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I agree with what lasacrko said. Even if you are 6, don't expect girls approaching you. Even boomers say guys are the ones approaching the girl and not vice-versa.

I look good enough to get in a relationship. At the school only gheto girls were the ones approaching me. Be aware of that, very important. Sluts are the ones that approach guys.

I mogged my classroom. Some girls called me cute but that's it, they didn't make the next move. Most girls are shy to confess they "love you". Which is good.

If you're very good looking girls will obviously simp for you, but they will also expect you to do the next move. But still it's not impossible some "quality" girl approaches you. But it's like waiting to get lightning struck, it's unlikely.

So you have to wait for the "signals" the girl makes and do the next step and there you go, your first girlfriend. And then Tyrone arrives to the school but that's another matter...
 
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cope you are just ugly
 
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This is why nt is important

So you can actually become friends with women first, cold approaching at school or work is cucked
 
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You are probably MTN ofc girls only approach HTN+ or Popularitymaxxxed normies
 
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they don't approach ogres too
Lol this ogre intimidating thing is a myth tbh

If a girl is attracted shes attracted whether hes ogre or prettyboy she will approach given shes the type of girl to cold approach
 
Lol this ogre intimidating thing is a myth tbh

If a girl is attracted shes attracted whether hes ogre or prettyboy she will approach given shes the type of girl to cold approach
I've only got cold approached by hoes
One of them had bf that was in the same school
 
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Lol this ogre intimidating thing is a myth tbh

If a girl is attracted shes attracted whether hes ogre or prettyboy she will approach given shes the type of girl to cold approach
also it's cope that good looking ogres are unappealing to women, most of randy ortons fans are literally young women
 
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I've only got cold approached by hoes
One of them had bf that was in the same school
Thats normal naturally outgoing people can be more likely to be promiscuous or socially dominant

Its not a reflection of you besides the fact ur attractive to them
 
approaching is cope. do pserlrs realize how invasive it is to just walk up to a woman and force a convo with her???
 
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They do approach
Go out with some chadlites and you’ll see for yourself
 
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approaching is cope. do pserlrs realize how invasive it is to just walk up to a woman and force a convo with her???
that's called cold approaching.
You need to be sure the girl has interest in you and then just make a casual conversation not that pua stuff
 
yeah, the idea that you're going to looksmax to the point where you get approached for easy sex by strangers is delusional. You can get women occassionally approaching and testing the waters, but you still need to do 99% of the work. Most people's problem here isn't looks, but being fragile narcies.
 
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I would rather die single than to approach a female. My ego will never let me do it
 
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yeah, the idea that you're going to looksmax to the point where you get approached for easy sex by strangers is delusional. You can get women occassionally approaching and testing the waters, but you still need to do 99% of the work. Most people's problem here isn't looks, but being fragile narcies.
This is what I want these guys to comprehend
 
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They do approach
Go out with some chadlites and you’ll see for yourself
Seen this a lot and it is depressing to observe tbh.
 
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You need to be sure the girl has interest in you and then just make a casual conversatio
but if she is interested then she probably gonna pursue it too
 
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Nah bro. I’ve seen toilets approaching guys, even the ones that you think maybe be shy. Theyll find a way to get your attention by touching your feet, writing their numbers/ instas on a piece of paper and hand it to you. I’ve seen these shit happen to my attractive acquaintances.
 
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yeah, the idea that you're going to looksmax to the point where you get approached for easy sex by strangers is delusional. You can get women occassionally approaching and testing the waters, but you still need to do 99% of the work. Most people's problem here isn't looks, but being fragile narcies.
Cope
95% of the userbase is way to ugly to be slaying on a regular basis’
 
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but if she is interested then she probably gonna pursue it too
100%. No foids will let a guy that she fantasised about everyday go that easily.
 
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but if she is interested then she probably gonna pursue it too
like one of the posts above said, it's possible but don't always expect it to happen
It depends on the girl's personality too
 
like one of the posts above said, it's possible but don't always expect it to happen
It depends on the girl's personality too
its over for me anway
 
yeah, the idea that you're going to looksmax to the point where you get approached for easy sex by strangers is delusional. You can get women occassionally approaching and testing the waters, but you still need to do 99% of the work. Most people's problem here isn't looks, but being fragile narcies.
so mf real

their whole mindset is wrong, its feminine to not take the initiative and no matter how chaddy you are girls will always prefer if the man makes the moves, its just how dating dynamics work
 
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Most women expect some sort of effort tbh
 
They do approach
Go out with some chadlites and you’ll see for yourself
Not everyone lives at west or burgerland
 
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so mf real

their whole mindset is wrong, its feminine to not take the initiative and no matter how chaddy you are girls will always prefer if the man makes the moves, its just how dating dynamics work
Nope. Most females respect a guy that puts 0 effort and already look good. They don’t care about your efforts and shit.
 
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cope, women don't wanna be seen as whores. Look at the tiktoks where the bitches don't approach the chad.
 
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I think what OP is trying to say is: Girls do approach you, but 99.99% of the time they will be "promiscuous" (I didn't find a way to say it more euphemistically).
 
Not everyone lives at west or burgerland
Female nature is universal. If she fantasise about you pretty much every single day, she ain’t letting you go so easily buddy.
 
Girls approach. In direct and indirect ways. More often it will be indirect and somewhat subtle but in outdoor settings like bars and clubs some whores will legit throw themselves at you. Of course if ur chadlite+ or tall HTN+
 
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cope, women don't wanna be seen as whores. Look at the tiktoks where the bitches don't approach the chad.
They don’t care how they are seen if they genuinely want the guy.
 
Nah bro. I’ve seen toilets approaching guys, even the ones that you think maybe be shy. Theyll find a way to get your attention by touching your feet, writing their numbers/ instas on a piece of paper and hand it to you. I’ve seen these shit happen to my attractive acquaintances.
My point was that don't expect a girl to straight telling you she "loves you"
 
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Same. Fuckikg hell of a life we are living
i mean when it happens just once you can cope and blame it on the girl. when it happens 7 times you know its a "you" problem
 
14-18 year old girls approch

i got approached many times in my life and ive only been to a club once

once foids realize their power of their pussy and that they got unlimited choices on online dating (around 18-20), they stop approaching.
 
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They don’t care how they are seen if they genuinely want the guy.
again not true, bitches are a lot more pussy then you seem to think
 
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My point was that don't expect a girl to straight telling you she "loves you"
Approaching itself and asking for your insta = I’m attracted to you
 
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yeah, the idea that you're going to looksmax to the point where you get approached for easy sex by strangers is delusional. You can get women occassionally approaching and testing the waters, but you still need to do 99% of the work. Most people's problem here isn't looks, but being fragile narcies.
What if a black guy ran down the street screaming and flailing his arms? What would you do?
 
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Nope. Most females respect a guy that puts 0 effort and already look good.
what i mean is that if youre gl she will make it clear that she wants to hook up, but you as the man will still need to initiate the physical stuff like kissing
They don’t care about your efforts and shit.
if you mean simping by that, yep
 
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BS. You wouldn’t say this if you saw how attractive guys are treated irl.
i've seen a lot of attractive guys and women interact/social circle. The situation where the bitch is attracted but says nothing is actually pretty common
 
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Brootal realitypill
 
what i mean is that if youre gl she will make it clear that she wants to hook up, but you as the man will still need to initiate the physical stuff like kissing

if you mean simping by that, yep
Nah. I’ve seen foids kissing the guys without them making a move in hs. “Muh, you have to make the physical contact bro.”
 
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