Help with my crush please

[AscendDaily]

I know i kinda blurted out and ur gonna have to decipher, but i need help (i have time as she doent have her phone till sunday afternoon)

• Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
• • Lily
    
    Me
    • Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
    Awhh no worries Sam I like talking to you aswell
• • Me
    
    It’s just I feel like when I talk to you it feels like I’m annoying you and bringing up stuff you don’t want to talk about, I also feel like I make fun of you too much - I don’t mean any of it, just how I engage with people.
• • Lily
    
    Yeah yeah I get that dww
  • It’s only banter
    • 
• • Me
    
    I just wanted to let you know that your one of the best people to be around and no matter what you said I will always be grateful for everything you’ve done for me and I’m sorry I haven’t done enough for you
• • Lily
    
    No no you have dw
    • 
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU DELETED A SNAP
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• May 2
• • Me
    
    Idk what happened with the chat changes lwk
  • Bro ur gonna hate me for this but idc I spent ages writing this in notes and I know I already said all that earlier but my brain is just thinking about stuff so you’re getting a part 2 (start writing this at 1:00 so you better agree with me)I feel like I didn’t even say everything properly before, because it’s not just about you being there for me during a tough time—you’re just genuinely one of the most kind, caring and understanding people I know in general. Like it’s in the way you talk to people, how you actually listen, and how you make everyone feel included without even trying.Even just being around you normally, like in everyday situations, makes things better. You’ve got this really calm, positive energy that just makes people feel comfortable and a bit happier, and I don’t think you even realise you do it. It’s such a natural thing about you and it’s honestly one of the reasons I value having you as a friend so much.I also really respect you as a person. The way you carry yourself and treat others says a lot, and it’s something I notice. You’re just properly genuine, and that’s rare.and honestly I really value what we have as friends, like properly. It just feels easy and real, and I wouldn’t want it to be anything else. It’s one of those friendships I genuinely want to keep for a long time because it actually means something to me.anyway yeah this is such a random late night message but I just felt like you should know that our friendship means a lot to me, more than I probably say out loud. I’m really glad we’re friends
• • Lily
    
    awhh (my name) that’s so sweet
  • I love that
  • Thank you

 

[AscendDaily]

ik ita long but i need help with what all this means

 

[Stargazer]

ik ita long but i need help with what all this means

Put a summary it's too long and confusing.

 

[AscendDaily]

Put a summary it's too long and confusing.

I told her how much I appreciate her and how she really helped me through a tough time, saying she’s kind, genuine, and someone I can rely on. She responded positively and said she likes talking to me too.
I then admitted I sometimes worry that I annoy her or joke too much, but she reassured me it’s just banter and she doesn’t mind. We both reassured each other that we do enough as friends.
Later, I sent a longer message explaining that it’s not just about her helping me—I genuinely think she’s a kind, calm, and caring person who makes people feel comfortable. I said I really value our friendship, that it feels easy and real, and that I want to keep it long-term.
She responded by saying it was really sweet and that she appreciated it.

 

[Stargazer]

I told her how much I appreciate her and how she really helped me through a tough time, saying she’s kind, genuine, and someone I can rely on. She responded positively and said she likes talking to me too.
I then admitted I sometimes worry that I annoy her or joke too much, but she reassured me it’s just banter and she doesn’t mind. We both reassured each other that we do enough as friends.
Later, I sent a longer message explaining that it’s not just about her helping me—I genuinely think she’s a kind, calm, and caring person who makes people feel comfortable. I said I really value our friendship, that it feels easy and real, and that I want to keep it long-term.
She responded by saying it was really sweet and that she appreciated it.

Then what's the issue? Everything sounds nice and sweet.

Unless you want to date her, then get to know her more and spend quality time with her.

 

[AscendDaily]

Then what's the issue? Everything sounds nice and sweet.

Unless you want to date her, then get to know her more and spend quality time with her.

Ik but im scared to ask her to hangout cause we go to a small school if it goes wrong then everyone knows

 

[AscendDaily]

Then what's the issue? Everything sounds nice and sweet.

