[High effort GTFIH] How to bag the foid you're obsessing over | Dedicated stalkers edition

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Neccesary informations :

Who is this guide intended for?: This guide is intended for people whose main goal is to bag the foid they've always wanted to bag and who are willing to put in a considerable amount of effort.
Who is this guide not intended for?: This guide is not intended for pussies who are unwilling to put in the necessary effort to achieve their goals, or for those who are delusional and want to bag a celebrity.

Important information:
This action plan can be applied in two different ways, depending on two different situations:
1. If the girl lives far away from you (or even in another country) -> [CASE 1]
2. If the girl lives relatively close to you -> [CASE 2]

Without further do, let's get into the guide:



0) Purpose
The objective of this guide is simple:
to be at the same social event (hangouts, parties, etc.) as the girl of your dreams so that you can begin a relationship.

​


1) Study

Gathering information about the girl of your dreams is crucial to approaching her properly and is even necessary for the next steps of the plan.​

1.1) Gather all social media accounts

[CASE 1&2]
The first step is to identify all of her accounts across every social media platform.
These accounts will be the source of all the information required to successfully carry out the plan.
The use of OSINT tools is possible, but generally not necessary at this stage.

1.2) Find her location ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
It is now time to use the accounts you found to determine the girl’s city of residence. Unfortunately, the success of this step depends on how much information she posts on her accounts. The way to find clues will vary from one girl to another, so no general rule can be established here.
If the girl posts photos or videos in a city you recognize, do not immediately assume that it is her city of residence. She should appear there in photos posted at different time intervals before you can reasonably consider it a potential place of residence.

1.3) Close friends +their hangout spots identification

[CASE 1&2]
According to my calculations, your chances are higher with a girl if she meets you through her close friends because, from her perspective, you will have already passed her friends “filter”, that is exactly why you should become friends with her friends before meeting her.
To do this, identify her close friends through her social media following lists or other sources (tiktoks she made with her friends etc...). At this point, it is important to understand that you will need to analyze these people’s profiles in order to maximize your chances of forming a friendship with them. Identify their interests, opinions, etc..

[CASE 1]
Once this step is complete, you will need to identify the places where her friends regularly meet so that you can meet them in person. Trying to become friends with them online can be difficult, which is why we'll try to meet them irl so, identify the places where they regularly meet and move on to the next step.

1.4) Identification of her tastes in men

[CASE 1&2]
This is an obvious and crucial part for anyone looking to seduce a girl.
Inb4 “muhh, Chad doesn’t need to know what her type is.” Guess what: you’re not Chad. That’s why you need to use the principle of nichemaxxing: losing the interest of the majority of women in order to gain the interest of a very specific minority. It’s a high iq concept because you won’t be able to appeal to everyone anyway.
Here’s how to do it: there are three ways:
  • Look at her tiktok reposts.
  • Look at who she follows.
  • Identify facial patterns among her exes (difficult to determine, but effective).



2) Setup

This step consists of maximizing your SMV and generally preparing yourself for the first meeting with her friends.​

2.1) Moneymaxxing

[CASE 1]
This step is mandatory. Moneymaxxing will not only increase your smv, but will also allow you to move to her city. There are hundreds of ways to make money, and that is not the purpose of this guide, so we will not go into detail about it. As for the amount, it depends on the situation, so I will also leave that decision up to you.

[CASE 2]
This step is not mandatory. Moneymaxxing will most likely increase your smv, but it is not 100% necessary to carry out the plan. I would say that it is always preferable to moneymaxx at this stage.
I think you should make your decision based on the girl’s age: if you are minors, moneymaxxing is not necessary because, at that age, financial stability is not a major factor. However, if you are adults, money obviously becomes much more important.

2.2) Looksmaxxing based on step 1.4

[CASE 1&2]
This is a fairly easy step. As mentioned previously, the goal of this chapter is to maximize your smv.
Here, you need to maximize your appearance based on the research you conducted in step 1.4. The process is simple:
  1. Identify all the flaws in your face (a flaw here is considered a difference between you and the ideal male face based on your pheno) and make a list of them.
  2. Research solutions for each flaw using various resources online (especially BOTB on this forum).
  3. Implement these solutions on a daily basis.
  4. Gather feedback and adjust accordingly.
  5. Nichemaxx: Make small adjustments that matches the type of guy she is attracted to, as identified in step 1.4. For example, if she likes blue eyes and blue eyes suit you, consider buying blue contact lenses.



