Girl unadded me cause I seem like I fw a lotta girls

[whitebitchslayer]

I would claw my own eyes out with a rusty spoon from a crack house to live like amnesia for a day

 

[Whatever]

Pre-selection works in real life, in friend groups and such, online it just looks like spamming. Also if you or the overall situation makes the girl feel like too much of a slut, maybe because it’s spelled out too much like everything is online, it might backfire and she might flip it into good girl mode, especially a girl with the in her profile. Really girls like this are country boy only even if they’re dabbling on some app.

I wouldn’t worry about any of this though, the apps are all virtual, it’s all on a screen.

 

[ascension124]

Yup even Chadlite Brady got cucked even tho Giselle will never ever find a man better than him ever again, cause like you said they’re not logical whatsoever.

I’m starting to think the only “solution” is settling with a girl that’s 2-3 below you and is more ND and rational but at that point it’s like we gonna do all this looksmaxxing and self improvement just to settle with LTB/MTB? Giga brutal

That’s literally the only option. The best we can do is go for a girl only 1 point below our SMV

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Pre-selection works in real life, in friend groups and such, online it just looks like spamming. Also if you or the overall situation makes the girl feel like too much of a slut, maybe because it’s spelled out too much like everything is online, it might backfire and she might flip it into good girl mode, especially a girl with the in her profile. Really girls like this are country boy only even if they’re dabbling on some app.

I wouldn’t worry about any of this though, the apps are all virtual, it’s all on a screen.

Yo many foids actually into this country boy redneck pheno
They’re fucking retarded honestly

 

[goblinamaxxer]

That’s literally the only option. The best we can do is go for a girl only 1 point below our SMV

Yeah fs. Esp in small town.

 

[goblinamaxxer]

40 year old man lurking on girls yubo lives btw

Based af. I hope that can be me. I already got crows feet at 24

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

Ok Chad

He's a 36 yo boomer Chad with autism. A handsome robot, struggling to come to terms with his rapidly depleting collagen and the norwood reaper.

 

[Whatever]

Yo many foids actually into this country boy redneck pheno
They’re fucking retarded honestly

Yup, and they have kids early 20s at the latest.

 

[ascension124]

P

Ok Chad

is your avi that one dur

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

You're 37 bro don't you think it's time to settle down

Is he 37 yo? jfl i thought he was 36. We need a comprehensive looksmaxxing guide from amnesia (focusing on skinmaxxing).

 

[forevergymcelling]

It legit makes me cage when girls look for relationships with randoms from Yubo and Snapchat quick add. Girls on those apps have an average IQ of 90

equivalent of a man looking for a gf in a strip club or brothel

 

[Eren]

Well, I'm 13. What is up with all this ageism? 13 year olds can be emotionally/mentally intelligent as an average middle aged Joe.

No

 

[Eren]

It legit makes me cage when girls look for relationships with randoms from Yubo and Snapchat quick add. Girls on those apps have an average IQ of 90

equivalent of a man looking for a gf in a strip club or brothel

« I just don’t want to be a hookup girl » jfl
Normies men should also stop giving these foods relationships « I just don’t want to be a walking wallet »

 

[Seth Walsh]

muh chad looks triumph everything


I was on Yubo in a live channel, a few girls notice me lurking and call me out for being a catfish, so I hop on live for a minute and girls jaw drops. I get tons of friend invites and one of the girls who called me perfect and gorgeous when I was on cam actually lived kinda near by so I added her back

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She is insta replying to some of my texts so I ask for her snap, she gives and sends me a buncha sexy pics, like a lot of em. I find out she actually lives further away because shes in college so I was when u come back into town to visit ur fam I'll make you squirt, she replied "im so down"
I wake up the next morning and shes unadded me off snap and deleted ALL the convo and pics she sent me. I ask on yubo (since we're still friends there)

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I gave my snap to literally like one other girl, but I thought women like preselection theory
If she hadn't deleted all her snap texts I'd post those too
this absolutely goes with my other thread about no consistency with girls. In one moment they are totally down to fuck and less than a day later they've unadded u and convinced themselves that ur a fuck boy and they dont wanna

There’s no consistency with women

I just made this as a response to a users pm but I think it’s appropriate to post in general Topic is how to get a girl to text u back and not get ghosted @ascension124

looksmax.org

You need to be more shrewd Amnesia mate.

