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I actually do not care about having friends

It just doesn't bother me

Additionally because I'm not terribly non NT, but I've began to see this as very valuable

I twist my chronic pain into "this will only make me stronger"

And thus, naturally I have coped my way into thinking having no friends is good

But it's true, I am myself, there are not portions of my personality which are based upon adherence to social norms. I am a total weirdo and I stopped caring

I dont even care that my coworkers may perceive me as odd

I think it's useful and will make your overall quality of life way better if you can go through with this actively, truthfully and not just to make yourself feel better

One day I really stopped caring, I have my brother to talk to once every few days about politics or some esoteric shit, and that is plenty, more than enough

Looking back, when I was a social person I was so fucking boring

It's better this way

Who's with me?
 
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@RXnd this if for you saar :Comfy:
 
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If you can twist it into strength of character, and believe it as truly so

It becomes a source of power instead :ogre:
 
I'm with you. I feel that way, but about my KHHV status rather than not having friends, since I do have friends.
 
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I actually do not care about having friends

It just doesn't bother me

Additionally because I'm not terribly non NT, but I've began to see this as very valuable

I twist my chronic pain into "this will only make me stronger"

And thus, naturally I have coped my way into thinking having no friends is good

But it's true, I am myself, there are not portions of my personality which are based upon adherence to social norms. I am a total weirdo and I stopped caring

I dont even care that my coworkers may perceive me as odd

I think it's useful and will make your overall quality of life way better if you can go through with this actively, truthfully and not just to make yourself feel better

One day I really stopped caring, I have my brother to talk to once every few days about politics or some esoteric shit, and that is plenty, more than enough

Looking back, when I was a social person I was so fucking boring

It's better this way

Who's with me?
saar this will prevent you from a lot of opportunities including making money connections are very vital to climb social latter's friend's are needed and can be used to assist you even if you feel as though they aren't needed :oops:
 
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saar this will prevent you from a lot of opportunities including making money connections are very vital to climb social latter's friend's are needed and can be used to assist you even if you feel as though they aren't needed :oops:
Saar I did not think of this one :what:
 
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@RXnd this if for you saar :Comfy:
This could work if you have siblings like u said

But some niggas will cope having no friends while having 0 social interaction, that’s something your mental health can’t afford
 
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This could work if you have siblings like u said

But some niggas will cope having no friends while having 0 social interaction, that’s something your mental health can’t afford
0 social interaction is pretty bad I do have a job

But sometimes I go weeks without speaking to my brother dead srs

Two non NTs do not make a right
 
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I actually do not care about having friends

It just doesn't bother me

Additionally because I'm not terribly non NT, but I've began to see this as very valuable

I twist my chronic pain into "this will only make me stronger"

And thus, naturally I have coped my way into thinking having no friends is good

But it's true, I am myself, there are not portions of my personality which are based upon adherence to social norms. I am a total weirdo and I stopped caring

I dont even care that my coworkers may perceive me as odd

I think it's useful and will make your overall quality of life way better if you can go through with this actively, truthfully and not just to make yourself feel better

One day I really stopped caring, I have my brother to talk to once every few days about politics or some esoteric shit, and that is plenty, more than enough

Looking back, when I was a social person I was so fucking boring

It's better this way

Who's with me?
This is cope bud.:feelshmm:
 
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I actually do not care about having friends

It just doesn't bother me

Additionally because I'm not terribly non NT, but I've began to see this as very valuable

I twist my chronic pain into "this will only make me stronger"

And thus, naturally I have coped my way into thinking having no friends is good

But it's true, I am myself, there are not portions of my personality which are based upon adherence to social norms. I am a total weirdo and I stopped caring

I dont even care that my coworkers may perceive me as odd

I think it's useful and will make your overall quality of life way better if you can go through with this actively, truthfully and not just to make yourself feel better

One day I really stopped caring, I have my brother to talk to once every few days about politics or some esoteric shit, and that is plenty, more than enough

Looking back, when I was a social person I was so fucking boring

It's better this way

Who's with me?
3 years ago I deleted my social media and eliminated any existence of acquaintances, I never had friends but I did have many people who treated me as one, I think it was the best I could do, although it feels lonely and fucking sad, especially if you are going through a shitty mental period, but pride is the most important thing and not depending on others to be well is best
 
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3 years ago I deleted my social media and eliminated any existence of acquaintances, I never had friends but I did have many people who treated me as one, I think it was the best I could do, although it feels lonely and fucking sad, especially if you are going through a shitty mental period, but pride is the most important thing and not depending on others to be well is best
Based

Now send me your birthday as you sound like an oddball
 
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we like to think we dont need friends, but we do
all the favorite periods in my life is when i had a cool friend circle
 
I just want money and friends help you make money
 
You know you love talking to people. That’s why you make threads bud:feelshmm:
Normal people are not worth talking to tbh

I am literally pretending irl all day

Only my non NTs :Comfy:
 
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Friend groups are a must for Happinessmaxxing
 
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