Has anyone else just stopped having crushes?

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Back in Highschool I had a couple, my main one was back in grade 9 where I had the biggest crush on some Chinese girl who was in my band; I remember I used to cuddle my pillow imagining it was her. Now I'm 20 and I feel like I haven't really had a crush since high school and now I don't even feel romantic attraction anymore, idk anyone else feel the same.
 
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Same I stopped having them a while ago
 
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Over if you have crushes on asain girls
 
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It’s irrelevant after highschool
 
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If you are not attractive enough and the girl you look is more attractive than you then you know you don't have a chance so you stop giving a fuck until you become more attractive :PepeSerious: But if something happens and she likes you then good you wouldn't say no but you don't force it and don't care about it and don't want it that bad
 
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Yeah man
 
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Same I stopped having them a while ago
it might just be a getting older thing tbh. Kinda bummed out, having a crush was soo much fun
 
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Same. I can acknowledge when a female is objectively attractive but that doesn't get any attracted feelings out of me. I'm not over here thinking, "Oh yeah, gotta have me some of that."
 
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Back in Highschool I had a couple, my main one was back in grade 9 where I had the biggest crush on some Chinese girl who was in my band; I remember I used to cuddle my pillow imagining it was her. Now I'm 20 and I feel like I haven't really had a crush since high school and now I don't even feel romantic attraction anymore, idk anyone else feel the same.
same ngl
 
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Yes foid nature is disgusting I don’t really like them anymore tbh

Unless their personality is good which is very rare
 
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Same. I can acknowledge when a female is objectively attractive but that doesn't get any attracted feelings out of me. I'm not over here thinking, "Oh yeah, gotta have me some of that."
faxx, like I'm obviously straight, I just don't care to be in a relationship and i find most of the dating stuff extremely cringe
 
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i mean depends on your surrounding when i went to college for engineering it was 100% indian men no way to have a crush :feelshah:
 
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i mean depends on your surrounding when i went to college for engineering it was 100% indian men no way to have a crush :feelshah:
LMAOO, I'm in engineering too and yeah it's just asian, indian, and eastern european men JFL
 
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Back in Highschool I had a couple, my main one was back in grade 9 where I had the biggest crush on some Chinese girl who was in my band; I remember I used to cuddle my pillow imagining it was her. Now I'm 20 and I feel like I haven't really had a crush since high school and now I don't even feel romantic attraction anymore, idk anyone else feel the same.
It should become less and less as you get older. Because your understanding of women should become more and more refined. Without understanding all you see is beauty. Beauty is essential, but only the foundation.
 
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Back in Highschool I had a couple, my main one was back in grade 9 where I had the biggest crush on some Chinese girl who was in my band; I remember I used to cuddle my pillow imagining it was her. Now I'm 20 and I feel like I haven't really had a crush since high school and now I don't even feel romantic attraction anymore, idk anyone else feel the same.
Maybe you subconsciously realised how cruel and evil they are as you aged
 
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Maybe you subconsciously realised how cruel and evil they are as you aged
yeah probably. Finding out the true nature of women can make even the most "lover boy" nigga a MGTOW
 
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yeah probably. Finding out the true nature of women can make even the most "lover boy" nigga a MGTOW
Even my own mother has the characteristics of a self centered grandiose sadistic foid, i despise them all so much
 
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