Getting told “You don’t look like your pictures” on first date

[ElliottSmith]

I had a date with someone yesterday and it went pretty bad, for context I have never edited my photos or photoshopped or used filters on my photos ever. I do find good lighting that I think looks good on my face though and do try to look at least good, which I think everyone does….

I went on the date and she picked me up as she insisted she wanted to, so I was fine with it. We drive to a random store and she randomly says after 10 minutes of the drive “you don’t look like your pictures” and at that moment I started tweaking out because I have never been told that before and I automatically just assumed she was essentially saying I was sub5 garbage so I instantly told her to take me home, she tried to redact what she said after i told her to take me home and she said “no no no, I don’t mean it in a bad way” but I still told her to take me home as it just ruined the entire date with her.

Probably my worst date ever, i still don’t know what she meant by that- but i will safely assume it was bad. I do get approached by girls almost constantly and have never been told anything like that before from people I’ve met from online.

I’m curious if anyone else here has had something like this happen to them? I don’t think there is anything wrong with using good lighting?…

 

[pope]

Nah everyone uses good lighting on pics, even bitches giga fraud on those apps

 

[gynogod]

she maybe meant you look better

 

[greycel]

It was probably her idea of a shit test
Or she said it because she was speculating you were about to/ thinking it