypertelorism is good and female gaze. I remember this guy on Instagram with super wide set eyes gloating women would compliment his eyes, I thought he was full of s until I opened the comments and it was indeed full of women complimenting his eyes.
 
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Borderline hypertelorism is good and female gaze. I remember this guy on Instagram with super wide set eyes gloating women would compliment his eyes, I thought he was full of s until I opened the comments and it was indeed full of women complimenting his eyes.
mmm might just be a “have everything else” case
if you put borderline hypertelorism on a average guy he’s just gonna look like a alien
 
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youre just jealous of chads with close set eyes incel
nah i literally said there are some good looking people with close set but most of the time if you got close set eyes you got a narrow skull
 
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nah i literally there are some good looking people with close set but most of the time if you got close set eyes you got a narrow skull
i mean not really its like 50/50
 
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i mean not really its like 50/50
i mean yeah but even if it’s not that’s the appearance close set eyes give even if you have a average fwhr
 
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what's the minimum esr considered acceptable in a man (what i mean is you can still look good with that esr) ? and also is it always a synonym of a narrow skull ? my esr is really low (~0.435-0.44) and im not too sure about the narrow skull part because a lot of it comes from a wide bizygo width
 
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what's the minimum esr considered acceptable in a man (what i mean is you can still look good with that esr) ? and also is it always a synonym of a narrow skull ? my esr is really low (~0.435-0.44) and im not too sure about the narrow skull part because a lot of it comes from a wide bizygo width
if you have a perceived wide bizygo it’s probably cause of close set eyes, not the other way around
either way it changes from person to person cause everything else comes into play but i’d say a little above hypotelorism, to the point where your dorsal is atleast visibly separating the eyes
 
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ig you have a perceived wide bizygo it’s probably cause of close set eyes, not the other way around
either way it changes from person to person cause everything else comes into play but i’d say a little above hypotelorism, to the point where your dorsal is atleast visibly separating the eyes
ur right yeah in some pics it does look like that but in mirror pics i feel like my zygos are still quite wide, the thing is i'll never get an obo cuz the risks greatly outweigh the benefits so the only option would be zygo shaving, would it still help a little or should i just accept that im doomed and try to work on everything else instead of hyperfocusing on eyes
 
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ur right yeah in some pics it does look like that but in mirror pics i feel like my zygos are still quite wide, the thing is i'll never get an obo cuz the risks greatly outweigh the benefits so the only option would be zygo shaving, would it still help a little or should i just accept that im doomed and try to work on everything else instead of hyperfocusing on eyes
do not get your zygos shaved bro jfl
focus on everything else, you’re probably hyperfocusing on a problem that’s not that bad
 
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do not get your zygos shaved bro jfl
focus on everything else, you’re probably hyperfocusing on a problem that’s not that bad
understood
but everybody keeps telling me that it IS that bad tho
if i dont get anything done for that then maybe i could at least benefit from debloating and some sort of masseter botox (theyre hypertrophied from chewing gum every day for 2+ years) to reduce the wide face appearance and kinda balance out the eye spacing ig ?
or is that cope
 
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understood
but everybody keeps telling me that it IS that bad tho
if i dont get anything done for that then maybe i could at least benefit from debloating and some sort of masseter botox (theyre hypertrophied from chewing gum every day for 2+ years) to reduce the wide face appearance and kinda balance out the eye spacing ig ?
or is that cope
that might work if done slightly
wdym by “everybody”
 
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that might work if done slightly
wdym by “everybody”
dont waste ur time by looking at all my threads but basically in most of them this is the n°1 thing that came up, either ipd or esr was like a huge failo (ipd is ~64mm im pretty sure which is about average but since the overall appearance of my eyes is close set + lets say a realtively wide bizygo it just makes it look a lot worse)
 
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heres a reference pic about 6ft from mirror
 

