Fix your biggest flaw

[Peco]

Self consciousness is the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

 

[hezaymoglet]

This is literally the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself to other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

ok

 

[Genio]

oh my gah genio please fuck me fuck me hard yes zaddy ohmygahhhhhh yes fack meee

Woah that's a bit too gay bro tone it down a bit lad.

 

[Peco]

ok

You really should give it a shot, it's not that hard to fix the habit but it will have massive effects.

 

[tmaxxni]

This is literally the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

i try to not focus on my looks when im out or at school etc but when i speak with a foid they always say something that reminds me of how bad i look

 

[Peco]

i try to not focus on my looks when im out or at school etc but when i speak with a foid they always say something that reminds me of how bad i look

I get what you mean. When you are so invested in something things might seem bigger than they are. It's like when you learn about something new and it seems that you start seeing it everywhere. You have just become more aware of that thing. It's the same thing for appearance, if you are too aware of it you will keep linking the behaviour of others to your looks.

I suggest you stop looking at yourself all together not just outside or at school. Of course you can check yourself in the mirror before leaving the house and in a few other situations, but avoid standing in front of your mirror analyzing your flaws. Same with videos or pictures.

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

This is literally the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

6' 3 chadlite would help

 

[Peco]

6' 3 chadlite would help

Even if you were to achieve that it wouldn't stop you from being self conscious. You think it would but it wouldn't. Certainly it would makes things easier but the only way to get out of it is to break the habit like I explained. But like I said you should still keep working on yourself.

 

[agustoz]

This is literally the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

Start being conscious

 

[Peco]

Start being conscious

What do you mean by that ?

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

Even if you were to achieve that it wouldn't stop you from being self conscious. You think it would but it wouldn't. Certainly it would makes things easier but the only way to get out of it is to break the habit like I explained. But like I said you should still keep working on yourself.

Don't look into the mirror selfcounoius weak faggot, urs anyoning. Stop being a pussy gay cuck, and let ur energy go outward, gay cuck kys loser

 

[Peco]

Don't look into the mirror selfcounoius weak faggot, urs anyoning. Stop being a pussy gay cuck, and let ur energy go outward, gay cuck kys loser

Holy shit bro chill. I can guarantee you that this is one of the things that helped me the most. I'm 6'2 and good looking, I had girls hit on me but believe me when I tell you it did not make me less self conscious, at all. It's your mind that you gotta fix not your body for this.

 

[agustoz]

What do you mean by that ?

Are u pro self awareness or anti

 

[Peco]

Are u pro self awareness or anti

Can you explain what you mean by pro self awareness ?

 

[agustoz]

Can you explain what you mean by pro self awareness ?

Are u supporting the idea of self awareness

 

[Peco]

Are u supporting the idea of self awareness

Isn't self awareness the self as self consciousness ? English isn't my first language so I might be wrong but I believe they mean the same thing. If so then no I don't support it. I mean everyone has a baseline self awareness, which is linked to your intelligence (I would actually say self awareness is the strongest sign of intelligence). I do not think you should try to be actively more self aware though, for the reasons I explained in this post. I think it's important to understand your emotions and why you might be feeling a certain way, without that affecting your behaviour. You should try to be rational when thinking about yourself.

 

[Taylors_Lil_Ethnic]

Self consciousness is the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

no wonder you have such a fuckass post to rep ratio, STFU BRO

 

[Peco]

no wonder you have such a fuckass post to rep ratio, STFU BRO

I'm not sure why people care so much about post to rep ratio. It should indicate the quality of your posting but everytime I look at the profile area of someone with a high ratio most of their posts are in off topic. You are no exception with 1777 total posts and 1366 of them in off topic. That's a better ratio to look at to understand how knowledgeable someone is in my opinion. Join date is another thing people look at a lot. How about you guys just read what people have to say and argument with something other than stfu, dnr or any other bullshit.

