GUIDE - How to become successful in life

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There are only four types of people...

1) Low Achiever with Low Effort - This person sets low goals, and barely puts any effort into them.

Example: 17 yr old dude, living with parents. He set a goal to clean up the room he lives in, but instead slept until 11PM until his mom woke him up and then played videogames for the rest of the day. This person probably still didn't emotionally mature yet, as there was nothing in life to make him mature. If you are this after the age of 16-18, you should really get your shit together.

2) Low Achiever with High Effort - This person sets low goals, but puts a lot of effort into them.

Example: 21 yr old girl, who goes to work everyday, drives a Nissan Altima, and is fairly financially stable. She gets good grades in school, and is fairly organized. This person has developed high effort, but too scared or too lazy to place goals higher. Will live average life

3) High Achiever with Low Effort - This person sets very high goals, but does nothing to achieve them.

Example: 19 yr old guy. He has always been a good student, up until highschool/college. His grades dropped as he wasn't ready for the amount of workload as he was used to understanding concepts quickly. He tries to set goals, such as move out from parents house, while still failing all of his courses because he can't sit down and do an hour of homework.

4) High Achiever with High Effort - This person sets high goals, and never gives up attempting to reach them.

Example: 20 yr old guy, who owns a social media marketing company with 5 employees which he started during lockdown, as he saw opportunity in that field. He has a goal to become a millionaire by the end of 2022, so he invests and saves his money. His parents are proud of him, and he is living an enjoyable life while also being academically successful.

Here's something I sketched really fast. Ofc, ideal person would continue the momentum of a low effort/high goal person (dashed line), while keeping a steady effort. Breaking point for a lot of people is at late teens, early twenties. Once life throws shit at you, you have to adapt and become more high effort.

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TLDR

It's all about setting high goals, while also putting high effort. That's all it takes to become successful in life, whatever the definition of success is for you. It's really all about mixing two good qualities together.

Why this happens?

Lack of maturity for effort, and compliance with averageness for goals.

For example, low effort/high goals people start off much better than everyone. They are intelligent, but that's what destroys them in the end. They never learned how to put in the work. If this type of person learns how to put in effort, he will be unstoppable.

Then, go to your school/uni library, and notice how it's 95% women in there. They are putting in crazy amounts of effort, but just for a grade in the gradebook. They are fine with living average life, there is no risk taking. They are fine with driving their leased car. They are fine with going out every weekend. This type of person is high effort/low goals. This is why many more guys are homeless and broke compared to women, but also why many more guys are rich and successful compared to women. Testosterone plays a huge part in risk taking, and competitiveness - but does nothing for effort. That one is a learned skill
 
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95% of people in general are fine with living average life without any risk taking. They are fine with driving their leased car. They are fine with going out every weekend. The reason why girls succeed more in school is because in 2022 as a non-Chad male, you need to have meth streamlined into your veins 24/7 if you don't want feel like killing yourself daily, to be able to handle the pressures of life, and have the energy to study and work while not having your bare minimum somatic needs met like busting a nut.

Remember that every girl you see going to your class is FULLY sexually fulfilled, even the ugliest girl is fucking HER relative version of Chad, she has 40 friends and they are ALL genuine (men cope so fucking hard by thinking women's friendships are quality over quantity). She's well established on social media, insta page with 5000 followers, people in her dms 24/7 giving her easy opioid and endorphin release and positive feedback on everything she says and thinks, she can focus 100% of her energy on her studies and academics and get good grades.

Compare that to non-Chads, or for the sake of the argument non-htn. They don't have any validation or affection due to their looks, so they need lots of money to make up for it. College simply doesn't provide that option so they would rather start a business or study a STEM field.
 
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95% of people in general are fine with living average life without any risk taking. They are fine with driving their leased car. They are fine with going out every weekend. The reason why girls succeed more in school is because in 2022 as a non-Chad male, you need to have meth streamlined into your veins 24/7 if you don't want feel like killing yourself daily, to be able to handle the pressures of life, and have the energy to study and work while not having your bare minimum somatic needs met like busting a nut.