Unless you want to date her, then get to know her more and spend quality time with her.

i do want to date her but she js broke up with her boyfriend

 

[Stargazer]

i do want to date her but she js broke up with her boyfriend

Don't be the rebound guy who helps her up to find someone better.

Look at her truly objectively, don't lie to yourself. Is she truly someone you want to date?

What are some bad things about her? What is she really like underneath all the false personas?

Truly think this over before pursuing her, and she is not the only girl for you.

Even if it goes wrong, don't devalue yourself and remember you can always try again.

Don't demoralize yourself, you got this man.

 

[AscendDaily]

Don't be the rebound guy who helps her up to find someone better.

Look at her truly objectively, don't lie to yourself. Is she truly someone you want to date?

What are some bad things about her? What is she really like underneath all the false personas?

Truly think this over before pursuing her, and she is not the only girl for you.

Even if it goes wrong, don't devalue yourself and remember you can always try again.

Don't demoralize yourself, you got this man.

only guy ive met here not telling me to kms

 

[Stargazer]

only guy ive met here not telling me to kms

The people on this forum act edgy but most of us are here for the same reason.

We were hurt by how we were treated due to our looks and status. So, we understand each other the most.

I can always lend an ear or a helping hand, because I know how much it hurts to not be seen.

PM me or talk anytime you need something, and I'll gladly help.

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

I know i kinda blurted out and ur gonna have to decipher, but i need help (i have time as she doent have her phone till sunday afternoon)

• Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
• • Lily
    
    Me
    • Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
    Awhh no worries Sam I like talking to you aswell
• • Me
    
    It’s just I feel like when I talk to you it feels like I’m annoying you and bringing up stuff you don’t want to talk about, I also feel like I make fun of you too much - I don’t mean any of it, just how I engage with people.
• • Lily
    
    Yeah yeah I get that dww
  • It’s only banter
    • 
• • Me
    
    I just wanted to let you know that your one of the best people to be around and no matter what you said I will always be grateful for everything you’ve done for me and I’m sorry I haven’t done enough for you
• • Lily
    
    No no you have dw
    • 
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU DELETED A SNAP
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• May 2
• • Me
    
    Idk what happened with the chat changes lwk
  • Bro ur gonna hate me for this but idc I spent ages writing this in notes and I know I already said all that earlier but my brain is just thinking about stuff so you’re getting a part 2 (start writing this at 1:00 so you better agree with me)I feel like I didn’t even say everything properly before, because it’s not just about you being there for me during a tough time—you’re just genuinely one of the most kind, caring and understanding people I know in general. Like it’s in the way you talk to people, how you actually listen, and how you make everyone feel included without even trying.Even just being around you normally, like in everyday situations, makes things better. You’ve got this really calm, positive energy that just makes people feel comfortable and a bit happier, and I don’t think you even realise you do it. It’s such a natural thing about you and it’s honestly one of the reasons I value having you as a friend so much.I also really respect you as a person. The way you carry yourself and treat others says a lot, and it’s something I notice. You’re just properly genuine, and that’s rare.and honestly I really value what we have as friends, like properly. It just feels easy and real, and I wouldn’t want it to be anything else. It’s one of those friendships I genuinely want to keep for a long time because it actually means something to me.anyway yeah this is such a random late night message but I just felt like you should know that our friendship means a lot to me, more than I probably say out loud. I’m really glad we’re friends
• • Lily
    
    awhh (my name) that’s so sweet
  • I love that
  • Thank you

Is your name lily or me

 

[AscendDaily]

my name isn't lily i have just copied the messages from snapchat

Is your name lily or me

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

my name isn't lily i have just copied the messages from snapchat

Lily i think your crush is going to rape you, better learn karate

 

[trvechud]

I know i kinda blurted out and ur gonna have to decipher, but i need help (i have time as she doent have her phone till sunday afternoon)

• Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
• • Lily
    
    Me
    • Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
    Awhh no worries Sam I like talking to you aswell
• • Me
    
