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SO YOU WANNA GET INTO BDSM?
THAT SHIT IS AN EASY AF WAY TO SECURE AN LTR OR GET HOOKUPS, IVE NEVER BEEN A SUB BECAUSE THATS GAY AF SO ILL JUST TALK ABOUT BEING A DOMINANT IN THIS THREAD:
What is BDSM?
BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, it is a sexual subculture but also branches outside sex, I.e. a dom is also dominant in how he treats his sub outside the bedroom
What kind of acts would I take part in in BDSM?
There are too many to list so I’ll write some of the main ones here
- degrading: calling your sub a slut/whore and essentially making fun of her, this can be done in two ways if your a soft dom (kind) or a hard dom (mean). Both can still degrade just in different ways, a soft dom may say ‘keep that back arched like a good princess, yeah that’s it, good girl’ while a hard dom may say ‘arch your fucking back for me slut’
- pain: usually used as a punishment for when your sub acts bratty (e.g. ‘you’re not tough’), don’t take what they say to heart, they only say those things because they want to be punished for them, this includes but isn’t limited to, spanking (with hand or object), choking, hair pulling or knife play (caressing girls body with knife and carving a word or something lightly into thighs or ass)
- bondage: this is the act of making your partner feel more vulnerable, usually through blindfolding or tying, a simple way of tying a girls hand to a girls hand to a bedpost is with a belt like so
aftercare: this is a really important part of bdsm because without it ‘sub drop’ can occur, the submissive feels unloved and uncared for after being essentially bullied and used so aftercare is a must, regardless if you’re a hard or soft dom, aftercare is a way of showing that you care for your sub, it can be done by running your sub a bath, wiping down or putting bandaged on their cuts and bruises, watching a movie with them or just spending time with t m in general and reassuring them with phrases like ‘you’ve been such a good girl for me.
this is great and all but it begs the question, how do I find girls into bdsm?
In my experience most alternative girls like it so you can find them around thrift shops or online (Twitter is preferable for bdsm)
now go dominate some prime coochie gentlemen
SO YOU WANNA GET INTO BDSM?
THAT SHIT IS AN EASY AF WAY TO SECURE AN LTR OR GET HOOKUPS, IVE NEVER BEEN A SUB BECAUSE THATS GAY AF SO ILL JUST TALK ABOUT BEING A DOMINANT IN THIS THREAD:
What is BDSM?
BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, it is a sexual subculture but also branches outside sex, I.e. a dom is also dominant in how he treats his sub outside the bedroom
What kind of acts would I take part in in BDSM?
There are too many to list so I’ll write some of the main ones here
- degrading: calling your sub a slut/whore and essentially making fun of her, this can be done in two ways if your a soft dom (kind) or a hard dom (mean). Both can still degrade just in different ways, a soft dom may say ‘keep that back arched like a good princess, yeah that’s it, good girl’ while a hard dom may say ‘arch your fucking back for me slut’
- pain: usually used as a punishment for when your sub acts bratty (e.g. ‘you’re not tough’), don’t take what they say to heart, they only say those things because they want to be punished for them, this includes but isn’t limited to, spanking (with hand or object), choking, hair pulling or knife play (caressing girls body with knife and carving a word or something lightly into thighs or ass)
- bondage: this is the act of making your partner feel more vulnerable, usually through blindfolding or tying, a simple way of tying a girls hand to a girls hand to a bedpost is with a belt like so
aftercare: this is a really important part of bdsm because without it ‘sub drop’ can occur, the submissive feels unloved and uncared for after being essentially bullied and used so aftercare is a must, regardless if you’re a hard or soft dom, aftercare is a way of showing that you care for your sub, it can be done by running your sub a bath, wiping down or putting bandaged on their cuts and bruises, watching a movie with them or just spending time with t m in general and reassuring them with phrases like ‘you’ve been such a good girl for me.
this is great and all but it begs the question, how do I find girls into bdsm?
In my experience most alternative girls like it so you can find them around thrift shops or online (Twitter is preferable for bdsm)
now go dominate some prime coochie gentlemen
