Friend leaves me

[Jesus_ist_König]

All my life I never had a friend until less then one year ago I met a dude my age at a church and since then we talk after liturgy for like 30 minutes to 1,5 hours approx. 1 time a week or lesser. He is my best friend even though we dont meet often -i dont like ppl- but the meetings are like super high quality.

Long story short: Since he will become a monk and go to a monastery, he will move places this year and leave me.

That is again why i hate humans. I liked him and now he is going, friendships are like temporary they are worthless on the long run.

What do I do? There is nothing to do bro -maybe not getting into another friendship????

 

[Pelvix]

No don't isolate yourself that just a self defense mechanism to not get hurt again

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

No don't isolate yourself that just a self defense mechanism to not get hurt again

I enjoy being alone though??? Like most of the time. When im at functions i just dont enjoy all the talking and blah blah it gets me uncomfortable.

but at somepoint after like 6 months I do get lonely and have to meet someone and then 6 months later again -im fine with that

 

[Pelvix]

I enjoy being alone though??? Like most of the time. When im at functions i just dont enjoy all the talking and blah blah it gets me uncomfortable.

but at somepoint after like 6 months I do get lonely and have to meet someone and then 6 months later again -im fine with that

sorry to disappoint but thats not normal , mostly everybody craves human social interaction . If you don't I suggest getting checked out by some doctor you could be nd or something

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

sorry to disappoint but thats not normal , mostly everybody craves human social interaction . If you don't I suggest getting checked out by some doctor you could be nd or something

Im in the game since im 6 bro
Im diagnosed adhd and autism and i hear voices

 

[LowTierBateman]

He was probably happier cuz you werent around

 

[Pelvix]

Im in the game since im 6 bro
Im diagnosed adhd and autism and i hear voices

rip I guess

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

He was probably happier cuz you werent around

Yeah probably. He is deep into theosis though. I asked him "how many friends do you have" he said "everyone is my friend, i love everybody" he is very kind to me

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

rip I guess

Is being ND that bad? Like 60% of the time i enjoy it?

 

[Kiril Velev]

look, nigger... I don't know your situation but in order to get a real friend you need someone who relates to you on the majority of things in life so if you cant find such person you need to evolve yourself

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

All my life I never had a friend until less then one year ago I met a dude my age at a church and since then we talk after liturgy for like 30 minutes to 1,5 hours approx. 1 time a week or lesser. He is my best friend even though we dont meet often -i dont like ppl- but the meetings are like super high quality.

Long story short: Since he will become a monk and go to a monastery, he will move places this year and leave me.

That is again why i hate humans. I liked him and now he is going, friendships are like temporary they are worthless on the long run.

What do I do? There is nothing to do bro -maybe not getting into another friendship????

Id try to explain u why this is not good but Ive already talked to u and ur hard to convince nigga

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

look, nigger... I don't know your situation but in order to get a real friend you need someone who relates to you on the majority of things in life so if you cant find such person you need to evolve yourself

How to live a productive life (get rid of friends)

The biggest step of this is to isolate yourself. Friends are shit. Friends are worthless -they come and go! Friends also heavily impact your way of thinking. Leisure ("Muße" in german) only exists when you do it alone, since everyone knows that friends influent your lifestyle. So leisure is the...

looksmax.org

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Id try to explain u why this is not good but Ive already talked to u and ur hard to convince nigga

Bro im like the easiest person to convince i did masaai jumps, moringa powder, boneshmashing, raw meat, raw eggs im pretty easy to convince

 

[Pelvix]

Is being ND that bad? Like 60% of the time i enjoy it?

nigga your not just ND , you have a whole fucking package and on top of that you hear voices

 

[Montenigger]

I think there is some qoutes in the bible to help you, there is one for all situay

 

[Kiril Velev]

How to live a productive life (get rid of friends)

The biggest step of this is to isolate yourself. Friends are shit. Friends are worthless -they come and go! Friends also heavily impact your way of thinking. Leisure ("Muße" in german) only exists when you do it alone, since everyone knows that friends influent your lifestyle. So leisure is the...

looksmax.org

okay look, nigger... I just wanted to use the phrase "look nigger" somewhere thats why I wrote what I did but to address this thread how are you going to expalin with the fact I have true friends in my life and my oldest friendship has been going on for 13 years

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

Bro im like the easiest person to convince i did masaai jumps, moringa powder, boneshmashing, raw meat, raw eggs im pretty easy to convince

Well honestly u should stick to that friend online and not let him go just like that, true friendships are like that.

Also saying friendship is worthless is not accurate at all, taking away the connection u can always have a friend for some or another self interest, be it money, a good laugh, helps u make good conections or GOT good connections and a lot more

 

[jdofh]

All my life I never had a friend until less then one year ago I met a dude my age at a church and since then we talk after liturgy for like 30 minutes to 1,5 hours approx. 1 time a week or lesser. He is my best friend even though we dont meet often -i dont like ppl- but the meetings are like super high quality.

Long story short: Since he will become a monk and go to a monastery, he will move places this year and leave me.

Woher kommst du?

That is again why i hate humans. I liked him and now he is going, friendships are like temporary they are worthless on the long run.

What do I do? There is nothing to do bro -maybe not getting into another friendship????

