forevergymcelling
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My gf is completely against kids (so am I cause I'm not rich. Read my "having kids is a scam" thread for more info). Me and her have been discussing me getting a vasectomy for a couple months now and I just had a consultation saying I could get one but the real chance of a reversal is only 50% within 5 years after getting one. This mixed with my girlfriend and I fighting a lot lately and not knowing if we’re going to stay together has made me uncomfortable getting a vasectomy right now. I told her this and that when we’re stable I’ll be more comfortable with doing it. My gf has been off of birth control for a while as the kind she was on messed with her hormones to an unhealthy extent. We’ve been using condoms and have had a couple unreputable ones break to where we had to buy a plan b, which messed with her hormones as well. So now we’re here and she’s saying that if I don’t get a vasectomy we won’t have sex until I do because if I don’t get one I’ll be “ruining her body” even though I’ve told her I’ll only use condoms I know don’t break. I’ve not once told her she has to get back on bc because I trust the condoms to do their job but she has severe health anxiety and believes she’s pregnant even when we use condoms.
I'm trying my best not to act like an utter cuck. What should I do?
I'm trying my best not to act like an utter cuck. What should I do?