genuine autism advice please

[dipenhydramine]

im so fucking ND its not even funny

i cannot maintain a conversation without following a preset script in my head

i dont know when to stop speaking

i cannot drop people for the life of me

i have no relatable interests

i have struggles understanding basic concepts such as gender norms or the desire to work etc

i express little to no empathy but feel it deeply

have never talked about my feelings to anyone irl

i found out my parents have known im autistic for a long time but didnt get anything done with it because they didnt want retarded children

any advice bhais?

 

[dipenhydramine]

bump pls

 

[dipenhydramine]

bumpppppo brutal noreplypill

 

[superpsycho]

if ur genuinely autistic theres nothing you can do but lay down and rot

 

[dipenhydramine]

if ur genuinely autistic theres nothing you can do but lay down and rot

i dont wanna rot

 

[superpsycho]

i dont wanna rot

 

[ozuhdm]

just looksmax and autism doesnt matter after HTN. if you cant reach that its over

 

[dipenhydramine]

just looksmax and autism doesnt matter after HTN. if you cant reach that its over

i genuinely dont knownmy potential and dont trust this site to rate it

 

[ozuhdm]

i genuinely dont knownmy potential and dont trust this site to rate it

other people cant tell your potential from 2-3 pictures it matters too much from angle, lightning and shit (also your current rating)

 

[dipenhydramine]

other people cant tell your potential from 2-3 pictures it matters too much from angle, lightning and shit (also your current rating)

if i send you a video could you rate my potential

i havent practiced good hygeine in a few months and am 20kg overweight rn

 

[ozuhdm]

if i send you a video could you rate my potential

i havent practiced good hygeine in a few months and am 20kg overweight rn

you can do that I try

 

[vratisevojvodo]

could benzos or nootropics change it

 

[crazyguy]

i dont know when to stop speaking

just stop speaking when you have nothing interesting to say

i have no relatable interests

i have struggles understanding basic concepts such as gender norms or the desire to work etc

i express little to no empathy but feel it deeply

just larp

have never talked about my feelings to anyone irl

you dont have to, they most likely wouldnt care

 

[dipenhydramine]

just stop speaking when you have nothing interesting to say


just larp


you dont have to, they most likely wouldnt care

last one is true

other 2 i have tried and cant

 

[dipenhydramine]

could benzos or nootropics change it

idk abt benzos i could tru nootropics idk what tho

 

[vratisevojvodo]

idk abt benzos i could tru nootropics idk what tho

In addition to all of this, you can try to get a prescription for the propranolol... A lot of people have written here that it has helped them to have low inhibition.

 

[crazyguy]

last one is true

other 2 i have tried and cant

for the first one, know that its better to talk too little than to talk too much
i cant help you with the second one, just find a random nt hobby that you find interesting

 

[dipenhydramine]

In addition to all of this, you can try to get a prescription for the propranolol... A lot of people have written here that it has helped them to have low inhibition.

i will try this thank you

 

[nzvids]

idk abt benzos i could tru nootropics idk what tho

Im an aspie too you just need to let it go its who you are you can't mask 24/7. You need to stop caring as much and itl make you less awkward. Do you have friends?

For social events I drink alcohol or do mdma lol

 

[dipenhydramine]

for the first one, know that its better to talk too little than to talk too much
i cant help you with the second one, just find a random nt hobby that you find interesting

thank you for advice bhai

ill keep more wuiet from now

 

[dipenhydramine]

Im an aspie too you just need to let it go its who you are you can't mask 24/7. You need to stop caring as much and itl make you less awkward. Do you have friends?

For social events I drink alcohol or do mdma lol

i do let it go thats why its such an issue lel

i have no real friends

 

[nzvids]

i do let it go thats why its such an issue lel

i have no real friends

How old are you?
I have "friends" but it's just my social circle whom I hangout with, don't have a deep connection with them because im nd and that's fine
My best 2 friends are not diagnosed but they are just like me in alot ways and we relate to eachother without judgment, you need to find ppl who share same interests / hobbies / and or are like you, itl be hard but ur gonna be a loner otherwise

 

[dipenhydramine]

How old are you?
I have "friends" but it's just my social circle whom I hangout with, don't have a deep connection with them because im nd and that's fine
My best 2 friends are not diagnosed but they are just like me in alot ways and we relate to eachother without judgment, you need to find ppl who share same interests / hobbies / and or are like you, itl be hard but ur gonna be a loner otherwise

im 17

im the same but i cannot find anyone similar

 

[qazw]

im so fucking ND its not even funny

i cannot maintain a conversation without following a preset script in my head

i dont know when to stop speaking

i cannot drop people for the life of me

i have no relatable interests

i have struggles understanding basic concepts such as gender norms or the desire to work etc

i express little to no empathy but feel it deeply

have never talked about my feelings to anyone irl

i found out my parents have known im autistic for a long time but didnt get anything done with it because they didnt want retarded children

any advice bhais?