 

[milchbubi88]

Sorry Chad

 

[MoggerGaston]

Is this a return of Amnesia's Tinder Tales?

holy fuck I am mirin' hard. Best news on this forum in years.

 

[milchbubi88]

How does one escape the manlet curse, brother. 5'8 here.

There is no escape

 

[nonntfreak]

It feels like preselection doesn’t even work or maybe it has to be super subtle.

I have seen girls that didn't care about some guys start to become attracted to them just because other girls from their group liked those guys looks and influenced the others.

Preselection works. Girls just don't want to feel like sluts.

 

[Amnesia]

I experience the same. It's probably because of your age tbh. The indoctrination and social pressure is just too strong with gen z.

She thought I was 24. Age doesn't factor bc most women genuinely think I am no older than 25

What do you look like m8

RATE ME- BEFORE/AFTER: Tan, Chin Filler, Neck Training, Hairstyle, Clean Shaven, Lower BF%

I am 33 on the left pic I am 30 on the right pic Tan for color vs my natural pale white color Chin filler for chin width Hairstyle to hide my naturally high forehead Clean shaven to show off hollow cheeks Dedicated isolation neck training 3-4 times a week Leaner by 10 pounds between the two...

looksmax.org

Because i think she wanted to be your girlfriend, not just a hookup up partner so she gave up. Don't mind, move to the next one

I understand what you're saying but like I said in the OP


Over snap she was sending slutty pics and when I said next time ur in town I'll make you squirt, and she said "i am so down"


Does that sound like behavior of a girl serious in her convictions about wanting an LTR. Again, this demonstrates women one moment could toally fuck u but if u were to try the next day they will act like they want nothing with you. YOU ONLY GET ONE CHANCE SOMETIMES



@ascension124 @Yliaster @Tusseleif @threads

 

[threads]

She thought I was 24. Age doesn't factor bc most women genuinely think I am no older than 25

RATE ME- BEFORE/AFTER: Tan, Chin Filler, Neck Training, Hairstyle, Clean Shaven, Lower BF%

I am 33 on the left pic I am 30 on the right pic Tan for color vs my natural pale white color Chin filler for chin width Hairstyle to hide my naturally high forehead Clean shaven to show off hollow cheeks Dedicated isolation neck training 3-4 times a week Leaner by 10 pounds between the two...

looksmax.org

I understand what you're saying but like I said in the OP


Over snap she was sending slutty pics and when I said next time ur in town I'll make you squirt, and she said "i am so down"


Does that sound like behavior of a girl serious in her convictions about wanting an LTR. Again, this demonstrates women one moment could toally fuck u but if u were to try the next day they will act like they want nothing with you. YOU ONLY GET ONE CHANCE SOMETIMES



@ascension124 @Yliaster @Tusseleif @threads

You just got to strike iron when it's hot. She was probably horny in that moment, but then she started questioning herself. Women are very high inhibition so they'll overthink things. You got to move fast or not at all. Happens all the time when you think you've got it and a few days later you're treated like some cockroach.

 

[Amnesia]

You need to be more shrewd Amnesia mate.

Can you elaborate please?

I mean all this happened in less than 24 hours where she was DTF and unadded me and since she lived a long distance away I couldn't tell her to come over in the moment otherwise I would because I know you gotta capitalize ASAP if a girl is willing to fuck/come over

@ascension124

You just got to strike iron when it's hot. She was probably horny in that moment, but then she started questioning herself. Women are very high inhibition so they'll overthink things. You got to move fast or not at all. Happens all the time when you think you've got it and a few days later you're treated like some cockroach.

agreed, always gotta be ready to fuck if a girl is otherwise u might not ever . Had IRL encounteres of women approach me tell me i am hot and i even makeout with them or finger them right there in the bar and then when i text them the next morning i get nothing, totally ghosted

And they were wanting to fuck that night but I couldnt, so u only get 1 chance sometimes

Is this a return of Amnesia's Tinder Tales?

holy fuck I am mirin' hard. Best news on this forum in years.

I mean I am NEWLY single so I might just do it. Problem is I am banned on tinder and bumble with my primary cell number so I gotta figure a workaway around that, google voice number only works for tinder not bumble

I have seen girls that didn't care about some guys start to become attracted to them just because other girls from their group liked those guys looks and influenced the others.

