Having a gf is the meaning of life

[Zyros]

wife + kid will give you more fulfillment than wagying

I dont mean waging. I meant that even if thats what you want to do for the sake of choice, you can.

If by fulfillment is being transformed into lifeless husks and aging at a sudden rate as I see constantly irl in people who go for kids, I don't want that "fulfillment"

 

[Deleted member 4209]

Normies should be executed publicly for their copes about how " you need to love yourself before someone else will "

When I was chubbier and had no girls checking for me I was incredibly bitter

When I first swallowed the blackpill I would wake up like Martin Sheen in Apocalypse Now, I would just stare at the ceiling fan every morning when I woke up, I wondered how I would cope the day away, and wonder why I didnt rope the night before

I used to tell myself I wish my parents hated me so they wouldnt miss me when I roped, being a failure with women means life literally has no purpose

And no making money and having nice things doesnt, nor will it ever fill the void of being unattractive to women, because your human brain evolved to seek out women, NOT JEWISH MATERIALISM CULTURE

I remember the absolute darkness before looksmaxxing, I didnt care about living or dying, I constantly hoped I would die in a car crash on the way to work or someone would shoot up my job and kill me first

I escaped the pit of darkness but I know alot of men wont be able to and I fear for them everyday, it is only a matter of time before mass suicide and murders become the norm because men cant get a gf

No gf = No wife or kids, eventually as you age you will be so lonely as everyone else in your life is too busy to hang or dies off

Without a family you will never be happy, only constantly distracted until the emptiness swallows you whole

i wish i could have had a gf in high school so my brain would have developed properly. having been starved of love for so long i know for a fact my brain has been messed up from it.

 

[Deleted member 2632]

Really? anything that I feel like doing but being a slave. Do i want to join careermaxxing? I can. Do I get bored of it and want to change places where I live? I can. Things are not going well econoimically and I could use a cheaper home to live? I can. Do I feel like going on a week long hike or go monk mode to live in some mountain? I can. Wife+kids? say goodbye to any power of decision over your own life.

Sounds like cope

Imagine going on a hike as a family, imagine a loving wife who helps pay the bills, imagine feeling like a slave to a woman and child but not your corporate masters and politicians

 

[sytyl]

I dont mean waging. I meant that even if thats what you want to do for the sake of choice, you can.

If by fulfillment is being transformed into lifeless husks and aging at a sudden rate as I see constantly irl in people who go for kids, I don't want that "fulfillment"

once you have kids you have to start vicarious living maxxing via your kids

also nothing can replace the chemical releases produced by being surrounded by your own progeny, not being promoted by shlomo, not buying a bigger house, not going into the woods for a week, nothing

 

[Deleted member 4438]

having stacy = meaning of life

dating becky = doesnt mean shit

 

[Zyros]

@Chadlite Rutherford @sytyl

You have an extremely romanticized idea of what family life is like. You dont have to be a slave to either your family or corporate masters. In fact most if times being a slave to your family ties you also to corporate masters (not being able to leave a shitty job to look for another less paying but lower stress one, because family now depends on you)

What chemical releases? The ones that make you look like you aged 15 years in the first single year of having kids? Or the fucking cortisol from knowing that now your family depends on you and you are extremely tied for any decision you make unles you are extremely rich? Having a shit job thats consuming you and wish to change it? too bad! your neighborhood became unideal for you and wish to move places? too bad unless you like fucking your kids over by moving them too. Also "vicariously living trough them" is a dead giveaway: your life is no longer even yours, you lost your identity.

All the older people I know (people in their hight 40s or mid 50s) that didnt start a family (and didnt want to, this is important) always look happier, are much more laid back, look younger, and are much full of energy (they are always doing things), and their jobs/things they do for a living are much more extremely varied compared to their counterparts that started families. Most of the people who started a family I know (from the newbies to the older ones) are always looking taciturn/concerned, stressed, and in the case of the younger ones its like their biological clocks suddenly were sped up or something. I have observed this pattern since I was a kid myself, and decided that family life is definitely not for me.

I have also a myriad of other more... "unique" reasons to loathe the idea of having kids, being that having kids is an act of death (we reproduce because we aren't immortal, to have replacements and to be basically the "trial and error" of nature trough the generations biological system. Since a kid I always found the "life cycle", and "passing the baton" concepts abhorrent. I always found generational structured life abominable. I hate death, and even tho I won't probably avoid it, at least I don't want to celebrate it either with the ultimate death-confirming act taht is having progeny.