 

[Taylors_Lil_Ethnic]

I'm not sure why people care so much about post to rep ratio. It should indicate the quality of your posting but everytime I look at the profile area of someone with a high ratio most of their posts are in off topic. You are no exception with 1777 total posts and 1366 of them in off topic. That's a better ratio to look at to understand how knowledgeable someone is in my opinion. Join date is another thing people look at a lot. How about you guys just read what people have to say and argument with something other than stfu, dnr or any other bullshit.

actual respect for not responding violently, my words were that of an uneducated fool. forgive me, keep up the good threads brodie

 

[Matrix88]

Self consciousness is the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

there's no escape brochacho

 

[Peco]

there's no escape brochacho

Believe me when I tell you that I did fix these habits, and it's the single thing that helped me the most with confidence and performing in social settings, much more than looking better did.

 

[nwed]

Self consciousness is the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

this is why you have 600 post and 300 rep

 

[Peco]

this is why you have 600 post and 300 rep

Make some real criticism instead of fixating on that. I think my points are all valid

 

[nwed]

Self consciousness is the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking

easy for you
if you mind i just skipped a whole week of school because of what i look btw

 

[Peco]

easy for you
if you mind i just skipped a whole week of school because of what i look btw

I used to be like that too. In my last year of highschool I probably skipped 30/40 days because of ugly I felt. I literally could not hold a one on one conversation with basically anyone.

The post wasn't made to tell you to stop working on yourself. But you gotta realize that all this resentment and hate you have towards yourself and the world is not helping you in the slightest.

All the people here are so proud of how "objective" they are but don't realize how much they are being guided by feelings. There is no advantage in spending hours analyzing videos, pictures or reflections of yourself.

It might seem counter intuitive because if you are improving yourself you constantly want to have reassurance that what you are doing is working. You constantly need to check if you look good or bad.

But knowing how you look in a certain moment is only useful to knowing how you look in that moment. It's not gonna change how you look. It's not gonna make it better or worse.

If you are actually proud of your rationality you should realize how much of a waste of time comparing yourself with others or spending hours looking at yourself is.

And again I know that it's not something you can just stop doing by snapping your fingers. I had it wired in my brain. For some it might be harder than others but it's an objective fact that there is no utility in keeping any of the habits listed above. The first step is understanding this.

This is not judgemental towards you. I'd like to know what you think about it.

 

[nwed]

I used to be like that too. In my last year of highschool I probably skipped 30/40 days because of ugly I felt. I literally could not hold a one on one conversation with basically anyone.

The post wasn't made to tell you to stop working on yourself. But you gotta realize that all this resentment and hate you have towards yourself and the world is not helping you in the slightest.

All the people here are so proud of how "objective" they are but don't realize how much they are being guided by feelings. There is no advantage in spending hours analyzing videos, pictures or reflections of yourself.

It might seem counter intuitive because if you are improving yourself you constantly want to have reassurance that what you are doing is working. You constantly need to check if you look good or bad.

But knowing how you look in a certain moment is only useful to knowing how you look in that moment. It's not gonna change how you look. It's not gonna make it better or worse.

If you are actually proud of your rationality you should realize how much of a waste of time comparing yourself with others or spending hours looking at yourself is.

And again I know that it's not something you can just stop doing by snapping your fingers. I had it wired in my brain. For some it might be harder than others but it's an objective fact that there is no utility in keeping any of the habits listed above. The first step is understanding this.

This is not judgemental towards you. I'd like to know what you think about it.

Youre right bu its not easy at all

 

[Peco]

Youre right bu its not easy at all

I know it's not. Comparing ourselves with others is something that we can't stop doing, it's in our nature. Everybody does it subconsciously. The problem is if you are actively doing it. Anytime you feel like you are, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself out in every reflective surface or camera. It's ok to check yourself before leaving for school or an event but leave it at that.

I'm sure this is not something you've always done. They are habits you developed probably after discovering looksmaxxing. But they are just that, habits. You can get rid of them.

Again it's crucial for you to understand how useless and irrational they are. They only carry disadvantages and not a single advantage.

