FINALLY GOT A DATE FROM HINGE AND THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED...

[ascension124]

bruh she was playing you lmfao
anyways if a girl flakes on me once shes gone fuck them hoes, if a girl did this to me im legit showing up to her house and blowing out her ass

Us men need to have a ZERO TOLERANCE policy for flaking because they do to. If you flake on them you think those bitches will reschedule? @Amnesia

 

[ascension124]

I wonder if uh.. I have the most flakes with a single female on here. No joke but even a chubby blonde blue eyed 5'10" Libra ESFJ girl absolutely nihilated my flake meeter this year

>Go back earlier this year
>Match with a LTB from a decade ago (same girl I've been crying over)
>we reconnect, invites me to her place, watch a movie, make out, I make it to 2nd base (she didn't want to go further than that and stopped me but tbf my dick was limp from nosleep and stimulants so we just grinded and I got her half naked, basically what we did 10 years ago almost exactly again
>the night comes to a close, hug and promise we would see each other
>next week comes, I ask to hangout
>she's busy
>next week
>she's out of town on a camping trip
>ask her out next week
>she says she is on her period
>At this point wonder if she is just not taking me serious so I up the ante (very stupid to do)
>I ask if she wants to watch the sunset together
>she replies something like "I'll be on town but don't hate me if I flake"
>the day comes, she flakes, but asks "can we do it another time?"
>not big surprise but I brush it off whatever, I set up another time
>Next week comes she texts that she's moving and hopes I find what I'm looking for, it's been fun
>rip my heart
>Yada yada, I guess it just wasn't meant to be in the cards. I'm feeling like I fucked it up by wanting the romantic sunset part

So anyways, there was also "too busy to meet right now" like a week before we hung out for the movie night part, so I wouldn't take it to heart. Wasn't really a rejection since she's a busy business woman too. Anything can still happen after. I understand she is a popular girl and had 100 chads lined up, it can get lost in that new release movie line. But I believe she actually had family priorities to good reason put dating in the backseat during the summer time, so that's why I ultimately failed and over time she removed me from her Snapchat altogether bc I wanted more than she was looking for; I wasn't playing the Chad pump n dump game which she ultimately wanted me to move on from her.

I would say flaking has very little meaning in 2024 as long as you're still on her contact list. The busiest and independent the girl, the more you should expect it to be a normal thing.

FLAKING IS NOT NORMAL AND SHOULD NOT BE ACCEPTED AS SUCH BY US MEN

 

[jonkler]

she found a better looking guy to go on a date with

 

[GreekGenes]

After weeks of getting no matches I finally managed to get a date with a strong MTB. She was acting super into me texting fast giving me her number etc. Then the day of the date she still was behaving this way.

2 hours before the date she says she's not feeling well and says she cant make it and says can we reschedule but I know thats cope.

This is what the Western market has come to. No I am not coping. Other slayers like @Amnesia and @Foreverbrad can confirm this type of shit

Just a year ago I was easily getting dates with HTBs, now i am unable to even get a date with a MTB, let alone a slay or an LTR from dating apps.

Truly brutal times we live in...

@cvzvvc @Swarthy Knight @Whatever

Sounds like you might have to settle for someone below your standards, honey

 

[GreekGenes]

Us men need to have a ZERO TOLERANCE policy for flaking because they do to. If you flake on them you think those bitches will reschedule? @Amnesia

hahahahahaha, do you really think she cares about your reaction?

She goes back to the app where the like counter is at 99+ 24/7.

 

[ascension124]

she found a better looking guy to go on a date with

@edodalic29 Yup def found many of the MTN moggers you saw. Funny how these guys with zero experience and sub 5 laycounts bash other men when girls are the problem. Chads like @Amnesia gets flaked on too so this makes zero sense

 

[ascension124]

hahahahahaha, do you really think she cares about your reaction?

She goes back to the app where the like counter is at 99+ 24/7.

I didn’t say they care I said we shouldn’t reschedule. Should I say it in Greek?