Preselection works. Girls just don't want to feel like sluts.

Preselection can work IRL in the moment, I've experienced it with a group of girls where one girl will say I am hot and then suddenly all her friends in the group start to look at me and flirt when 5 seconds earlier none of them were paying too much attention

 

[chadcel;]

Because i think she wanted to be your girlfriend, not just a hookup up partner so she gave up. Don't mind, move to the next one

This is why you have to love bomb and say that shes gonna be your wife

 

[Seth Walsh]

Can you elaborate please?

Yeah sure I will.

Okay so basically. If all these girls already see you as Chad, you've already won. But what you're doing is putting tons of obstacles in your way.

Why don't you talk to the girls more than just "muh come over" "yea waiting in my room. i'll order dominoes pizza, can you be ordered over at the same time as the pizza plz".


You need to be a bit more high effort (unironically). A girl is naturally going to have questions on whether a really good looking guy has other options, and the last thing she wants is to think you're going to hurt her.

The psychology behind this is as follows.

• She has no leverage. (She can't and won't talk to you or mess you about talking about other guys)
• She prays you won't do the same.
• She will BAIL at any hint that you're giving other girls attention. No matter how attracted she is to you.

So if you want to increase your hit rate with hotter girls. You literally need to allay all their concerns through what you convey to them subconsciously. Pretend you're not in the casual hookup scene at all. Pretend you're just a random Chad that got beamed onto the app and she's the first girl you met - you'll have much better follow through and with much better girls.

Obviously don't spend all day texting her. But assume she's a whore who sleeps around, and doesn't care about looks (spoiler she does). But pretend you have something ELSE that she never had before.

You should never be conveying that you're on the app to smash girls. Talk about a shared interest ASAP, change her mood, get her number and follow up later. She'll remember you as the guy who wasn't like "muh cum over to my apt".

If you follow that script she'll most likely say "you're so demure omg". Just reply like "haha thanks what's that?" and let her ramble. Run this approach on every girl you match with who you're interested in, and ALOT less will ghost.

Early stage: Allay her suspicions.
Afterward: Reframe it to where her brain is making her think "omg this guy's hot but he's not like other guys on here".

The "Afterward" part is hard. Because humans are intuitive, and if you genuinely lack stuff other than your looks, or you genuinely just smash a lot of girls, they'll sense it, and they don't want to run the risk of getting hurt (ESPECIALLY if they think you're attractive).

This is one of the super rare cases that if girls weren't attracted to you, and the stakes weren't high in their minds, they would NOT unadd/block you. They are doing it to protect themselves.

 

[Numb The Pain]

It's because she wants LTR with a safe, stable guy, a chad like you wouldn't cut it since she can't keep you around like a lap dog. That's what women like that want.

 

[Numb The Pain]

Yep, people even call me Unc and oldcel on here and im NINTEEN. I closed the site yesterday because I was arguing with a guy who told me he was 13 mid way through our convo.

But yea preselection is cope anyway, once u get hit with anything along the lines of being a "player" its finished ive typically encountered.

Goddamn are these immature folks actually calling you unc at 19? I'm 29 and they get my age wrong on purpose so I guess it's not surprising. Compared to you it would make sense to call me an unc though.

 

[Seth Walsh]

Preselection can work IRL in the moment

Yeah IRL it works where 2 or more girls are indirectly competing for you. Works really well. Just stay composed and act like you don't notice.

But if you try orchestrate the "preselection" vibe. Or it's not legit. Or you flirt with a girl in front of others, you can be sure that all of the "others" are not going to make themselves as available as they did before. Because they assume you chose someone else over her, which hurts when there's actual attraction there. And self preservation is the most core fundamental human instinct there is.

 

[Amnesia]

Yeah sure I will.

Okay so basically. If all these girls already see you as Chad, you've already won. But what you're doing is putting tons of obstacles in your way.

Why don't you talk to the girls more than just "muh come over" "yea waiting in my room. i'll order dominoes pizza, can you be ordered over at the same time as the pizza plz".


You need to be a bit more high effort (unironically). A girl is naturally going to have questions on whether a really good looking guy has other options, and the last thing she wants is to think you're going to hurt her.

The psychology behind this is as follows.