My advice is to copy what NTs do and lie about your background to trick people into thinking you are NT. Like make up an imaginary ex gf and pretend to have NT hobbies like hiking or something. Always hide the ND stuff about you

The easiest way to become NT is to have a gf and have a job where you're required to talk to people. But if you're genuinely autistic, you probably can't learn any of this stuff from practice

 

[dipenhydramine]

My advice is to copy what NTs do and lie about your background to trick people into thinking you are NT. Like make up an imaginary ex gf and pretend to have NT hobbies like hiking or something. Always hide the ND stuff about you

The easiest way to become NT is to have a gf and have a job where you're required to talk to people. But if you're genuinely autistic, you probably can't learn any of this stuff from practice

i am likely genuinely autistic

everyone ive met has asked me and every teacher ive had has referred me but my parents keep refusing it

i have NT hobbies but i get really ND about them

i have a fixation on forests that most would call strange and likely creepy along with other things and i constantly have the burning urge to tell others about it

i will make up some fake stories about me to seem ND though

will this help me socially because i am starting a new college course with new people so i need to lock in

 

[neurosis]

NT behaviour isn't complicated, just mimic them consciously

 

[der_komische]

don't mask. Its a waste of energy normalfags will know anyways

 

[qazw]

i am likely genuinely autistic

everyone ive met has asked me and every teacher ive had has referred me but my parents keep refusing it

i have NT hobbies but i get really ND about them

i have a fixation on forests that most would call strange and likely creepy along with other things and i constantly have the burning urge to tell others about it

i will make up some fake stories about me to seem ND though

will this help me socially because i am starting a new college course with new people so i need to lock in

over

 

[bimaxmaxxer]

I personally am very NT, but I also study and mimick other people's gesture. Or train in front of the mirror how much face muscles work and feel during certain expressions, so I get an Idea how I will look during certain expressions.

Not a big man of Dr.K but here is a video of an autist acting more or less NT

 

[dipenhydramine]

NT behaviour isn't complicated, just mimic them consciously

i try bhai

 

[dipenhydramine]

don't mask. Its a waste of energy normalfags will know anyways

i felt like this is what will happen

 

[bimaxmaxxer]

don't mask. Its a waste of energy normalfags will know anyways

masking is very important in day to day life in society. and I believe anyone can get good at it, It's acting

 

[dipenhydramine]

over

is there no hope for even one close relationship with someone

not even romantic just one real friend

 

[dipenhydramine]

I personally am very NT, but I also study and mimick other people's gesture. Or train in front of the mirror how much face muscles work and feel during certain expressions, so I get an Idea how I will look during certain expressions.

Not a big man of Dr.K but here is a video of an autist acting more or less NT

this is a good idea

i will watch myself in a mirror talk and see if i look ND

thank you for this man

i will also watch this video

i appreciate it

 

[bimaxmaxxer]

this is a good idea

i will watch myself in a mirror talk and see if i look ND

thank you for this man

i will also watch this video

i appreciate it

I think you have to study whole body language, anatomy, voice tonality, what the eyes tell. These things come naturally to NT people and they subconciously get what's going on. You have to study all of this to read people.

 

[dipenhydramine]

I think you have to study whole body language, anatomy, voice tonality, what the eyes tell. These things come naturally to NT people and they subconciously get what's going on. You have to study all of this to read people.

so ND just means you have to work harder to get to the same results as NT

i accept that

thanks you for the help

ill lyk how it goes if u care

 

[bimaxmaxxer]

so ND just means you have to work harder to get to the same results as NT

i accept that

thanks you for the help

ill lyk how it goes if u care

Yes, this is what I mean. It will be harder but it's possible to fit in.

You welcome, and yes you can tell me your future experience. Would really interest me.

 

[Zeekie]

im so fucking ND its not even funny

i cannot maintain a conversation without following a preset script in my head

i dont know when to stop speaking

i cannot drop people for the life of me

i have no relatable interests

i have struggles understanding basic concepts such as gender norms or the desire to work etc

i express little to no empathy but feel it deeply

have never talked about my feelings to anyone irl

i found out my parents have known im autistic for a long time but didnt get anything done with it because they didnt want retarded children

any advice bhais?

I think it's a pretty autistic move to try and get advice for an actual disorder on a forum full of incels, literally nobody here is going to give you good advice, you need professional help (I mean it in the non-insulting way )

 

[dipenhydramine]

Yes, this is what I mean. It will be harder but it's possible to fit in.