    It’s just I feel like when I talk to you it feels like I’m annoying you and bringing up stuff you don’t want to talk about, I also feel like I make fun of you too much - I don’t mean any of it, just how I engage with people.
• • Lily
    
    Yeah yeah I get that dww
  • It’s only banter
    • 
• • Me
    
    I just wanted to let you know that your one of the best people to be around and no matter what you said I will always be grateful for everything you’ve done for me and I’m sorry I haven’t done enough for you
• • Lily
    
    No no you have dw
    • 
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU DELETED A SNAP
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• May 2
• • Me
    
    Idk what happened with the chat changes lwk
  • Bro ur gonna hate me for this but idc I spent ages writing this in notes and I know I already said all that earlier but my brain is just thinking about stuff so you’re getting a part 2 (start writing this at 1:00 so you better agree with me)I feel like I didn’t even say everything properly before, because it’s not just about you being there for me during a tough time—you’re just genuinely one of the most kind, caring and understanding people I know in general. Like it’s in the way you talk to people, how you actually listen, and how you make everyone feel included without even trying.Even just being around you normally, like in everyday situations, makes things better. You’ve got this really calm, positive energy that just makes people feel comfortable and a bit happier, and I don’t think you even realise you do it. It’s such a natural thing about you and it’s honestly one of the reasons I value having you as a friend so much.I also really respect you as a person. The way you carry yourself and treat others says a lot, and it’s something I notice. You’re just properly genuine, and that’s rare.and honestly I really value what we have as friends, like properly. It just feels easy and real, and I wouldn’t want it to be anything else. It’s one of those friendships I genuinely want to keep for a long time because it actually means something to me.anyway yeah this is such a random late night message but I just felt like you should know that our friendship means a lot to me, more than I probably say out loud. I’m really glad we’re friends
• • Lily
    
    awhh (my name) that’s so sweet
  • I love that
  • Thank you

Dnr
All foids are mossad agents
Nhh

 

[AscendDaily]

Lily i think your crush is going to rape you, better learn karate

nigga did u even read what i said

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

nigga did u even read what i said

Lily its ok but the guy ur talking to kinda seems like a faggot he's typing a lot of words, right lily

 

[AscendDaily]

Lily its ok but the guy ur talking to kinda seems like a faggot he's typing a lot of words, right lily

js realised this is ragebait

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

js realised this is ragebait

But still ur overtexting compared 2 her responds. When u 2 talk do u feel more like an older brother or younger brother?

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

js realised this is ragebait

Ay fag respond

 

[AscendDaily]

But still ur overtexting compared 2 her responds. When u 2 talk do u feel more like an older brother or younger brother?

i wish neither but def younger

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

i wish neither but def younger

Yah that's bad always maintain older brother little sister frame(not incest) if u talk like younger she will not like u, as u can't protect her u like older brother

 

[AscendDaily]

Yah that's bad always maintain older brother little sister frame(not incest) if u talk like younger she will not like u, as u can't protect her u like older brother

how (can you link some threads to read tn)

 

[yex]

I really value what we have as friends

she hates you
ignore her and move on

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

how (can you link some threads to read tn)

https://rumble.com/v5k8csp-dateiq-masterclass-new-chapter-out-today.html

4 Hours 7 minutes

 

[Galvatron]

What does N-O spell?

 

[AscendDaily]

What does N-O spell?

idk what ur trying to say

 

[Knight]

I know i kinda blurted out and ur gonna have to decipher, but i need help (i have time as she doent have her phone till sunday afternoon)

• Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
• • Lily
    
    Me
    • Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
    Awhh no worries Sam I like talking to you aswell
• • Me
    
    It’s just I feel like when I talk to you it feels like I’m annoying you and bringing up stuff you don’t want to talk about, I also feel like I make fun of you too much - I don’t mean any of it, just how I engage with people.
• • Lily
    
    Yeah yeah I get that dww
  • It’s only banter
    • 
• • Me
    
    I just wanted to let you know that your one of the best people to be around and no matter what you said I will always be grateful for everything you’ve done for me and I’m sorry I haven’t done enough for you
• • Lily
    