• She has no leverage. (She can't and won't talk to you or mess you about talking about other guys)
• She prays you won't do the same.
• She will BAIL at any hint that you're giving other girls attention. No matter how attracted she is to you.

So if you want to increase your hit rate with hotter girls. You literally need to allay all their concerns through what you convey to them subconsciously. Pretend you're not in the casual hookup scene at all. Pretend you're just a random Chad that got beamed onto the app and she's the first girl you met - you'll have much better follow through and with much better girls.

Obviously don't spend all day texting her. But assume she's a whore who sleeps around, and doesn't care about looks (spoiler she does). But pretend you have something ELSE that she never had before.

You should never be conveying that you're on the app to smash girls. Talk about a shared interest ASAP, change her mood, get her number and follow up later. She'll remember you as the guy who wasn't like "muh cum over to my apt".

If you follow that script she'll most likely say "you're so demure omg". Just reply like "haha thanks what's that?" and let her ramble. Run this approach on every girl you match with who you're interested in, and ALOT less will ghost.

Early stage: Allay her suspicions.
Afterward: Reframe it to where her brain is making her think "omg this guy's hot but he's not like other guys on here".

The "Afterward" part is hard. Because humans are intuitive, and if you genuinely lack stuff other than your looks, or you genuinely just smash a lot of girls, they'll sense it, and they don't want to run the risk of getting hurt (ESPECIALLY if they think you're attractive).

This is one of the super rare cases that if girls weren't attracted to you, and the stakes weren't high in their minds, they would NOT unadd/block you. They are doing it to protect themselves.

I appreciate the response.

I have had girls say similar stuff IRL. Meet em on a night out they seem super into me and makeout flirt etc

Then ghost me and one time I got one to actually tell me her reason and it was along the lines of "you just seem like a player and only interested in sex." But it's like girl, you were playing along just fine last night.



@ascension124 what's your opinion on @Seth Walsh post?

 

[ROPEBYATHOUSANDMOGS]

I am making a point, not bragging. Women can be down one moment and the next not, high chance u only have ONE CHANCE to get with a girl EVER bc a day later she won't be interested anymore

This needs to be drilled into everyones head.

Women are fickle

It's all so tiresome

 

[asdvek]

for anyone wondering she is in Valencia, Cali, thats where six flags is

 

[Seth Walsh]

I appreciate the response.

I have had girls say similar stuff IRL. Meet em on a night out they seem super into me and makeout flirt etc

Then ghost me and one time I got one to actually tell me her reason and it was along the lines of "you just seem like a player and only interested in sex." But it's like girl, you were playing along just fine last night.



@ascension124 what's your opinion on @Seth Walsh post?

No problem.

I think this works out great though, don't you. It shows that you have so much power that she's more willing to walk away forever than get hurt by you.

She wants more than sex (LTR, marriage, a real relationship), and if you don't want all that, then it's probably best to cut it after a fun night out.

But I think this is really the real truth.

• Attraction is strong and undeniable
• Women often act against their self interest when with a man they're really attracted to, if she intuitively feels she can end up getting hurt.

So how do you get the full deal?

You can build a connection and set boundaries. You control the leverage, you control the terms. Girls will definitely fuck you multiple times if you safeguard their fear of getting hurt.

Personally, I never bothered with girls I wasn't really really into for some reason other than looks.


But the main takeaway is that we have evolved. And women evolve to avoid pain, and bad deals (like all humans). So this is my best explanation on why you're getting blocked and unadded.


Can you refine your system? Sure.

By how much? Idk. But it'll force you to act out of bad faith. If you want short term hook-ups, don't expect high quality. You'll most likely just get the same quality girls that are par for the course. You can control your own life but not others.

The whole myth of Chads getting conveyorbelts of (9s and 10s) on dating apps was always a myth. And I think as you get older you really start to value character over cosmetics in a girl. Because when you see some really bad character defect in someone else, your senses tell you NOT to stay with that person long term.

And in a life full of trade offs (and hookers). Why is it even such a good thing to sleep with a good looking girl who has a terrible character? Is the tradeoff really worth it if you don't really see value in the person?

Genuine question.

 

[chadcel;]

I have had girls say similar stuff IRL. Meet em on a night out they seem super into me and makeout flirt etc

Then ghost me and one time I got one to actually tell me her reason and it was along the lines of "you just seem like a player and only interested in sex." But it's like girl, you were playing along just fine last night.