And the disasvantages are not only related to your mental health. I remember that because I was so self conscious of my appearance all I was thinking when walking around was keeping the correct tongue posture and clenching. Clenching is obviously bad but actively mewing is equally as bad. Because you can't see inside your mouth you have to rely on your feeling sense to know if you are doing it correctly. But your feeling sense is highly deceiving. It might seem thst you are pushing evenly when you are actually pressing stronger on one side. These 2 habits combined let me to develop tmd and an heavy asymmetry. On top of that I think you know how bad stress is for our body. All the resentment and hate you have for yourself obviously leads to stress and other unhealthy habits like grinding in your sleep. Another thing is the sad/angry resting face, which is mostly characterized by downturned mouth cornerns (many people think it's genetic but it's 100% habitual)

I had all the things listed above and getting rid of my self consciousness helped me a lot with fixing those as well. My tmj is completly fine, symmetry was restored and I also no longer have the angry resting face look.

 

[Don_and-idk]

Self consciousness is the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

saar are you sure will self consciucness triger my tibia to grow? thanks for the hope tho bhai

 

[Peco]

saar are you sure will self consciucness triger my tibia to grow? thanks for the hope tho bhai

Not being self conscious won't make your tibia grow. Being self conscious won't do that either though. But for the reasons I explained in the thread and replies you would much rather choose the first over the second state of mind.

Also I do strongly believe self consciousness has a much stronger effect on your life than your tibia. And it's much easier to fix

 

[Don_and-idk]

Not being self conscious won't make your tibia grow. Being self conscious won't do that either though. But for the reasons I explained in the thread and replies you would much rather choose the first over the second state of mind.

Also I do strongly believe self consciousness has a much stronger effect on your life than your tibia. And it's much easier to fix

so u are basically telling niggas to stop comparing just tl:dr then

 

[Peco]

so u are basically telling niggas to stop comparing just tl:dr then

I am telling people they should stop actively comparing themselves with others and also stop constantly looking at themselves in their camera or reflective surfaces. I think that people that learn about looksmaxxing go from an extreme to another. They go from not being self conscious and not caring about looks to being self conscious and obsessed with appearance. You should realize how important looks are but without that shaping your whole reality and mind.

I feel like on the surface people understand that being self conscious is bad and they are also aware that they are but the problem is that they think that by improving your looks your mind will be fixed as well.

And that is true to an extent. Improving your looks will improve your mental health as well. That is why I said you shouldn't stop working on yourself. But the implication is true the other way as well , for the reasons I explained in the replies to this thread. 99% of people here don't get that, and you can see that by the amount of people calling me a blue pilled faggot.

I think most people in this community are proud of their "objectivity" but do not realize how emotional their approach is. And that hinders the progress of most

 

[Topkra]

Chad confidence was the key to my success with girls

 

[Peco]

Chad confidence was the key to my success with girls

Can't tell if you are being sarcastic but I do think that confidence is really important not only for girls but in life in general. I think many people know that but are under the impression that improving appearance will fix things. But if with that comes self consciousness and resentment you'll end up not improving or even making things worse

 

[Topkra]

Can't tell if you are being sarcastic

I am not.
Confidence is SOMEHOW underrated in this community lol
Women love a confident guy

 

[Peco]

I am not.
Confidence is SOMEHOW underrated in this community lol
Women love a confident guy

I don't think people underrate confidence, I think most people actually start looksmaxxing because their ultimate goal is becoming more confident and socially capable. The problem is that people think there is a correlation between looks and confidence when there is not. The correlation is with self consciousness.

You definitely know people that are short or not conventionally attractive that are very confident. I surely do.

Totally disregarding looks is just as dumb of course. I think people in this community know exactly what the end goal should be, and realize the importance of confidence, but the tools they use to try and reach that goal are very sub optimal.

