Girlfriend said “I love you” to her guy friend, need advice

[Eärendil]

A while ago I was on call with my girlfriend. She had me on speaker. She went over to the door and her guy friend stopped by to drop something off for my girlfriend’s mom. They had a conversation, my girlfriend said thank you and they both ended up saying “bye” followed by an “I love you.”

I decided to talk to her about it since me and my female friends don’t communicate that way. My girlfriend said this is how their friend group (Composed of my girlfriend, her female friend, and her guy friend) typically say their goodbyes.

Initially, she said if it was something I wasn’t comfortable with, she would talk to her friend about it. I thought everything would be settled here, but instead she tried explaining to me how I was “overreacting.”

The reason I’m concerned about this is not because I don’t trust her, but because there has been two instances where my girlfriend or her friend introduce other female friends to the group and twice, the guy has tried to get at those “new friends.” I feel like at times, he is just waiting for one of them to become single in order to get at them since he’s always inviting them over to his house in order for them to spend time with him and his family. I mentioned this to her and she kind of brushed it off saying “that’s just how we talk. My female friends are single so it’s totally understandable that he would try to get at them if he finds them attractive.”

@Lonenely sigma @Lefty Rankin @Jatt

 

[McSkziofren]

go ragemode on said guy friend

 

[cheeky chelovek]

Either break up with her because a partner should never say your overreacting if something effects you, or just beat the hell out of that guy honestly he sounds like a prick, either back away from the situation entirely by breaking up or teach the guy a lesson whatever suits you better man, I hope your situation gets better man

 

[trvechud]

Leave her nigga

 

[Abdullahm06]

if you stay with her youre actually a cuck

 

[kwjqxlw99]

This is "Honey i'm going on a girls only trip to Italy..." type of cucked

 

[Arisylva]

go ragemode on said guy friend

why go on guy friend? his gf was the one that said it

 

[Zeekie]

A while ago I was on call with my girlfriend. She had me on speaker. She went over to the door and her guy friend stopped by to drop something off for my girlfriend’s mom. They had a conversation, my girlfriend said thank you and they both ended up saying “bye” followed by an “I love you.”

I decided to talk to her about it since me and my female friends don’t communicate that way. My girlfriend said this is how their friend group (Composed of my girlfriend, her female friend, and her guy friend) typically say their goodbyes.

Initially, she said if it was something I wasn’t comfortable with, she would talk to her friend about it. I thought everything would be settled here, but instead she tried explaining to me how I was “overreacting.”

The reason I’m concerned about this is not because I don’t trust her, but because there has been two instances where my girlfriend or her friend introduce other female friends to the group and twice, the guy has tried to get at those “new friends.” I feel like at times, he is just waiting for one of them to become single in order to get at them since he’s always inviting them over to his house in order for them to spend time with him and his family. I mentioned this to her and she kind of brushed it off saying “that’s just how we talk. My female friends are single so it’s totally understandable that he would try to get at them if he finds them attractive.”

@Lonenely sigma @Lefty Rankin @Jatt

It depends on context, was the "love you" a high-pitched and fast one, or a low-pitch and short one? Some people just say that instead of thanks or do it teasingly.

But if you trust your girl I mean... do nothing? If you indeed trust her then I wouldn't be worrying about it

 

[Zeekie]

It depends on context, was the "love you" a high-pitched and fast one, or a low-pitch and short one? Some people just say that instead of thanks or do it teasingly.

But if you trust your girl I mean... do nothing? If you indeed trust her then I wouldn't be worrying about it

also, yeah 80% likely that the guy is likely just waiting for your girl and you to breakup so he can play his shot, but I don't think there are any other indications that she may cheat on you with him.

 

[haitchd00]

You need to not be a bitch and make it clear that ain't acceptable or she will walk all over you. Foids like when you put your foot down

 

[ElySioNs]

YTA, stop being insecure

 

[dawooddX]

A while ago I was on call with my girlfriend. She had me on speaker. She went over to the door and her guy friend stopped by to drop something off for my girlfriend’s mom. They had a conversation, my girlfriend said thank you and they both ended up saying “bye” followed by an “I love you.”

I decided to talk to her about it since me and my female friends don’t communicate that way. My girlfriend said this is how their friend group (Composed of my girlfriend, her female friend, and her guy friend) typically say their goodbyes.