I've had similar interactions, I think they like getting attention from the player or who they think is a player (I just larp as a player and never say my bodycount and they assume its high af)

They will feel used tho if you just fuck them, I've had hookups where I think if my game wasn't as good she would've left (she tried to and kept saying we're not having sex etc)

 

[ascension124]

I have seen girls that didn't care about some guys start to become attracted to them just because other girls from their group liked those guys looks and influenced the others.

Preselection works. Girls just don't want to feel like sluts.

That’s the definition of subtle

I appreciate the response.

I have had girls say similar stuff IRL. Meet em on a night out they seem super into me and makeout flirt etc

Then ghost me and one time I got one to actually tell me her reason and it was along the lines of "you just seem like a player and only interested in sex." But it's like girl, you were playing along just fine last night.



@ascension124 what's your opinion on @Seth Walsh post?

I agree with every word he said @Seth Walsh

I made the same mistake of showing girls I’m in other dates and it backfired

We have to make them feel special or larp this like we have to make them think they’re the only girl we are into while also talking to other girls @edodalic29 @goblinamaxxer

 

[gario]

yup this site is cooked @Clavicular perfect example of ur thread

The userbase being so young on this forum is the biggest issue it faces

Users being so young (typically below 18) has made it so none of the current takes are formed from any real world experience and most users havent had much dating success either. The posters who give consistently good takes tend to be oldcels who have witnessed what they are posting about...

looksmax.org

Do younglings even want any help or advice?

people think life ends at 26 in this forum. Not even adults can looksmax in peace.

 

[Xangsane]

I am making a point, not bragging. Women can be down one moment and the next not, high chance u only have ONE CHANCE to get with a girl EVER bc a day later she won't be interested anymore

This needs to be drilled into everyones head.

Women are fickle

A lot of Gen z women have anxious attachment and are desperate for a committed ltr

 

[Bruce Wayne78]

Can you try Hinge ?
Tinder has become a whore market jfl
You will have better experience here i am sure depending on your location most of the foids on hinge are better looking and high IQ on an average
@Amnesia

 

[Aypo129]

Hello amnesia
Can you set me up
I am 5ft7 indian

 

[Aypo129]

Can you try Hinge ?
Tinder has become a whore market jfl
You will have better experience here i am sure depending on your location most of the foids on hinge are better looking and high IQ on an average
@Amnesia

I want to see you that

 

[Aypo129]

@Amnesia also try brahmin matrimony

https://www.brahminmatrimony.com/campaign/register.php?

 

[Bruce Wayne78]

I want to see you that

Doesn't work in India

 

[Aypo129]

Doesn't work in India

It's alright
Atleast we have brahmin matrimony

 

[Hades]

“I wouldn’t want to just be a hookup girl”

(Immediately sends sexual pictures when you get her snap)

Why don’t women understand when you shit like that, no man will ever view you as more than just a swoop…

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

Brutal

 

[Troglodyte452]

I feel like the meta is to play dumb, girl says you probably get hoes, you respond idk what girls are or you can also say you're virgin if you're good looking enough. They won't believe it and you keep 'em guessing.

 

[ascension124]

@Amnesia This also seems to be more of a factor with hotter girls. A Becky won’t mind being a slut for Chad but a hotter girl will want to feel special and exclusive since she can get chads easily

 

[fogdart]

Wheat waffles talked about this topic, poisoning the well can overpower looks.

I was about to link this video too. Damn maybe I should start taking waffles seriously i've never really had this happen to me, may not that I'm aware of so I didn't take him seriously.

@whiteissuperior @gymmaxedhorse @forevergymcelling @Germania thoughts on this?

 

[fogdart]

I am making a point, not bragging. Women can be down one moment and the next not, high chance u only have ONE CHANCE to get with a girl EVER bc a day later she won't be interested anymore

This needs to be drilled into everyones head.

Women are fickle

i've had like 3 girls flake back to back recently and they worse part is they messaged me first on dating apps lol

 

[New Poster]

I am making a point, not bragging

Fucking lol. Just make a brag thread next time.

 

[chadhamed]

Really brutal . Even chad like you get ghosted .
I guess ltr is the way