You welcome, and yes you can tell me your future experience. Would really interest me.

thank you bhai ur goated

 

[dipenhydramine]

I think it's a pretty autistic move to try and get advice for an actual disorder on a forum full of incels, literally nobody here is going to give you good advice, you need professional help (I mean it in the non-insulting way )

i dont know how to get help

and i figured loads of people here are autists surely

and thank you for caring i just dont know where to get help without severely dissapoiniting my parents

i was gonna wait til im 18

 

[Zeekie]

and i figured loads of people here are autists surely

Honestly, I see where you're coming from. 50% of this forum has to be composed of high functioning autists who haven't got help lol, the rest are low functioning.

and thank you for caring i just dont know where to get help without severely dissapoiniting my parents

i was gonna wait til im 18

Frankly, if your parents already know you're on the spectrum and decided not do anything about it... That's on them, yeah fuck em, wait until you're 18 and get proper help with a therapist, it's very stigmatized and weird to get therapy, but if you're autistic, and it is causing issues, there's no shame on doing something for the betterment of your quality of life and connections.

TRUST ME, it is going to be so worth it, I'm unsure how they help you, I guess they teach you to mask it better and "train you" to be more sociably capable or something, whatever it is, go for it once you have the means

 

[underatedgreycel]

Dam I have the same thing

 

[dipenhydramine]

Honestly, I see where you're coming from. 50% of this forum has to be composed of high functioning autists who haven't got help lol, the rest are low functioning.


Frankly, if your parents already know you're on the spectrum and decided not do anything about it... That's on them, yeah fuck em, wait until you're 18 and get proper help with a therapist, it's very stigmatized and weird to get therapy, but if you're autistic, and it is causing issues, there's no shame on doing something for the betterment of your quality of life and connections.

TRUST ME, it is going to be so worth it, I'm unsure how they help you, I guess they teach you to mask it better and "train you" to be more sociably capable or something, whatever it is, go for it once you have the means

thank you bhai

it means a (quite sad to admit) lot to me for u to actually take time to give me advice

i will stick it out til im 18 and the get the help i need and see if they can make me ND or at least half ND

does this mean ill prolly spend the rest of the time im 17 being lonely

i dont mind bcuz it means i can looksmax without stress

 

[SubSigma]

You can take ssris or stimulants to lowinhibmax. It gets you out of your shell, but normies will still catch onto your autism and will think “who invited this guy” so you will end up ostracized eventually. You are gonna end up rotting on a forum using niche hobbies to cope, until humanoid AI and vr comes out.

//SubSigma

 

[qazw]

is there no hope for even one close relationship with someone

not even romantic just one real friend

its possible if the other person is also autistic. I see autistic friend groups hang out together sometimes

 

[veganessujuc@gmail.]

i dont know when to stop speaking

Wdym? I might get what you mean / have experienced it but im not sure. I get alot of what you are saying but i don't know wtf to tell you. Just feeling lucky im not that autistic.

i have struggles understanding basic concepts such as gender norms or the desire to work etc

Literally man made bull shit. Doesn't exist naturally. Men and women want the same things and aren't that incredibely different.
And NOBODY wants to work.
If you wanna talk to sb abt feelings and just be open the best person to talk to is someone who vents or something first. Or the member of a friendgroup who is like a relative outsider / new to the group.

 

[Arbuscular]

Same.

 

[dipenhydramine]

Wdym? I might get what you mean / have experienced it but im not sure. I get alot of what you are saying but i don't know wtf to tell you. Just feeling lucky im not that autistic.

Literally man made bull shit. Doesn't exist naturally. Men and women want the same things and aren't that incredibely different.
And NOBODY wants to work.
If you wanna talk to sb abt feelings and just be open the best person to talk to is someone who vents or something first. Or the member of a friendgroup who is like a relative outsider / new to the group.

i mean like i keep talking yk just tryna keep a conversation going and it either ends with them just saying they gotta go do sum or if its over message, just leaving me on read. and only after i realise i was talking too much and was annoying

and yeah thats what ive always thought, i dont understand why i should care about and dedicate myself to concepts made by others that dont actually matter in life

by talking to someone i meant a doctor

if i tried venting to someone id 100% look like a schizoid

thanks for taking the time to respond

 

[Arbuscular]

i mean like i keep talking yk just tryna keep a conversation going and it either ends with them just saying they gotta go do sum or if its over message, just leaving me on read. and only after i realise i was talking too much and was annoying

For me its the opposite, I talk too little and people think im not interested, because I overthink too much what I say

Because when I try to speak more, I always say weird/offensive shit

 

[dipenhydramine]

For me its the opposite, I talk too little and people think im not interested, because I overthink too much what I say

Because when I try to speak more, I always say weird/offensive shit

i used to be like that last year

i would constantly talk and 9/10 i just said weird or offensive shit for reactions to cope for the fact i couldnt talk abt much else

idk what changed but now its the opposite snd i can constantly talk, just not about things normal people like

ND pill is truly most brutal