CupOfCoffee
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Okay so now that me and my gf are broken up, I have no choice but to avoid her and our mutual friends, at least for the rest of the summer. I'll be focusing on work and money and do a test cycle to get bigger than ever and continue hanging out with my old friends.
What I'm thinking is I want to get myself into a friend group but I really don't know how to do this now. I only have 1-2 friends I can sometimes hang out with (planning on going to Vegas and other places with them this summer too). Today I got a clear IOI from a girl where something very funny happened at a restaurant and me and her literally laughed for 4-5 minutes straight, and then she introduced herself to me. I didn't initiate anything more cuz tbh I'm not in the right mindset to do that yet.
But the thought occured to me that I could've easily asked her if she wanted to hangout sometime and maybe be friends, and explain to her that I don't have friends because of the breakup (most people are very nice to you when you tell them you're going thru a breakup). And that way I can get myself involved with them and whoever they know. And eventually I can get laid again, tho honestly I'm pretty sure I can get laid any weekend if I had the energy to do it.
What do you think should I try this next time?
What I'm thinking is I want to get myself into a friend group but I really don't know how to do this now. I only have 1-2 friends I can sometimes hang out with (planning on going to Vegas and other places with them this summer too). Today I got a clear IOI from a girl where something very funny happened at a restaurant and me and her literally laughed for 4-5 minutes straight, and then she introduced herself to me. I didn't initiate anything more cuz tbh I'm not in the right mindset to do that yet.
But the thought occured to me that I could've easily asked her if she wanted to hangout sometime and maybe be friends, and explain to her that I don't have friends because of the breakup (most people are very nice to you when you tell them you're going thru a breakup). And that way I can get myself involved with them and whoever they know. And eventually I can get laid again, tho honestly I'm pretty sure I can get laid any weekend if I had the energy to do it.
What do you think should I try this next time?