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Yes I am still developing currently 14 and a freshman I don’t remember when but I have another lip revision I think at 16 or 8 and they can improve them by another surgery to make them more slim I’m pretty sure
This picture has bad lighting but can’t really take any other picture rn I’m in the car and it’s night time, going on a trip to somewhere
Just focus on developing properly till that surgery, eat, get hella exercise and sleep very well. You too young to start doing the other stuff.
It is over sorry.
My parents owns a company, which will be passed down to me later on after they retire so maybe I’ll be able to afford those surgeries then. The next one will make the scars slimmer and I have the choice for rhinoplasty pretty sure. I put a picture of myself although it has bad lighting in reply to another comment, I also need to fix my acne and dark circles
So softmaxx for now?
is it really over? My eye area carries me and I’ve had a decent amount of girlfriends for my looks. More than people who have normal features and I’m still developing currently I still need to fix skin aswell and lower body fat. But if it is over I’ll just try and do as much as I can
Honestly bro its not as bad as I expected it to be. Can barely notice the scar in the picture you posted, maybe because of lighting, but darker skin should likely hide it better. Sick scenario to be in that your parents will pass down the company. You would likely have money for it then. For now just focus on fixing skin, hitting the gym. You look like you're young. My nose changed massively through puberty, no point really hyperfocusing on your facial structure through youth unless you're going to attempt peptides off your own volicion to prevent growth plates closing/potentially increase/change bone mass. Imo its better to focus on what I mentioned/the things you can change now and focus less on surgery before puberty has ended.
Compared to other cleft lips no mine was only an asthetic thing as my nose was never really asymmetric it’s only ever been the scars and lip. People tell me they don’t notice it when they talk to me but I feel like it is pretty noticeable maybe when I have the chance I’ll show a picture with better lighting. And yes I do have kind of dark skin although I’m pretty sure I’m just sun burnt as when I was younger I was more light skin, probably darkened due to playing sports outside a lot and at the moment I am 14. I am currently trying to get rid of my acne pretty sure it’s genetic but it’s not as bad as it used to be, I will try to get a bigger frame and hit the gym too. And yes luckily I have the chance to have it passed down although I won’t need fillers for my lip as I have a full lip, it’s just the scars that bother me. How much can a nose change throughout puberty? Because I have seen a small change in mine being more upturned but I think it’s because I lost fat so it seems different. I also don’t have the ideal nose shape. I wasn’t really planning on peptides yet I was thinking to wait till I was around 16/17. But I will do what you recommended and softmaxx for now, worry about surgery later.
Gym, regular skincare, Eat cleaner food but still an amount which optimises growth at your age, less sodium, more potassium etc etc to reduce bloating, get regular good long sleep drink as much water per day as possible. basically all looksmaxxing advice you find on this thread would work for you. You mentioned you have experience with women so you're clearly not autistic... just do the soft maxxing and you'll see improvement
Okay I will do what do I do to take full control of my diet though? I keep trying to keep a good diet but keep breaking it to sweets and goyslop I haven’t really been drinking water so I’ll do that aswell. I’ll try to find more advice on the thread although most posts have a lot of people just shitting on others for not being gifted. And yes I have 5 exes obviously not autistic, doing good in school and I was displayed as above average in understanding math and other stuff which is one of the main concepts. Hopefully softmaxxing will save me and hardmaxxing later on will finish the job. Thanks for the advice, appreciate it.
Bro the diet comes back to how bad do you want it. if you want sweets more than wanting to improve your looks there's nothing I can do for you. At your age the focus on water is more imporant, I used to drink like 6 cokes per day through uni no joke, just started having a bottle of water with every other drink I had and wouldn't get another til I fixed it. Have 1/2 a day now and that's purely because it has no negative effects on my appearance. The more you advance in the gym the less you'll want to throw away progress with eating shit. Also building muscle tissue rather than keeping/getting abs. But yeah as far as this forum goes 90% of users are just using this as a platform to vent their incel rage to others on the internet... If anyones a cunt it comes back to their daily life being shit.
