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A while ago I was on call with my girlfriend. She had me on speaker. She went over to the door and her guy friend stopped by to drop something off for my girlfriend’s mom. They had a conversation, my girlfriend said thank you and they both ended up saying “bye” followed by an “I love you.”
I decided to talk to her about it since me and my female friends don’t communicate that way. My girlfriend said this is how their friend group (Composed of my girlfriend, her female friend, and her guy friend) typically say their goodbyes.
Initially, she said if it was something I wasn’t comfortable with, she would talk to her friend about it. I thought everything would be settled here, but instead she tried explaining to me how I was “overreacting.”
The reason I’m concerned about this is not because I don’t trust her, but because there has been two instances where my girlfriend or her friend introduce other female friends to the group and twice, the guy has tried to get at those “new friends.” I feel like at times, he is just waiting for one of them to become single in order to get at them since he’s always inviting them over to his house in order for them to spend time with him and his family. I mentioned this to her and she kind of brushed it off saying “that’s just how we talk. My female friends are single so it’s totally understandable that he would try to get at them if he finds them attractive.”
@Lonenely sigma @Lefty Rankin @Jatt
I decided to talk to her about it since me and my female friends don’t communicate that way. My girlfriend said this is how their friend group (Composed of my girlfriend, her female friend, and her guy friend) typically say their goodbyes.
Initially, she said if it was something I wasn’t comfortable with, she would talk to her friend about it. I thought everything would be settled here, but instead she tried explaining to me how I was “overreacting.”
The reason I’m concerned about this is not because I don’t trust her, but because there has been two instances where my girlfriend or her friend introduce other female friends to the group and twice, the guy has tried to get at those “new friends.” I feel like at times, he is just waiting for one of them to become single in order to get at them since he’s always inviting them over to his house in order for them to spend time with him and his family. I mentioned this to her and she kind of brushed it off saying “that’s just how we talk. My female friends are single so it’s totally understandable that he would try to get at them if he finds them attractive.”
@Lonenely sigma @Lefty Rankin @Jatt