Initially, she said if it was something I wasn’t comfortable with, she would talk to her friend about it. I thought everything would be settled here, but instead she tried explaining to me how I was “overreacting.”

The reason I’m concerned about this is not because I don’t trust her, but because there has been two instances where my girlfriend or her friend introduce other female friends to the group and twice, the guy has tried to get at those “new friends.” I feel like at times, he is just waiting for one of them to become single in order to get at them since he’s always inviting them over to his house in order for them to spend time with him and his family. I mentioned this to her and she kind of brushed it off saying “that’s just how we talk. My female friends are single so it’s totally understandable that he would try to get at them if he finds them attractive.”

@Lonenely sigma @Lefty Rankin @Jatt

i didnt read however js ur girl saying that proves she doesnt truly value u and has 0 respect for u trust me
ideal gf is one who worships u and puts u above at all costs it isnt what she says but WHAT SHE DOES and in this case it is over
have respect for urself drop her and move on

 

[ROPEBYATHOUSANDMOGS]

Rape him and make him drink your piss
Rape her and make her drink your piss

 

[lucaschenbruh]

challenge him to a mog off, loser has to rope

 

[lucaschenbruh]

challenge him to a mog off, loser has to rope

in the mog off, compare facial ratios and smv

 

[NEET_Emperor]

this shit is why i gave up on ltr
every foid has a rich social life that excludes you, many guy friends, foid friends that'll corrupt her
its a losing situation for the guy every time

 

[betterheightnextime]

been there, she said it was normal and they’ve been doing it for ages etc, autistic brain takes over and i check her ipad, turns out she and that male friend fell in love with each other at 16 and commented on each others bodies etc even though she told me nothing ever happened between them.

confronted her and the bitch cried for 5 hours on facetime before i could hang up

 

[lurking truecel]

Kill em

 

[nevabegun]

leave her retard

 

[manletfuel]

A while ago I was on call with my girlfriend. She had me on speaker. She went over to the door and her guy friend stopped by to drop something off for my girlfriend’s mom. They had a conversation, my girlfriend said thank you and they both ended up saying “bye” followed by an “I love you.”

I decided to talk to her about it since me and my female friends don’t communicate that way. My girlfriend said this is how their friend group (Composed of my girlfriend, her female friend, and her guy friend) typically say their goodbyes.

Initially, she said if it was something I wasn’t comfortable with, she would talk to her friend about it. I thought everything would be settled here, but instead she tried explaining to me how I was “overreacting.”

The reason I’m concerned about this is not because I don’t trust her, but because there has been two instances where my girlfriend or her friend introduce other female friends to the group and twice, the guy has tried to get at those “new friends.” I feel like at times, he is just waiting for one of them to become single in order to get at them since he’s always inviting them over to his house in order for them to spend time with him and his family. I mentioned this to her and she kind of brushed it off saying “that’s just how we talk. My female friends are single so it’s totally understandable that he would try to get at them if he finds them attractive.”

@Lonenely sigma @Lefty Rankin @Jatt

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[Νigger]

Kill them

 

[nxvxrmxr]

A while ago I was on call with my girlfriend. She had me on speaker. She went over to the door and her guy friend stopped by to drop something off for my girlfriend’s mom. They had a conversation, my girlfriend said thank you and they both ended up saying “bye” followed by an “I love you.”

I decided to talk to her about it since me and my female friends don’t communicate that way. My girlfriend said this is how their friend group (Composed of my girlfriend, her female friend, and her guy friend) typically say their goodbyes.

Initially, she said if it was something I wasn’t comfortable with, she would talk to her friend about it. I thought everything would be settled here, but instead she tried explaining to me how I was “overreacting.”

The reason I’m concerned about this is not because I don’t trust her, but because there has been two instances where my girlfriend or her friend introduce other female friends to the group and twice, the guy has tried to get at those “new friends.” I feel like at times, he is just waiting for one of them to become single in order to get at them since he’s always inviting them over to his house in order for them to spend time with him and his family. I mentioned this to her and she kind of brushed it off saying “that’s just how we talk. My female friends are single so it’s totally understandable that he would try to get at them if he finds them attractive.”

@Lonenely sigma @Lefty Rankin @Jatt

break up w her it’s over, it all starts from things like that. if she’d actually valued you, she wouldn’t have said “i love you” to anyone else. jfl