 

[carti lover]

Self consciousness is the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

What if my biggest flaw is my 5:1 ptc ratio my philtrum is 250mm and my chins 50mm

 

[Topkra]

I don't think people underrate confidence

Most people on this forum think confidence only comes with looks, which is somehow correct but as you said, i know a lot of people that are short and ugly who are very confident. I just think people who say "If you were chad you would not need to be confident" is dumb since you are NOT Chad

 

[Peco]

What if my biggest flaw is my 5:1 ptc ratio my philtrum is 250mm and my chins 50mm

No your biggest flaw is that you know this bullshit.

How is knowing these measurements gonna help ? Specifically changing these ratios or measurments is impossible, because if you try to individually work on one it will mess with the others.

I don't understand the benefit. It seems it only helps with making you more self conscious and hateful towards yourself

 

[sub1foidslayer]

Self consciousness is the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

is ts gptslop

 

[Peco]

is ts gptslop

No I never use AI for any of my responses or threads. Not even for formatting or correcting mistakes. I think it's pretty easy to tell if you actually read it

 

[ropemaxxer00]

thanks bhai, DR

 

[carti lover]

No your biggest flaw is that you know this bullshit.

How is knowing these measurements gonna help ? Specifically changing these ratios or measurments is impossible, because if you try to individually work on one it will mess with the others.

I don't understand the benefit. It seems it only helps with making you more self conscious and hateful towards yourself

Lol at this faggot who believes my philtrum is 25cms long

 

[Peco]

Lol at this faggot who believes my philtrum is 25cms long

I didn't pay attention to the measurements because like I said in the reply above I think they are useless. That's what I was trying to say with my reply to you

 

[bluebandz]

Self consciousness is the biggest thing holding you back. I'm sure most of you guys started looksmaxxing because you wanted to be good looking enough to the point where you would stop stressing about your appearance, especially in social situations.

But is looksmaxxing really helping you with that ?
I'm sure when you are outside you constantly compare yourself with other people. You check yourself out everytime you see a mirror or reflective surface. You need constant reassurance that you are looking good. I was like that too. I know how painful it is to live life like that.

I know that it's hard to stop, for some more than others. But you gotta understand that there is no advantage to thinking like that. It's basically impossible to stop comparing yourself with others, that's human nature, but try to stop doing it actively. If you notice yourself doing it, redirect your thoughts somewhere else. Same thing with looking at yourself. Fight the urge of checking yourself when you pass by a mirror and don't spend hours analyzing pictures, videos or reflections of yourself. Don't ask others to rate you or use apps like face iq. Break the habit.

Don't mistake this for coping. Looks are undeniably important in life. Keep working on yourself but eliminate these unhealthy habits. That's how you actually improve and escape the blackpill. Try this for even just a week and you'll see it will have a massive positive effect on your confidence and performance in social interactions.


I'd like to credit @lurkingserpent. I've had this view on looksmaxxing for a while now but reading some of his posts made it a lot clearer in my mind and ultimately led me to making this post.

i understand and partially agree however in my case it opens my eyes to the fact that i look very sub average and opened my eyes to hypergamy. Looksmaxxing also opens your eyes to more flaws and ideal features and allows you to understand what those features are, meaning you see more flaws and likely have a higher bar for people you would get with

 

[B13]

Yeah let me just ignore the fact that my face is MMTN while Chad walks in and gets free dopamine.

Keep coping with your mindfulness maxxing while the rest of us stay in reality.

So

 

[Peco]

Yeah let me just ignore the fact that my face is MMTN while Chad walks in and gets free dopamine.

Keep coping with your mindfulness maxxing while the rest of us stay in reality.

So

What is the objetive advantage of staying in what you call "reality" ? You guys take so much pride in your objectivity and then do things that have 0 pros and countless cons.

I did not tell you to stop improving your looks, but it's a fact that there is no advantage to keeping the mental framework that I described.

Comparing yourself with others or spending hours analyzing your face will not help you get more attractive or appealing in any way. If anything it will do the opposite

 

[mxdern]

if you mind i just skipped a whole week of school because of what i look btw

I skipped a year but it's not a competition

it's never over
we're all proof of that

stfu and start going harder bro