You’re right, lately since I’ve been a little more insecure about my looks I have been eating less sweets but I’m starting off slowly, I have the same problem I’m drinking around 2-3 cokes a day and basically no water, will drink more water. Btw I do not live near a gym, I indeed live in the woods and I don’t have a way to get there so should I just run for conditioning And do calisthenics instead of the typical gym stuff?
Honestly could be worse, I don’t think it’s over
Just ate, I see. So I work for the company my parents own and make money off of that and get a weekly allowance so I often do have money and they have a pull up bar and a couple weights. I could use that and make a routine as you said, I’ll check out his account and try to build a good routine hopefully and be consistent. I also play in my schools basketball which could be a use of conditioning. But I’ll update once I’ve consistently worked out, hopefully ascend
Yes sadly there are other clefts who have it worse, and thanks gave me some hope
I’ve heard accutane is like a last resort should I just hop on it or go for the clean diet and a good routine, and hopefully it’s not over
Bro place less emphasis on ascention and more emphasis on what you want from life, although it helps, you're capped by your genetics to some extent and ascention doesn't automatically unlock those things. Some of they may even be able to be unlocked without ascending. Work on that tho... best of luck. Push/Pull/Legs should be your split... basketball is good for cardio. You'll be fine kid, just work at it.Just ate, I see. So I work for the company my parents own and make money off of that and get a weekly allowance so I often do have money and they have a pull up bar and a couple weights. I could use that and make a routine as you said, I’ll check out his account and try to build a good routine hopefully and be consistent. I also play in my schools basketball which could be a use of conditioning. But I’ll update once I’ve consistently worked out, hopefully ascend
clean diet and getting through puberty will fix your skin problems 99% of the time. Your acne isn't even bad enough to deal with accutane and the side effects.I’ve heard accutane is like a last resort should I just hop on it or go for the clean diet and a good routine, and hopefully it’s not over
I understand it’s just hard seeing others with normal features compared to clefts, thinking what it is like to have a normal lip yk. I understand everyone is capped at a certain extent and will try to reach the highest I can, I won’t devour my life with .org obviously I have to live my life outside of this. I currently have a gf so that counts as another priority other than trying to ascend which will take 1+ years and school. The reward for me is being able to atleast be able to love myself and that’s it. How much push/pull/legs do you recommend? In sets, I’ll get right at it once I’m back home.
In the lighting you can’t really see it but my skin has a bunch of red spots like a bunch, but they’re slowly disappearing. I’m not eating as much unhealthy as before and I’m on tretinoin rn idk if it’s cope I’m guessing not cuz prescribed by a dermatologist. Of my acne got worse what point should I actually hop on accutane?
I don't have the time to write you a workout routine bro. someone will have already on this page. follow that. any exercise you can't do on there just google an alternative without the needed equipment. google has 99% of your answers. please only ask about niche things you're unable to google. gl
it’s not over bro u have potential you’re also 14 so you have 5 years to fully develop. gradually make your parents think you’re depressed about the way you look and convince them to pay for surgery.
Fix skin reduce upper eyelid exposure grow hair out (you look like a fucking retard with the fluffy hair) and Start eating only natural foods (organic produce (tomato’s watermelon pineapple grapefruit) and high quality wild caught fish and grass fed beef. Yiu have some pretty good bone mass and at 14 if you eat live foods that will nurture your growing yiu will be a fucking chad regardless of your scars or not. Glyphosate free raw honey is super good has to be unheated though and if you can get it raw kefir raw butter raw cream raw milk raw cheese good luck on your ascension journey bro
Also adding this, if the beef is high quality only a 5 minute sear on each side is nesscary or 10 min Wtv u prefer, but if you get SUPER high quality meat just eat it raw
no photo no care
If you REALLY are subhuman right now then there's nothing you can do. You would be incredibly lucky to even make it to ltn.