    No no you have dw
    • 
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU DELETED A SNAP
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• May 2
• • Me
    
    Idk what happened with the chat changes lwk
  • Bro ur gonna hate me for this but idc I spent ages writing this in notes and I know I already said all that earlier but my brain is just thinking about stuff so you’re getting a part 2 (start writing this at 1:00 so you better agree with me)I feel like I didn’t even say everything properly before, because it’s not just about you being there for me during a tough time—you’re just genuinely one of the most kind, caring and understanding people I know in general. Like it’s in the way you talk to people, how you actually listen, and how you make everyone feel included without even trying.Even just being around you normally, like in everyday situations, makes things better. You’ve got this really calm, positive energy that just makes people feel comfortable and a bit happier, and I don’t think you even realise you do it. It’s such a natural thing about you and it’s honestly one of the reasons I value having you as a friend so much.I also really respect you as a person. The way you carry yourself and treat others says a lot, and it’s something I notice. You’re just properly genuine, and that’s rare.and honestly I really value what we have as friends, like properly. It just feels easy and real, and I wouldn’t want it to be anything else. It’s one of those friendships I genuinely want to keep for a long time because it actually means something to me.anyway yeah this is such a random late night message but I just felt like you should know that our friendship means a lot to me, more than I probably say out loud. I’m really glad we’re friends
• • Lily
    
    awhh (my name) that’s so sweet
  • I love that
  • Thank you

tldr

 

[Galvatron]

idk what ur trying to say

NOOOOOOOOO

 

[Alexg_lover]

Dude this is confusing ash, like what are you even writing. Are these just drafts for a message or have the first ones been sent?

i do want to date her but she js broke up with her boyfriend

I told her how much I appreciate her and how she really helped me through a tough time, saying she’s kind, genuine, and someone I can rely on. She responded positively and said she likes talking to me too.
I then admitted I sometimes worry that I annoy her or joke too much, but she reassured me it’s just banter and she doesn’t mind. We both reassured each other that we do enough as friends.
Later, I sent a longer message explaining that it’s not just about her helping me—I genuinely think she’s a kind, calm, and caring person who makes people feel comfortable. I said I really value our friendship, that it feels easy and real, and that I want to keep it long-term.
She responded by saying it was really sweet and that she appreciated it.

Okay with more context I feel like I understand the situation a little. more. Bro I mean the complement shower seems kinda cuck inducing ngl. I mean I have not had a girlfriend ever, so take this with a grain of salt, but I have experience being rejected jfl I mean it mostly just comes down to looks, so its important that you're honest with yourself and make sure that you're essentially a looksmax. If not, then this current approach deff wont work at least, because you seem extreamely soy with the way you're writing. Even if you think everything you write, you don't have to share EVERYTHING. You need to seem like you care less. Also, I would prbably wait a little after they have broke up.... like that makes you seem extreamely desperate, especially with your current approach. I obviously don't want you to change the way you act, like all of that hard to get bs is super corny, but there is still some point where it becomes too mcuh.

Why would you ask a social reject / incel forum this though? Like surely there are better places to ask this

 

[AscendDaily]

Dude this is confusing ash, like what are you even writing. Are these just drafts for a message or have the first ones been sent?


Okay with more context I feel like I understand the situation a little. more. Bro I mean the complement shower seems kinda cuck inducing ngl. I mean I have not had a girlfriend ever, so take this with a grain of salt, but I have experience being rejected jfl I mean it mostly just comes down to looks, so its important that you're honest with yourself and make sure that you're essentially a looksmax. If not, then this current approach deff wont work at least, because you seem extreamely soy with the way you're writing. Even if you think everything you write, you don't have to share EVERYTHING. You need to seem like you care less. Also, I would prbably wait a little after they have broke up.... like that makes you seem extreamely desperate, especially with your current approach. I obviously don't want you to change the way you act, like all of that hard to get bs is super corny, but there is still some point where it becomes too mcuh.

Why would you ask a social reject / incel forum this though? Like surely there are better places to ask this

I have no other place and surprisingly most of them have been chill and helpful