have u ever been someone else's first option? like first person to call etc

[Deleted member 176586]

like were u ever someone (friend whatever etc.) first person that they would call or tell if something happened to them, they needed ar opinion or wanted to hang out etc?
I feel like i was never anyone's first option even though i try to be the best person possible to everyone

 

[Deleted member 176586]

bump

 

[crazyguy]

like were u ever someone (friend whatever etc.) first person that they would call or tell if something happened to them, they needed ar opinion or wanted to hang out etc?
I feel like i was never anyone's first option even though i try to be the best person possible to everyone

no i only have myself

 

[Deleted member 176586]

no i only have myself

me too and its so sad i wish i was someone first option bro i hope it still hapens some day

 

[Grievous]

No and also trying to be nice to everyone won't get u close with someone you'll just be like a floater friend

 

[Deleted member 176586]

No and also trying to be nice to everyone won't get u close with someone you'll just be like a floater friend

so what should i do cause i feel like i cant ever be close to anyone

 

[Grievous]

so what should i do cause i feel like i cant ever be close to anyone

Idk really man Im in the same situation too ive kinda fucked myself over as a floater friend now I like know everyone and r chill with people but dont really have a specific group or person im close with im just kinda there yk

 

[Deleted member 176586]

Idk really man Im in the same situation too ive kinda fucked myself over as a floater friend now I like know everyone and r chill with people but dont really have a specific group or person im close with im just kinda there yk

yeah i feel u, but im not even a floater i have like 1 group but still feel forgotten

 

[Grievous]

yeah i feel u, but im not even a floater i have like 1 group but still feel forgotten

Just stick with ur group and see how it goes ig but dont just be overly nice to everyone cus then people won't think your actually being nice and get closer cus of it they'll just see it as thats how u r and get used to it

 

[ropemaxxxx]

Ive made myself everyone I associate with their only option

 

[william.]

yes

 

[Deleted member 176586]

Ive made myself everyone I associate with their only option

how

 

[PrettyLights]

go the gym bro

 

[ropemaxxxx]

how

You just have to be selective, then plan your actions carefully

 

[Deleted member 176586]

go the gym bro

i go sometimes like twice a week cause people judge u there

 

[Deleted member 192735]

No I used to have a lot of "friends" but I wouldn't even hang out with them outside of school

 

[kana]

friends, no.

girls, yes, 3-ish times

 

[PrettyLights]

friends, no.

girls, yes, 3-ish times

who actually gives a fuck about being the formers first option

 

[Deleted member 176586]

No I used to have a lot of "friends" but I wouldn't even hang out with them outside of school

after school ends people just forget ab u

 

[Deleted member 176586]

who actually gives a fuck about being the formers first option

its nice to have friend bro

 

[lowtiersubhuman]

like were u ever someone (friend whatever etc.) first person that they would call or tell if something happened to them, they needed ar opinion or wanted to hang out etc?
I feel like i was never anyone's first option even though i try to be the best person possible to everyone

Tbh I dont get calls or anything im never a first maybe once when my friend was sad and needed advice or when my friends wanna know something they say lowtiersubhuman your smart whats blah blah blah

 

[Mizi44]

Yes of many my best friend , my gf and alot other peoples

 

[kana]

who actually gives a fuck about being the formers first option

Good point, sometimes I do wish I could just have a nigga to shoot the shit with, or call after a breakup, 2-man's ... etc

But alas, pussy > dick

That's why I own a two-seater, the only other occupant of my vehicle should be a 5'2 alt latina

 

[Deleted member 176586]

Tbh I dont get calls or anything im never a first maybe once when my friend was sad and needed advice or when my friends wanna know something they say lowtiersubhuman your smart whats blah blah blah

yeah bro sometimes when some shit is going wrong they ask to talk to me

 

[Deleted member 176586]

Yes of many my best friend , my gf and alot other peoples

mirin

 

[Deleted member 192735]

after school ends people just forget

Pretty much
I haven't actually hung out with any people I know outside of school so far this school year

 

[PhiXi]

like were u ever someone (friend whatever etc.) first person that they would call or tell if something happened to them, they needed ar opinion or wanted to hang out etc?
I feel like i was never anyone's first option even though i try to be the best person possible to everyone

Yeah but the girl kinda best-friendzoned me but for i while i felt needed

 

[gigacumster3000]

nah can't help with that, but i feel you on the struggle of trying too hard to please everyone and not getting reciprocated, been there

 

[Prøphet]

No.

 

[Jesko]

like were u ever someone (friend whatever etc.) first person that they would call or tell if something happened to them, they needed ar opinion or wanted to hang out etc?
I feel like i was never anyone's first option even though i try to be the best person possible to everyone

Yeah my homegirl. Makes up for the fact that she will never love me