3) Get to action​

3.1) Move in her city ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
This is the step where you take the biggest risks. Book a hotel room or airbnb in her city of residence for a period of two weeks to one month, consider it a vacation.

3.2) Make her friends your friends

[CASE 1]
Finally, we have reached the point where mistakes are not an option. The goal of this step is to meet her friends in person while making it seem like a chance encounter, and to build a friendship with them so that you can later use those connections to create a meeting between you and the girl.
To do this, you will need to be at the place and time where they usually meet. It may take several attempts before you finally see them. Once they arrive, go up to them and find an excuse to start a conversation, for example, “Im traveling here, do you know the city well?” or some bullshit like that.
Then, use the information you gathered about her friends during the research phase to build a friendship with them. You need to make them laugh and find common interests. By the end of the hangout, you should have:
  • Added them on social media.
  • Planned another hangout together.
Continue the conversation on social media and do as much as possible to become friends with them. Remember that the goal here is to create mutual friends between you and her.
[CASE 2]
This step will require a long and considerable amount of social effort. The use of medication is recommended if you're high inhib.
The goal of this step is to navigate from contact to contact until you reach the girl’s close social circle.
  • If the girl attends the same school as you or a nearby school, this step will be easy. Simply socialize with as many people as possible and attend as many events as possible until you become friends with her close friends.
  • If the girl lives in another city near yours, you will need to navigate through extrascholar connections. The process is similar: socialize with as many people as possible in your city. If your two cities are relatively close and you are good at navigating different friend groups, you will eventually start interacting with the same people.

3.3) Wait for an opportunity

[CASE 1&2]
The final step, and the easiest one: wait.
“Why should I wait?” It’s simple: wait for fate to bring you together. There will inevitably be a time when her friends, and therefore your friends organize an event where she will be present. When that day comes, you will need to use the information you previously gathered about her to try to bag her. The rest is in your hands.



Conclusion and insights :

This was my first guide reflecting my strategy. I understand that my perspective may be flawed, and if that is the case, I invite you to provide constructive criticism of the points in my guide that you disagree with, with a certain level of respect obviously.
Thank you for reading this far, and I hope some of you will use this guide for the better.

TL;DR: max out your smv and get into the same social circle as her :lul:
 
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Neccesary informations :

Who is this guide intended for?: This guide is intended for people whose main goal is to bag the foid they've always wanted to bag and who are willing to put in a considerable amount of effort.
Who is this guide not intended for?: This guide is not intended for pussies who are unwilling to put in the necessary effort to achieve their goals, or for those who are delusional and want to bag a celebrity.

Important information:
This action plan can be applied in two different ways, depending on two different situations:
1. If the girl lives far away from you (or even in another country) -> [CASE 1]
2. If the girl lives relatively close to you -> [CASE 2]

Without further do, let's get into the guide:



0) Purpose
The objective of this guide is simple:
to be at the same social event (hangouts, parties, etc.) as the girl of your dreams so that you can begin a relationship.

​


1) Study

Gathering information about the girl of your dreams is crucial to approaching her properly and is even necessary for the next steps of the plan.​

1.1) Gather all social media accounts

[CASE 1&2]
The first step is to identify all of her accounts across every social media platform.
These accounts will be the source of all the information required to successfully carry out the plan.
The use of OSINT tools is possible, but generally not necessary at this stage.

1.2) Find her location ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
It is now time to use the accounts you found to determine the girl’s city of residence. Unfortunately, the success of this step depends on how much information she posts on her accounts. The way to find clues will vary from one girl to another, so no general rule can be established here.
If the girl posts photos or videos in a city you recognize, do not immediately assume that it is her city of residence. She should appear there in photos posted at different time intervals before you can reasonably consider it a potential place of residence.

1.3) Close friends +their hangout spots identification

[CASE 1&2]
According to my calculations, your chances are higher with a girl if she meets you through her close friends because, from her perspective, you will have already passed her friends “filter”, that is exactly why you should become friends with her friends before meeting her.
To do this, identify her close friends through her social media following lists or other sources (tiktoks she made with her friends etc...). At this point, it is important to understand that you will need to analyze these people’s profiles in order to maximize your chances of forming a friendship with them. Identify their interests, opinions, etc..

[CASE 1]
Once this step is complete, you will need to identify the places where her friends regularly meet so that you can meet them in person. Trying to become friends with them online can be difficult, which is why we'll try to meet them irl so, identify the places where they regularly meet and move on to the next step.