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dont waste ur time by looking at all my threads but basically in most of them this is the n°1 thing that came up, either ipd or esr was like a huge failo (ipd is ~64mm im pretty sure which is about average but since the overall appearance of my eyes is close set + lets say a realtively wide bizygo it just makes it look a lot worse)
just checked, i will say they are pretty close set but not hypotelorism, and they’re also slightly on the smaller side which doesn’t help your case
but it’s not as bad as people make it up to be, the biggest problem you have which likely the cause of such close set eyes is your philtrum, not cause of the mouth’s position but cause your nose is too short, maybe a lip lift would help but i think a rhino with cartilage grafting would be better you also have very chapped lips bro invest in some lip balm
not ugly+you got blue eyes halo, don’t stress
 
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just checked, i will say they are pretty close set but not hypotelorism, and they’re also slightly on the smaller side which doesn’t help your case
but it’s not as bad as people make it up to be, the biggest problem you have which likely the cause of such close set eyes is your philtrum, not cause of the mouth’s position but cause your nose is too short, maybe a lip lift would help but i think a rhino with cartilage grafting would be better you also have very chapped lips bro invest in some lip balm
not ugly+you got blue eyes halo, don’t stress
the long philtrum/short nose make my midface look longer which subsequently make my close set eyes appear even closer set if i understood correctly ?
appreciate the advice bro ur helping me a lot
yeah the lips were chapped cuz i just got home in that pic from very cold weather but i promise i do use lip balm every day and drink a shit ton of water to keep them clean and smooth
i'll look into the rhino and lip lift stuff thanks!!
 
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what's the minimum esr considered acceptable in a man (what i mean is you can still look good with that esr) ? and also is it always a synonym of a narrow skull ? my esr is really low (~0.435-0.44) and im not too sure about the narrow skull part because a lot of it comes from a wide bizygo width
43 isnt really low lol you can fraud with hair.
 
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43 isnt really low lol you can fraud with hair.
really ?
on me i feel like it looks pretty bad and messes up several ratios tho
i should keep growing out my hair then ig to cover those cheekbones
 
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if you don’t have ideal or slightly wide set esr it’s over
i do think that there are some good looking people with slightly close set eyes but generally speaking close set eyes=narrow skull which is ugly
if you have extremely wide set eyes (borderline hypertelorism) it’s truly over unless you get obo
Is there any easy ways to check?
 
really ?
on me i feel like it looks pretty bad and messes up several ratios tho
i should keep growing out my hair then ig to cover those cheekbones
theres literally people who look good with 41 esr or 50 ive seen both. its obviously a flaw but not a death sentence unless you have super close set eyes with small pfl and bad eye color like marco jaric
 
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if you don’t have ideal or slightly wide set esr it’s over
i do think that there are some good looking people with slightly close set eyes but generally speaking close set eyes=narrow skull which is ugly
if you have extremely wide set eyes (borderline hypertelorism) it’s truly over unless you get obo
"Close set eyes = narrow skull", we just saying stuff now or what
 
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"Close set eyes = narrow skull", we just saying stuff now or what
that’s what people perceive it as
not saying the actual skull is narrow
 
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theres literally people who look good with 41 esr or 50 ive seen both. its obviously a flaw but not a death sentence unless you have super close set eyes with small pfl and bad eye color like marco jaric
i see yeah
u got any examples of ppl with close set eyes that still look good ?
for me the best would be to work on eyebrows and lashes + eventually some sort of philtrum reduction/lip lift ?
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Alr yeah my its one eye apart phew👌
 
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i see yeah
u got any examples of ppl with close set eyes that still look good ?
for me the best would be to work on eyebrows and lashes + eventually some sort of philtrum reduction/lip lift ?
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preciate it
they look great indeed yeah theres hope
i feel like i need to make my lower third look less "bulky" as well to balance things out cuz i fear it might not be helping with the close setedness of my eyes
theres nothing you can do about eye spacing anyway so no point in worrying about it, maxx out everything else and you can still look great. grow your hair out and get a haircut similar to what barrett has. layered and textured covering the zygos
good luck
 
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theres nothing you can do about eye spacing anyway so no point in worrying about it, maxx out everything else and you can still look great. grow your hair out and get a haircut similar to what barrett has. layered and textured covering the zygos
good luck
thanks for helping me out ur a real one
 
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