Remember that every girl you see going to your class is FULLY sexually fulfilled, even the ugliest girl is fucking HER relative version of Chad, she has 40 friends and they are ALL genuine (men cope so fucking hard by thinking women's friendships are quality over quantity). She's well established on social media, insta page with 5000 followers, people in her dms 24/7 giving her easy opioid and endorphin release and positive feedback on everything she says and thinks, she can focus 100% of her energy on her studies and academics and get good grades.
Mark Zuckerberg

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Elon Musk

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Jeff Bezos

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If anything, putting in less effort into relationships as a late teen will result in you becoming more low effort.
 
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How to be succesful in life
>Don't post on looksmax.org.
 
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95% of people in general are fine with living average life without any risk taking. They are fine with driving their leased car. They are fine with going out every weekend. The reason why girls succeed more in school is because in 2022 as a non-Chad male, you need to have meth streamlined into your veins 24/7 if you don't want feel like killing yourself daily, to be able to handle the pressures of life, and have the energy to study and work while not having your bare minimum somatic needs met like busting a nut.

Remember that every girl you see going to your class is FULLY sexually fulfilled, even the ugliest girl is fucking HER relative version of Chad, she has 40 friends and they are ALL genuine (men cope so fucking hard by thinking women's friendships are quality over quantity). She's well established on social media, insta page with 5000 followers, people in her dms 24/7 giving her easy opioid and endorphin release and positive feedback on everything she says and thinks, she can focus 100% of her energy on her studies and academics and get good grades.

Compare that to non-Chads, or for the sake of the argument non-htn. They don't have any validation or affection due to their looks, so they need lots of money to make up for it. College simply doesn't provide that option so they would rather start a business or study a STEM field.
exactly only women's maslow heirarchy of needs are fulfilled to the extent they can achieve self fulfillment; not men
 
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What's the alternative? I code all day and open this site up every once in a while.
I was joking. Dont rot on .org all day is a better answer.
 
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95% of people in general are fine with living average life without any risk taking. They are fine with driving their leased car. They are fine with going out every weekend. The reason why girls succeed more in school is because in 2022 as a non-Chad male, you need to have meth streamlined into your veins 24/7 if you don't want feel like killing yourself daily, to be able to handle the pressures of life, and have the energy to study and work while not having your bare minimum somatic needs met like busting a nut.

Remember that every girl you see going to your class is FULLY sexually fulfilled, even the ugliest girl is fucking HER relative version of Chad, she has 40 friends and they are ALL genuine (men cope so fucking hard by thinking women's friendships are quality over quantity). She's well established on social media, insta page with 5000 followers, people in her dms 24/7 giving her easy opioid and endorphin release and positive feedback on everything she says and thinks, she can focus 100% of her energy on her studies and academics and get good grades.

Compare that to non-Chads, or for the sake of the argument non-htn. They don't have any validation or affection due to their looks, so they need lots of money to make up for it. College simply doesn't provide that option so they would rather start a business or study a STEM field.
why are we still alive, as men?
 
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a society in which you have to be exceptional to live a happy normal life is a society which has utterly failed
 
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Just have hundreds of thousands in seed money bro

just literally be an Ivy League socialite jew bro
Make it your goal to earn seed money, so your son becomes next Bill Gates then
 
95% of people in general are fine with living average life without any risk taking. They are fine with driving their leased car. They are fine with going out every weekend. The reason why girls succeed more in school is because in 2022 as a non-Chad male, you need to have meth streamlined into your veins 24/7 if you don't want feel like killing yourself daily, to be able to handle the pressures of life, and have the energy to study and work while not having your bare minimum somatic needs met like busting a nut.

Remember that every girl you see going to your class is FULLY sexually fulfilled, even the ugliest girl is fucking HER relative version of Chad, she has 40 friends and they are ALL genuine (men cope so fucking hard by thinking women's friendships are quality over quantity). She's well established on social media, insta page with 5000 followers, people in her dms 24/7 giving her easy opioid and endorphin release and positive feedback on everything she says and thinks, she can focus 100% of her energy on her studies and academics and get good grades.

Compare that to non-Chads, or for the sake of the argument non-htn. They don't have any validation or affection due to their looks, so they need lots of money to make up for it. College simply doesn't provide that option so they would rather start a business or study a STEM field.
Living the average life is easy and only NPCs strive to do that. Strive to be better.
 
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Don't be fooled, it's insanely hard to break free of the average status in society. I agree, it's a totally disgruntling trait when someone doesn't strive towards anything beyond average. However, to open a booming business or somehow for the stars to align and for you to make 10x more than the people that you went to school with for the same degree is very unlikely. I've been pouring my heart and soul into propagating myself further in life for over a decade now...and I'm still no where near my potential earnings/success nor have I but barely broken away from average.

