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TLDR: UNLESS IF YOU'RE SOME GUY IN A HIGH-STATUS JOB, RICH, (IDEALLY) PSL 6.5+ WITH THOUSANDS OF INSTAGRAM FOLLOWERS, YOU CAN'T GET A STACY TO LTR YOU. AND LOOKS MATTER LESS TO STACIES THAN OTHER GIRLS, THE OTHER ATTRIBUTES I MENTIONED ARE MORE IMPORTANT TO THEM.
THIS RICH CHAD INVESTMENT BANKER HAD A HUGE HAREM OF WOMEN. THESE TYPES OF GUYS ARE WHAT STACIES WANT.
In my final year of university, I met an investment banking graduate in class. He was smart, confident, well-composed, and came to class in a suit everyday. He looked extremely good in his suit because of his height and build, very tall with broad and muscly shoulders. He was opinionated, always giving his opinion and speaking out in class and when he did everybody listened carefully. Even the professor was particularly impressed and always asked for his opinion or would come up to him after class for more discussion. He began talking to me and asking me out. I fell hard. I've never met anyone who was such a smooth talker, so charismatic and…. perfect. It's like my dream guy stepping out of my dream. This is before I knew that he was anything remotely rich.( And he is rich, came from a very rich family and lives in a fancy house in a very nice area). I just knew he was hot and cool and just so perfect. He rides a motorbike as well, and being a shy and quite sheltered young woman I was so impressed. He took me on his bike a few times and I remember feeling special and adventurous.
But he was far from my dream guy. He was a good liar, so good. I've also never met anyone so logical and so good at reasoning. I just gave up everytime I tried to argue with him because everything he said made perfect sense. I knew that he was a player type from the start, my friend warned that she saw him with another girl on the day he asked me out. But I chose to brush it aside. I was so blinded. I remember I even had a stupid dream, in which he told me that he already has 7 girlfriends, and I told him I don't care if you have 7 or 100 girlfriends I still want to be with you. He made my brain turn into a big soupy mess. In the months that I was with him, there was not a single week that I did not have mood swings. He would make me super happy then super sad and angry. There was not a single week that I spent without waiting, anticipating. His workload was crazy, and I was always left to wonder whether he was playing games or telling the truth. Our plans were never made until last minute and never confirmed until last second. I felt like a reserved prize or an on call maid because I would cancel all my plans and reserve my weekends for him only to be told that he just received important work and could not make it. In the end I guess it's better that I did not continue with him. But I still love him, a lot. And I don't think I can ever forget that feeling when he held me tightly in his arms. I dont think I can ever feel the same for another person.
So women are attracted to investment bankers mostly because they have qualities that women traditionally look for in a man. But my advice for all the women out there who are attracted to investment bankers: RUN, run and don't look back. It's not worth it to waste your time and life on trying to build a relationship with them because in the end you will just have heartaches and loneliness. And spend the best years of your life in anxiousness, anticipation and unfulfilment.
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THIS RICH CHAD INVESTMENT BANKER HAD A HUGE HAREM OF WOMEN. THESE TYPES OF GUYS ARE WHAT STACIES WANT.
In my final year of university, I met an investment banking graduate in class. He was smart, confident, well-composed, and came to class in a suit everyday. He looked extremely good in his suit because of his height and build, very tall with broad and muscly shoulders. He was opinionated, always giving his opinion and speaking out in class and when he did everybody listened carefully. Even the professor was particularly impressed and always asked for his opinion or would come up to him after class for more discussion. He began talking to me and asking me out. I fell hard. I've never met anyone who was such a smooth talker, so charismatic and…. perfect. It's like my dream guy stepping out of my dream. This is before I knew that he was anything remotely rich.( And he is rich, came from a very rich family and lives in a fancy house in a very nice area). I just knew he was hot and cool and just so perfect. He rides a motorbike as well, and being a shy and quite sheltered young woman I was so impressed. He took me on his bike a few times and I remember feeling special and adventurous.
But he was far from my dream guy. He was a good liar, so good. I've also never met anyone so logical and so good at reasoning. I just gave up everytime I tried to argue with him because everything he said made perfect sense. I knew that he was a player type from the start, my friend warned that she saw him with another girl on the day he asked me out. But I chose to brush it aside. I was so blinded. I remember I even had a stupid dream, in which he told me that he already has 7 girlfriends, and I told him I don't care if you have 7 or 100 girlfriends I still want to be with you. He made my brain turn into a big soupy mess. In the months that I was with him, there was not a single week that I did not have mood swings. He would make me super happy then super sad and angry. There was not a single week that I spent without waiting, anticipating. His workload was crazy, and I was always left to wonder whether he was playing games or telling the truth. Our plans were never made until last minute and never confirmed until last second. I felt like a reserved prize or an on call maid because I would cancel all my plans and reserve my weekends for him only to be told that he just received important work and could not make it. In the end I guess it's better that I did not continue with him. But I still love him, a lot. And I don't think I can ever forget that feeling when he held me tightly in his arms. I dont think I can ever feel the same for another person.
So women are attracted to investment bankers mostly because they have qualities that women traditionally look for in a man. But my advice for all the women out there who are attracted to investment bankers: RUN, run and don't look back. It's not worth it to waste your time and life on trying to build a relationship with them because in the end you will just have heartaches and loneliness. And spend the best years of your life in anxiousness, anticipation and unfulfilment.
Why are some females so attracted to investment bankers?
Answer (1 of 14): In my final year of university, I met an investment banking graduate in class. He was smart, confident, well-composed, and came to class in a suit everyday. He looked extremely good in his suit because of his height and build, very tall with broad and muscly shoulders. He was op...
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