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

I think there is some qoutes in the bible to help you, there is one for all situay

True but im not sad. Im just reflecting a lot right now and kinda dissapointed or smth but not sad

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

okay look, nigger... I just wanted to use the phrase "look nigger" somewhere thats why I wrote what I did but to address this thread how are you going to expalin with the fact I have true friends in my life and my oldest friendship has been going on for 13 years

Uhm cuz we are not the same???

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

nigga your not just ND , you have a whole fucking package and on top of that you hear voices

Oh... would you consider me mentally ill?

 

[Kiril Velev]

Uhm cuz we are not the same???

what? in your thread you speak as if you are stating some objective universal way to happiness such a claim needs a single exception to be disproved the fuck is this reply

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Well honestly u should stick to that friend online and not let him go just like that, true friendships are like that.

I wont hinder him from doing Gods work bro

he said i could call him via phone though

Also saying friendship is worthless is not accurate at all, taking away the connection u can always have a friend for some or another self interest, be it money, a good laugh, helps u make good conections or GOT good connections and a lot more

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

@jdofh wieso?

 

[Pelvix]

Oh... would you consider me mentally ill?

Look I can also relate a little I have adhd , but I just think you have much more problems than me by a lot

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

what? in your thread you speak as if you are stating some objective universal way to happiness such a claim needs a single exception to be disproved the fuck is this reply

My thread is -as the title says- about productivity and not happiness

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Look I can also relate a little I have adhd , but I just think you have much more problems than me by a lot

answer the yes no question

 

[JporkFoid]

All my life I never had a friend until less then one year ago I met a dude my age at a church and since then we talk after liturgy for like 30 minutes to 1,5 hours approx. 1 time a week or lesser. He is my best friend even though we dont meet often -i dont like ppl- but the meetings are like super high quality.

Long story short: Since he will become a monk and go to a monastery, he will move places this year and leave me.

That is again why i hate humans. I liked him and now he is going, friendships are like temporary they are worthless on the long run.

What do I do? There is nothing to do bro -maybe not getting into another friendship????

ill b yo friend tw where u at

 

[Pelvix]

answer the yes no question

I am not a fucking doctor

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Look I can also relate a little I have adhd , but I just think you have much more problems than me by a lot

Why is adhd a problem? its just different than others.

I would even state that the average adhd person + adhd med
can focus better than a NT person

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

ill b yo friend tw where u at

I dont want friends

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

I am not a fucking doctor

its ur subjective opinion bro wdym???

 

[JporkFoid]

I dont want friends

can i b yo boyfriend then ng im submissive, shaven and tight

 

[Pelvix]

Why is adhd a problem? its just different than others.

I would even state that the average adhd person + adhd med
can focus better than a NT person

Not exactly , sure you can dial in hard but the problem is once you fuck up once its much harder to go back to focusing again like a normal person would unless you have adreall ofc

 

[Pelvix]

its ur subjective opinion bro wdym???

well when you said that you heard voices that was it for me , are you mentally ill ? sure but your not crazy . You can still sit here talk and rationalize and with the right guidance I am betting you can get yourself in a social circle

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

can i b yo boyfriend then ng im submissive, shaven and tight

no

 

[JporkFoid]

no

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Not exactly , sure you can dial in hard but the problem is once you fuck up once its much harder to go back to focusing again like a normal person would unless you have adreall ofc

wdym once u fuck up? being nd is genetical

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

well when you said that you heard voices that was it for me , are you mentally ill ? sure but your not crazy . You can still sit here talk and rationalize and with the right guidance I am betting you can get yourself in a social circle

I know but regardless of that i still could be mentally ill, its also a spectrum

 

[Pelvix]

wdym once u fuck up? being nd is genetical

I meant when I am focusing on a point or something its harder to lock in back again once I lost my focus

 

[أحمد]

All things end, that's why humans like the idea of something eternal.

 

[jdofh]

@jdofh wieso?

Ich kann dein Freund sein 🫩

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Ich kann dein Freund sein 🫩

danke, aber ich will eh keine Freunde. Bin auch nd traurig, nur etwas reflektierend

 

[jdofh]

danke, aber ich will eh keine Freunde. Bin auch nd traurig, nur etwas reflektierend

Alles klar verstehe
Hoffe du kannst dich davon trotzdem gut erholen

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Alles klar verstehe
Hoffe du kannst dich davon trotzdem gut erholen

danke war nix wildes

 

[Montenigger]

True but im not sad. Im just reflecting a lot right now and kinda dissapointed or smth but not sad

Still negative emotions which is not good, thats why i said there should be a qoute

 

[Deleted member 301467]

All my life I never had a friend until less then one year ago I met a dude my age at a church and since then we talk after liturgy for like 30 minutes to 1,5 hours approx. 1 time a week or lesser. He is my best friend even though we dont meet often -i dont like ppl- but the meetings are like super high quality.

Long story short: Since he will become a monk and go to a monastery, he will move places this year and leave me.

That is again why i hate humans. I liked him and now he is going, friendships are like temporary they are worthless on the long run.

What do I do? There is nothing to do bro -maybe not getting into another friendship????

Hes following the Lord and all you can do is think selfishly about your friendship. L friend