One last point:
 
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95% of people in general are fine with living average life without any risk taking. They are fine with driving their leased car. They are fine with going out every weekend. The reason why girls succeed more in school is because in 2022 as a non-Chad male, you need to have meth streamlined into your veins 24/7 if you don't want feel like killing yourself daily, to be able to handle the pressures of life, and have the energy to study and work while not having your bare minimum somatic needs met like busting a nut.

Remember that every girl you see going to your class is FULLY sexually fulfilled, even the ugliest girl is fucking HER relative version of Chad, she has 40 friends and they are ALL genuine (men cope so fucking hard by thinking women's friendships are quality over quantity). She's well established on social media, insta page with 5000 followers, people in her dms 24/7 giving her easy opioid and endorphin release and positive feedback on everything she says and thinks, she can focus 100% of her energy on her studies and academics and get good grades.

Compare that to non-Chads, or for the sake of the argument non-htn. They don't have any validation or affection due to their looks, so they need lots of money to make up for it. College simply doesn't provide that option so they would rather start a business or study a STEM field.
brutal lifepill

being short ruined my whole life and i became a subhuman

even achieving something extremely difficult like founding a company is irrelevant.

no one cares about it because i'm short.
 
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There are only four types of people...

1) Low Achiever with Low Effort - This person sets low goals, and barely puts any effort into them.

Example: 17 yr old dude, living with parents. He set a goal to clean up the room he lives in, but instead slept until 11PM until his mom woke him up and then played videogames for the rest of the day. This person probably still didn't emotionally mature yet, as there was nothing in life to make him mature. If you are this after the age of 16-18, you should really get your shit together.

2) Low Achiever with High Effort - This person sets low goals, but puts a lot of effort into them.

Example: 21 yr old girl, who goes to work everyday, drives a Nissan Altima, and is fairly financially stable. She gets good grades in school, and is fairly organized. This person has developed high effort, but too scared or too lazy to place goals higher. Will live average life

3) High Achiever with Low Effort - This person sets very high goals, but does nothing to achieve them.

Example: 19 yr old guy. He has always been a good student, up until highschool/college. His grades dropped as he wasn't ready for the amount of workload as he was used to understanding concepts quickly. He tries to set goals, such as move out from parents house, while still failing all of his courses because he can't sit down and do an hour of homework.

4) High Achiever with High Effort - This person sets high goals, and never gives up attempting to reach them.

Example: 20 yr old guy, who owns a social media marketing company with 5 employees which he started during lockdown, as he saw opportunity in that field. He has a goal to become a millionaire by the end of 2022, so he invests and saves his money. His parents are proud of him, and he is living an enjoyable life while also being academically successful.

Here's something I sketched really fast. Ofc, ideal person would continue the momentum of a low effort/high goal person (dashed line), while keeping a steady effort. Breaking point for a lot of people is at late teens, early twenties. Once life throws shit at you, you have to adapt and become more high effort.

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TLDR

It's all about setting high goals, while also putting high effort. That's all it takes to become successful in life, whatever the definition of success is for you. It's really all about mixing two good qualities together.

Why this happens?

Lack of maturity for effort, and compliance with averageness for goals.

For example, low effort/high goals people start off much better than everyone. They are intelligent, but that's what destroys them in the end. They never learned how to put in the work. If this type of person learns how to put in effort, he will be unstoppable.

Then, go to your school/uni library, and notice how it's 95% women in there. They are putting in crazy amounts of effort, but just for a grade in the gradebook. They are fine with living average life, there is no risk taking. They are fine with driving their leased car. They are fine with going out every weekend. This type of person is high effort/low goals. This is why many more guys are homeless and broke compared to women, but also why many more guys are rich and successful compared to women. Testosterone plays a huge part in risk taking, and competitiveness - but does nothing for effort. That one is a learned skill
Nice, honestly look into Flow theory from Mihaly. The graph is the exact same and correlates skill and challenge.
 
brutal lifepill

being short ruined my whole life and i became a subhuman

even achieving something extremely difficult like founding a company is irrelevant.

no one cares about it because i'm short.
Whats your height? Ever considered LL?
 
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