Having no true friends is so brutal

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First off I want to say that anyone who has good, true friends that enjoy hanging out with you should be extremely grateful.

Everyone on this forum talks about how bad it is to miss out on teen relationships/romance but no one talks about how awful it is to only have "school" friends which dont really enjoy spending time with you

Every day I hear about how they are hanging out each weekend and their plans without me and its like it doesnt even bother them to talk about it in front of me

And its not like they dislike me, we often have a good time together, but its like they just forget about me outside of school other than when they need something from me

I am sure I am not the only one in such a situation
 
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dnr

i can do fine without male friends i wouldnt give a shit

i just want gf
 
First off I want to say that anyone who has good, true friends that enjoy hanging out with you should be extremely grateful.

Everyone on this forum talks about how bad it is to miss out on teen relationships/romance but no one talks about how awful it is to only have "school" friends which dont really enjoy spending time with you

Every day I hear about how they are hanging out each weekend and their plans without me and its like it doesnt even bother them to talk about it in front of me

And its not like they dislike me, we often have a good time together, but its like they just forget about me outside of school other than when they need something from me

I am sure I am not the only one in such a situation
Friendship is so fake human are to self servering for it to mean anything, leave those shitty friends trust me make new ones by any means
 
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ur a floater friend, many ppl are too
 
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Friendship is so fake human are to self servering for it to mean anything, leave those shitty friends trust me
And then do what? Live out the rest of high school with no meaningful interactions with other humans?
 
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And then do what? Live out the rest of high school with no meaningful interactions with other humans?
i edited it to say find new friends by any means trust me theres lots of loser niggas on the internet with no friends
 
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I feel the same way. If it weren't for the school we go to together, I probably wouldn't have any contact. "situation ship" is much worse than finding friends at all
 
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ur a floater friend, many ppl are too
Hurts to hear but its true. Really disappointing since like half a year ago I was getting invited to some parties and hangouts and then gradually it got worse and worse
 
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Hurts to hear but its true. Really disappointing since like half a year ago I was getting invited to some parties and hangouts and then gradually it got worse and worse
the more popular the people are the more likely they dont care abt u
 
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First off I want to say that anyone who has good, true friends that enjoy hanging out with you should be extremely grateful.

Everyone on this forum talks about how bad it is to miss out on teen relationships/romance but no one talks about how awful it is to only have "school" friends which dont really enjoy spending time with you

Every day I hear about how they are hanging out each weekend and their plans without me and its like it doesnt even bother them to talk about it in front of me

And its not like they dislike me, we often have a good time together, but its like they just forget about me outside of school other than when they need something from me

I am sure I am not the only one in such a situation
Yeah it sucks
 
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First off I want to say that anyone who has good, true friends that enjoy hanging out with you should be extremely grateful.

Everyone on this forum talks about how bad it is to miss out on teen relationships/romance but no one talks about how awful it is to only have "school" friends which dont really enjoy spending time with you

Every day I hear about how they are hanging out each weekend and their plans without me and its like it doesnt even bother them to talk about it in front of me

And its not like they dislike me, we often have a good time together, but its like they just forget about me outside of school other than when they need something from me

I am sure I am not the only one in such a situation
Real shit it's brutal to be low status
 
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First off I want to say that anyone who has good, true friends that enjoy hanging out with you should be extremely grateful.

Everyone on this forum talks about how bad it is to miss out on teen relationships/romance but no one talks about how awful it is to only have "school" friends which dont really enjoy spending time with you

Every day I hear about how they are hanging out each weekend and their plans without me and its like it doesnt even bother them to talk about it in front of me

And its not like they dislike me, we often have a good time together, but its like they just forget about me outside of school other than when they need something from me

I am sure I am not the only one in such a situation
Being the school pity friend is like being cucked ngl

The cooler, more neurotypical and better looking males get the social life and dopamine while you’re just there to serve as entertainment for lunch break
 
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First off I want to say that anyone who has good, true friends that enjoy hanging out with you should be extremely grateful.

Everyone on this forum talks about how bad it is to miss out on teen relationships/romance but no one talks about how awful it is to only have "school" friends which dont really enjoy spending time with you

Every day I hear about how they are hanging out each weekend and their plans without me and its like it doesnt even bother them to talk about it in front of me

And its not like they dislike me, we often have a good time together, but its like they just forget about me outside of school other than when they need something from me

I am sure I am not the only one in such a situation
I wish i had friends, my entire life Ive just been surrounding myself with a bunch of people to feel less left out and out of place but I still go days without being acknowledged or talked to, this loneliness is killing me
 
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Being the school pity friend is like being cucked ngl
true jfl, but whats even worse than being a pity friend is being the person people find excuses not to be around or talk to even when theres noone else around
 
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true jfl, but whats even worse than being a pity friend is being the person people find excuses not to be around or talk to even when theres noone else around
:feelscry:
 
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Chads rarely have friends. Friends is for mtb-ltb level.+
 
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First off I want to say that anyone who has good, true friends that enjoy hanging out with you should be extremely grateful.

Everyone on this forum talks about how bad it is to miss out on teen relationships/romance but no one talks about how awful it is to only have "school" friends which dont really enjoy spending time with you

Every day I hear about how they are hanging out each weekend and their plans without me and its like it doesnt even bother them to talk about it in front of me

And its not like they dislike me, we often have a good time together, but its like they just forget about me outside of school other than when they need something from me

I am sure I am not the only one in such a situation
im exremly grateful
 
true jfl, but whats even worse than being a pity friend is being the person people find excuses not to be around or talk to even when theres noone else around
i think thats why alot of people are here
 
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mbappe looks like a monkey
 
First off I want to say that anyone who has good, true friends that enjoy hanging out with you should be extremely grateful.

Everyone on this forum talks about how bad it is to miss out on teen relationships/romance but no one talks about how awful it is to only have "school" friends which dont really enjoy spending time with you

Every day I hear about how they are hanging out each weekend and their plans without me and its like it doesnt even bother them to talk about it in front of me

And its not like they dislike me, we often have a good time together, but its like they just forget about me outside of school other than when they need something from me

I am sure I am not the only one in such a situation
I was in a similar position a few months ago.

I started chilling w a chad status friend group last summer. By the time school came back around they clocked that i was nd and stopped inviting me places. Then when I hung out with them in school after about a month they basically said to my face I’m too awkward and they don’t want me hanging around them anymore. It’s not even their fault because now that I am nt I can pick up when others are socially underdeveloped like I was and it makes me cringe. It’s almost painful.

I had some classes with people in the group and began my year long NT transformation and they basically invited me back into the group. If your wondering before last summer I had a nerdy friend group that I didn’t like and they were just gay and dicks.

So I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum and I can confirm how brutal it is. I used to go home every lunchtime and come back to school in the afternoon for 7 months straight because I literally had no friends
 
i think thats why alot of people are here
genuinely the only reason i come on this forum is to cope with my loneliness and depression, summers coming up and Im not looking forward to it at all
 
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genuinely the only reason i come on this forum is to cope with my loneliness and depression, summers coming up and Im not looking forward to it at all
i got a 3 week cope ( a job ) :lul: but yeah then its ldar here for 7 weeks
 
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