1.4) Identification of her tastes in men

[CASE 1&2]
This is an obvious and crucial part for anyone looking to seduce a girl.
Inb4 “muhh, Chad doesn’t need to know what her type is.” Guess what: you’re not Chad. That’s why you need to use the principle of nichemaxxing: losing the interest of the majority of women in order to gain the interest of a very specific minority. It’s a high iq concept because you won’t be able to appeal to everyone anyway.
Here’s how to do it: there are three ways:
  • Look at her tiktok reposts.
  • Look at who she follows.
  • Identify facial patterns among her exes (difficult to determine, but effective).



2) Setup

This step consists of maximizing your SMV and generally preparing yourself for the first meeting with her friends.​

2.1) Moneymaxxing

[CASE 1]
This step is mandatory. Moneymaxxing will not only increase your smv, but will also allow you to move to her city. There are hundreds of ways to make money, and that is not the purpose of this guide, so we will not go into detail about it. As for the amount, it depends on the situation, so I will also leave that decision up to you.

[CASE 2]
This step is not mandatory. Moneymaxxing will most likely increase your smv, but it is not 100% necessary to carry out the plan. I would say that it is always preferable to moneymaxx at this stage.
I think you should make your decision based on the girl’s age: if you are minors, moneymaxxing is not necessary because, at that age, financial stability is not a major factor. However, if you are adults, money obviously becomes much more important.

2.2) Looksmaxxing based on step 1.4

[CASE 1&2]
This is a fairly easy step. As mentioned previously, the goal of this chapter is to maximize your smv.
Here, you need to maximize your appearance based on the research you conducted in step 1.4. The process is simple:
  1. Identify all the flaws in your face (a flaw here is considered a difference between you and the ideal male face based on your pheno) and make a list of them.
  2. Research solutions for each flaw using various resources online (especially BOTB on this forum).
  3. Implement these solutions on a daily basis.
  4. Gather feedback and adjust accordingly.
  5. Nichemaxx: Make small adjustments that matches the type of guy she is attracted to, as identified in step 1.4. For example, if she likes blue eyes and blue eyes suit you, consider buying blue contact lenses.



3) Get to action​

3.1) Move in her city ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
This is the step where you take the biggest risks. Book a hotel room or airbnb in her city of residence for a period of two weeks to one month, consider it a vacation.

3.2) Make her friends your friends

[CASE 1]
Finally, we have reached the point where mistakes are not an option. The goal of this step is to meet her friends in person while making it seem like a chance encounter, and to build a friendship with them so that you can later use those connections to create a meeting between you and the girl.
To do this, you will need to be at the place and time where they usually meet. It may take several attempts before you finally see them. Once they arrive, go up to them and find an excuse to start a conversation, for example, “Im traveling here, do you know the city well?” or some bullshit like that.
Then, use the information you gathered about her friends during the research phase to build a friendship with them. You need to make them laugh and find common interests. By the end of the hangout, you should have:
  • Added them on social media.
  • Planned another hangout together.
Continue the conversation on social media and do as much as possible to become friends with them. Remember that the goal here is to create mutual friends between you and her.
[CASE 2]
This step will require a long and considerable amount of social effort. The use of medication is recommended if you're high inhib.
The goal of this step is to navigate from contact to contact until you reach the girl’s close social circle.
  • If the girl attends the same school as you or a nearby school, this step will be easy. Simply socialize with as many people as possible and attend as many events as possible until you become friends with her close friends.
  • If the girl lives in another city near yours, you will need to navigate through extrascholar connections. The process is similar: socialize with as many people as possible in your city. If your two cities are relatively close and you are good at navigating different friend groups, you will eventually start interacting with the same people.

3.3) Wait for an opportunity

[CASE 1&2]
The final step, and the easiest one: wait.
“Why should I wait?” It’s simple: wait for fate to bring you together. There will inevitably be a time when her friends, and therefore your friends organize an event where she will be present. When that day comes, you will need to use the information you previously gathered about her to try to bag her. The rest is in your hands.



Conclusion and insights :

This was my first guide reflecting my strategy. I understand that my perspective may be flawed, and if that is the case, I invite you to provide constructive criticism of the points in my guide that you disagree with, with a certain level of respect obviously.
Thank you for reading this far, and I hope some of you will use this guide for the better.

TL;DR: max out your smv and get into the same social circle as her :lul:
This was actually a good read ngl
 
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Neccesary informations :

Who is this guide intended for?: This guide is intended for people whose main goal is to bag the foid they've always wanted to bag and who are willing to put in a considerable amount of effort.
Who is this guide not intended for?: This guide is not intended for pussies who are unwilling to put in the necessary effort to achieve their goals, or for those who are delusional and want to bag a celebrity.