 

[GreekGenes]

I didn’t say they care I said we shouldn’t reschedule. Should I say it in Greek?

just being a bit of an asshole to you, nvm

yes please say it in greek

 

[jonkler]

@edodalic29 Yup def found many of the MTN moggers you saw. Funny how these guys with zero experience and sub 5 laycounts bash other men when girls are the problem

the only problem here is your face lil bro

 

[ascension124]

just being a bit of an asshole to you, nvm

yes please say it in greek

All good I was joking

 

[actualunderstander]

Yeah dude I totally lost ability to approach after being addicted to apps for years. Should I start cold approaching at the mall? I hate bars and clubs and can’t stay up late and don’t drink anymore

Instead of cold approaching in the traditional sense, try joining clubs or activities that naturally makes you meet people. If you're in college join a few clubs that may not be the most interesting, but that a lot of people/chicks belong to. If you don't belong to a college , there are other ways to do this but basically you wanna put yourself in situations where girls are (a club/bar could work, and is probably the second best option for meeting women) but it's best if it's more natural. You still wanna make the first move and approach, but it's best to put yourself in a situation where it seems somewhat natural. But if you can't find an activity like this, bars and clubs are better than apps and will lead to more successful attempts.

 

[ascension124]

Instead of cold approaching in the traditional sense, try joining clubs or activities that naturally makes you meet people. If you're in college join a few clubs that may not be the most interesting, but that a lot of people/chicks belong to. If you don't belong to a college , there are other ways to do this but basically you wanna put yourself in situations where girls are (a club/bar could work, and is probably the second best option for meeting women) but it's best if it's more natural. You still wanna make the first move and approach, but it's best to put yourself in a situation where it seems somewhat natural. But if you can't find an activity like this, bars and clubs are better than apps and will lead to more successful attempts.

But wouldn't this be limiting volume wise? @edodalic29 I tried working at a bar before and there were only 2 girls there and none were hot I also didnt want to stay up all night for that job. How can we get volume?

 

[actualunderstander]

But wouldn't this be limiting volume wise? @edodalic29 I tried working at a bar before and there were only 2 girls there and none were hot I also didnt want to stay up all night for that job. How can we get volume?

You gotta make a plan and go out more if there isn't enough. Eventually you will meet a girl that digs you. In any big city, there are bars and clubs with girls all over. Id say in my city for example if I go to the right street that has bars and clubs, there are hundreds of girls there. But you wanna find a more low-key place where there are girls, but not too many cause the places with the most people have the most competition and the most selective girls. So find a less populated dive bar sorta place with a good amount of chicks. You just gotta do your research essentially

 

[ascension124]

You gotta make a plan and go out more if there isn't enough. Eventually you will meet a girl that digs you. In any big city, there are bars and clubs with girls all over. Id say in my city for example if I go to the right street that has bars and clubs, there are hundreds of girls there. But you wanna find a more low-key place where there are girls, but not too many cause the places with the most people have the most competition and the most selective girls. So find a less populated dive bar sorta place with a good amount of chicks. You just gotta do your research essentially

Do you do a lot or cold approwch?

 

[actualunderstander]

Do you do a lot or cold approwch?

When I was a degenerate the best method for meeting girls was going to house parties and approaching them there, or going to bars and clubs and doing it. I had a lot of friends with me, which makes you more likely to pick up girls cause they like well connected men (especially the type of girls you meet at bars and clubs). But you can find a spot that's more low-key and that's where you need to make moves. You will eventually need to be okay with making a first move and getting rejected.

Again if you are in a place where you can join clubs, that's best. Naturally meeting people who shares an interest or just in the same club is the best method for meeting a good girl. You will still most likely need to make a "first move" but it's easier and you don't need to be as straight forward. Just talk about the acitivity you're doing an make friends with them and it can fall into place. Are you in college?

 

[ascension124]

When I was a degenerate the best method for meeting girls was going to house parties and approaching them there, or going to bars and clubs and doing it. I had a lot of friends with me, which makes you more likely to pick up girls cause they like well connected men (especially the type of girls you meet at bars and clubs). But you can find a spot that's more low-key and that's where you need to make moves. You will eventually need to be okay with making a first move and getting rejected.