 

[DidntRead]

LTRs are a meme in 2020

 

[Deleted member 4804]

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Fallout memes

 

[Deleted member 5891]

When I was chubbier and had no girls checking for me I was incredibly bitter

I currently in this stage rn
I am leanmaxxing and already see some results ,

I need bimax and buccal fat removal to fully ascend like you did

 

[Deleted member 5393]

Post pics of ur gf i wanna see if ur looksmatched

 

[Uglybrazilian]

Delusional
The meaning of life for a man is SLAYING, nothing more

Any low t pussy ass nigga can get a girlfriend, but only true moggers can slay

Girlfriend is cope, chad or death

 

[Deleted member 2632]

once you have kids you have to start vicarious living maxxing via your kids

also nothing can replace the chemical releases produced by being surrounded by your own progeny, not being promoted by shlomo, not buying a bigger house, not going into the woods for a week, nothing

Correct, our biology is hard wired to seek out women and bear offspring

There's a good reason alot of older people dont like technology, they actually enjoy real conversations and re

Delusional
The meaning of life for a man is SLAYING, nothing more

Any low t pussy ass nigga can get a girlfriend, but only true moggers can slay

Girlfriend is cope, chad or death

Only Non-Slayers say this kind of stuff

I could easily be slayer, and natural Chads I met in my life have LTRs and dont cheat on their gf even when whores throw themselves at them

Slaying is degenerate behavior, the breakdown of the family unit is what caused all the problems in the first place

 

[Deleted member 2632]

Post pics of ur gf i wanna see if ur looksmatched

No, I mog her tho, when we meet strangers they mention my looks but not hers

She's cute and fit but more importantly she has a great personality

 

[Uglybrazilian]

Correct, our biology is hard wired to seek out women and bear offspring

There's a good reason alot of older people dont like technology, they actually enjoy real conversations and re

Only Non-Slayers say this kind of stuff

I could easily be slayer, and natural Chads I met in my life have LTRs and dont cheat on their gf even when whores throw themselves at them

Slaying is degenerate behavior, the breakdown of the family unit is what caused all the problems in the first place

I respect your opinion nigga but I cant think like that

Family looks like a huge right wing cope for me, most familys do nothing but traumatize their kids

 

[Deleted member 5393]

No, I mog her tho, when we meet strangers they mention my looks but not hers

She's cute and fit but more importantly she has a great personality

I admire your way of thinking brother. She seems like a nice girl.

 

[Deleted member 6873]

GF mogs slaying imo, why slay sluts when i can browse .me with scandi wifey in logcabin???

But doing fun shit with the boys mogs imo

 

[Roping Subhuman]

I could see your point if this was 20 years ago when hypergamy and degeneracy wasn't as high.

In modern times having a gf means cucking yourself.

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Bewusst]

I disagree

 

[Pietrosiek]

simply no

 

[Roping Subhuman]

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kuk.

 

[Deleted member 1934]

nah

 

[Deleted member 5061]

Tbh, basically ltr and dating is best in teen years and mb early 20s, when you dont have than many responsibilities, plans etc. Later on or if youre in a ltr for a few years, things start to become monotonous as well and kinda scripted. Esp. if youd have to live in same household and so on. Not even to mention when you get kids.

As was posted in this thread before, I agree that most parents dont look that happy and they indeed age much faster. Also many familes end up not even spending that much time together, esp. when kids are in their teens. Everyones kinda doing their own thing on the internet etc. and not really sitting together in the evening and talking or whatever.

I agree that slaying is better but only and its a very important part, only if youre Chad and all foids are mirin you and appreciate you. You can basically do all the hobbies you want, have no responsibility and still connect with some foids on casual basis and slay. Basically, whenever Chad wants intimacy, he can get it, and whenever he wants time for himself without having any responsibility etc. he can do whatever the fuck he wants- hobbies, traveling etc.

family thing only made sense when living in tribes or with whole families (parents, grandparents etc.) in same big house or close together. Youd basically be hunting all day and all women in the tribe would collectively take care of kids, which would be way more efficient (since not ever woman had to pay attention to kids) than every woman taking care of her own child as it is nowadays. They had more time to do other shit they wanted, and werent stessed out 24/7 with taking care of kids.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Thanks OP, I have to see Apocalypse now again.

 

[Deleted member 1934]

No, I mog her tho, when we meet strangers they mention my looks but not hers

She's cute and fit but more importantly she has a great personality

Bruh i have the same

 

[Vermilioncore]

yup exactly

 

[Ritalincel]

Thanks OP, I have to see Apocalypse again now.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

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