Important information:
This action plan can be applied in two different ways, depending on two different situations:
1. If the girl lives far away from you (or even in another country) -> [CASE 1]
2. If the girl lives relatively close to you -> [CASE 2]

Without further do, let's get into the guide:



0) Purpose
The objective of this guide is simple:
to be at the same social event (hangouts, parties, etc.) as the girl of your dreams so that you can begin a relationship.

​


1) Study

Gathering information about the girl of your dreams is crucial to approaching her properly and is even necessary for the next steps of the plan.​

1.1) Gather all social media accounts

[CASE 1&2]
The first step is to identify all of her accounts across every social media platform.
These accounts will be the source of all the information required to successfully carry out the plan.
The use of OSINT tools is possible, but generally not necessary at this stage.

1.2) Find her location ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
It is now time to use the accounts you found to determine the girl’s city of residence. Unfortunately, the success of this step depends on how much information she posts on her accounts. The way to find clues will vary from one girl to another, so no general rule can be established here.
If the girl posts photos or videos in a city you recognize, do not immediately assume that it is her city of residence. She should appear there in photos posted at different time intervals before you can reasonably consider it a potential place of residence.

1.3) Close friends +their hangout spots identification

[CASE 1&2]
According to my calculations, your chances are higher with a girl if she meets you through her close friends because, from her perspective, you will have already passed her friends “filter”, that is exactly why you should become friends with her friends before meeting her.
To do this, identify her close friends through her social media following lists or other sources (tiktoks she made with her friends etc...). At this point, it is important to understand that you will need to analyze these people’s profiles in order to maximize your chances of forming a friendship with them. Identify their interests, opinions, etc..

[CASE 1]
Once this step is complete, you will need to identify the places where her friends regularly meet so that you can meet them in person. Trying to become friends with them online can be difficult, which is why we'll try to meet them irl so, identify the places where they regularly meet and move on to the next step.

1.4) Identification of her tastes in men

[CASE 1&2]
This is an obvious and crucial part for anyone looking to seduce a girl.
Inb4 “muhh, Chad doesn’t need to know what her type is.” Guess what: you’re not Chad. That’s why you need to use the principle of nichemaxxing: losing the interest of the majority of women in order to gain the interest of a very specific minority. It’s a high iq concept because you won’t be able to appeal to everyone anyway.
Here’s how to do it: there are three ways:
  • Look at her tiktok reposts.
  • Look at who she follows.
  • Identify facial patterns among her exes (difficult to determine, but effective).



2) Setup

This step consists of maximizing your SMV and generally preparing yourself for the first meeting with her friends.​

2.1) Moneymaxxing

[CASE 1]
This step is mandatory. Moneymaxxing will not only increase your smv, but will also allow you to move to her city. There are hundreds of ways to make money, and that is not the purpose of this guide, so we will not go into detail about it. As for the amount, it depends on the situation, so I will also leave that decision up to you.

[CASE 2]
This step is not mandatory. Moneymaxxing will most likely increase your smv, but it is not 100% necessary to carry out the plan. I would say that it is always preferable to moneymaxx at this stage.
I think you should make your decision based on the girl’s age: if you are minors, moneymaxxing is not necessary because, at that age, financial stability is not a major factor. However, if you are adults, money obviously becomes much more important.

2.2) Looksmaxxing based on step 1.4

[CASE 1&2]
This is a fairly easy step. As mentioned previously, the goal of this chapter is to maximize your smv.
Here, you need to maximize your appearance based on the research you conducted in step 1.4. The process is simple:
  1. Identify all the flaws in your face (a flaw here is considered a difference between you and the ideal male face based on your pheno) and make a list of them.
  2. Research solutions for each flaw using various resources online (especially BOTB on this forum).
  3. Implement these solutions on a daily basis.
  4. Gather feedback and adjust accordingly.
  5. Nichemaxx: Make small adjustments that matches the type of guy she is attracted to, as identified in step 1.4. For example, if she likes blue eyes and blue eyes suit you, consider buying blue contact lenses.



3) Get to action​

3.1) Move in her city ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
This is the step where you take the biggest risks. Book a hotel room or airbnb in her city of residence for a period of two weeks to one month, consider it a vacation.