Again if you are in a place where you can join clubs, that's best. Naturally meeting people who shares an interest or just in the same club is the best method for meeting a good girl. You will still most likely need to make a "first move" but it's easier and you don't need to be as straight forward. Just talk about the acitivity you're doing an make friends with them and it can fall into place. Are you in college?

No im 24 bro out of college. How do you deal with rejection in a positive way? I take it very personal and it lowers my confidence

 

[actualunderstander]

No im 24 bro out of college. How do you deal with rejection in a positive way? I take it very personal and it lowers my confidence

You just gotta get over it somehow. It's easier said than done, but there are people out there you have probably met that just eat rejection like a beast and they always do the best with girls. Girls these days want guys to approach despite what people say (as long as you're properly reading body language and truly know when to stop or not approach any longer). I read statistics on how tons of gen Z men haven't even approached once in their life.

I've seen not attractive men who approach and get rejected , but do it a lot so they eventually always meet a girl. I have this friend who gets rejected alot but he gets with more girls than the average dude despite being below average in looks. Yes he has gotten some harsh rejections but it just worked other times.

So you need to somehow learn to mentally overcome it which has no easy cheat code. You basically need to mediate or something and take control of your mind. Possibly get confidence by following your passions in life so when you get rejected it isn't the end of the world and you can just move on with your life til the next time. But one thing is true, you need to become the first move maker of you wanna get good. So basically expect to get rejected and get good at not letting it get to you because if you don't you won't make the move you will have to make eventually.

 

[edodalic29]

No im 24 bro out of college. How do you deal with rejection in a positive way? I take it very personal and it lowers my confidence

Damn you the same age as me m8

 

[ascension124]

@edodalic29 @Amnesia The same thing happened again tonight . I had a double stack (2 dates planned) I flaked the less hot one at 6 pm and the other one flaked me one hour before date

 

[Amnesia]

@edodalic29 @Amnesia The same thing happened again tonight . I had a double stack (2 dates planned) I flaked the less hot one at 6 pm and the other one flaked me one hour before date

yeah dude I always schedule multiple tinder dates the same night knowing at least 1 if not all are going to flake/cancel

 

[ascension124]

yeah dude I always schedule multiple tinder dates the same night knowing at least 1 if not all are going to flake/cancel

I’ve been setting up 2 per night and both nights got flaked by the other. Now I’m going to start flaking on the other 30 min before the date to prevent this @edodalic29 @Foreverbrad

 

[pleasemog54]

I became a nazi bc of the bp. The bp is eugenics and nazi

 

[pleasemog54]

yeah dude I always schedule multiple tinder dates the same night knowing at least 1 if not all are going to flake/cancel

you will never be a genetic chad unfortunately. Women in your area prolly will be evil and find your ugliest picture on the internet which u have alot of, so then they will reject u. You are a surgery chad

 

[pleasemog54]

you will never be a genetic chad unfortunately. Women in your area prolly will be evil and find your ugliest picture on the internet which u have alot of, so then they will reject u. You are a surgery chad

like your before surgery photos

 

[pleasemog54]

they prolly pass the amnesia pre-ascension memes around to hurt your chances

 

[HorseMan7]

Yeah i think apps rate are slowly decreasing and more more women just dont gaf tbh . The thing is i changed my preferences to see what the other men look like and there are legit 0 moggers

Ya I think if a girl is decent looking, she gets approached irl. She doesn't need to rely on the apps and thus she can afford to be super flaky

 

[enchanted_elixir]

After weeks of getting no matches I finally managed to get a date with a strong MTB. She was acting super into me texting fast giving me her number etc. Then the day of the date she still was behaving this way.

2 hours before the date she says she's not feeling well and says she cant make it and says can we reschedule but I know thats cope.

This is what the Western market has come to. No I am not coping. Other slayers like @Amnesia and @Foreverbrad can confirm this type of shit

Just a year ago I was easily getting dates with HTBs, now i am unable to even get a date with a MTB, let alone a slay or an LTR from dating apps.

Truly brutal times we live in...

@cvzvvc @Swarthy Knight @Whatever

Why are you still on dating apps

 

[ascension124]

Why are you still on dating apps

Dude I just got flaked again tn by a becky 2 hours before date. Debating whether to go to the bar alone and cold approach rn