3.2) Make her friends your friends

[CASE 1]
Finally, we have reached the point where mistakes are not an option. The goal of this step is to meet her friends in person while making it seem like a chance encounter, and to build a friendship with them so that you can later use those connections to create a meeting between you and the girl.
To do this, you will need to be at the place and time where they usually meet. It may take several attempts before you finally see them. Once they arrive, go up to them and find an excuse to start a conversation, for example, “Im traveling here, do you know the city well?” or some bullshit like that.
Then, use the information you gathered about her friends during the research phase to build a friendship with them. You need to make them laugh and find common interests. By the end of the hangout, you should have:
  • Added them on social media.
  • Planned another hangout together.
Continue the conversation on social media and do as much as possible to become friends with them. Remember that the goal here is to create mutual friends between you and her.
[CASE 2]
This step will require a long and considerable amount of social effort. The use of medication is recommended if you're high inhib.
The goal of this step is to navigate from contact to contact until you reach the girl’s close social circle.
  • If the girl attends the same school as you or a nearby school, this step will be easy. Simply socialize with as many people as possible and attend as many events as possible until you become friends with her close friends.
  • If the girl lives in another city near yours, you will need to navigate through extrascholar connections. The process is similar: socialize with as many people as possible in your city. If your two cities are relatively close and you are good at navigating different friend groups, you will eventually start interacting with the same people.

3.3) Wait for an opportunity

[CASE 1&2]
The final step, and the easiest one: wait.
“Why should I wait?” It’s simple: wait for fate to bring you together. There will inevitably be a time when her friends, and therefore your friends organize an event where she will be present. When that day comes, you will need to use the information you previously gathered about her to try to bag her. The rest is in your hands.



Conclusion and insights :

This was my first guide reflecting my strategy. I understand that my perspective may be flawed, and if that is the case, I invite you to provide constructive criticism of the points in my guide that you disagree with, with a certain level of respect obviously.
Thank you for reading this far, and I hope some of you will use this guide for the better.

TL;DR: max out your smv and get into the same social circle as her :lul:
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Neccesary informations :

Who is this guide intended for?: This guide is intended for people whose main goal is to bag the foid they've always wanted to bag and who are willing to put in a considerable amount of effort.
Who is this guide not intended for?: This guide is not intended for pussies who are unwilling to put in the necessary effort to achieve their goals, or for those who are delusional and want to bag a celebrity.

Important information:
This action plan can be applied in two different ways, depending on two different situations:
1. If the girl lives far away from you (or even in another country) -> [CASE 1]
2. If the girl lives relatively close to you -> [CASE 2]

Without further do, let's get into the guide:



0) Purpose
The objective of this guide is simple:
to be at the same social event (hangouts, parties, etc.) as the girl of your dreams so that you can begin a relationship.

​


1) Study

Gathering information about the girl of your dreams is crucial to approaching her properly and is even necessary for the next steps of the plan.​

1.1) Gather all social media accounts

[CASE 1&2]
The first step is to identify all of her accounts across every social media platform.
These accounts will be the source of all the information required to successfully carry out the plan.
The use of OSINT tools is possible, but generally not necessary at this stage.

1.2) Find her location ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
It is now time to use the accounts you found to determine the girl’s city of residence. Unfortunately, the success of this step depends on how much information she posts on her accounts. The way to find clues will vary from one girl to another, so no general rule can be established here.
If the girl posts photos or videos in a city you recognize, do not immediately assume that it is her city of residence. She should appear there in photos posted at different time intervals before you can reasonably consider it a potential place of residence.

1.3) Close friends +their hangout spots identification

[CASE 1&2]
According to my calculations, your chances are higher with a girl if she meets you through her close friends because, from her perspective, you will have already passed her friends “filter”, that is exactly why you should become friends with her friends before meeting her.
To do this, identify her close friends through her social media following lists or other sources (tiktoks she made with her friends etc...). At this point, it is important to understand that you will need to analyze these people’s profiles in order to maximize your chances of forming a friendship with them. Identify their interests, opinions, etc..

[CASE 1]
Once this step is complete, you will need to identify the places where her friends regularly meet so that you can meet them in person. Trying to become friends with them online can be difficult, which is why we'll try to meet them irl so, identify the places where they regularly meet and move on to the next step.

1.4) Identification of her tastes in men

[CASE 1&2]
This is an obvious and crucial part for anyone looking to seduce a girl.
Inb4 “muhh, Chad doesn’t need to know what her type is.” Guess what: you’re not Chad. That’s why you need to use the principle of nichemaxxing: losing the interest of the majority of women in order to gain the interest of a very specific minority. It’s a high iq concept because you won’t be able to appeal to everyone anyway.
Here’s how to do it: there are three ways:
  • Look at her tiktok reposts.
  • Look at who she follows.
  • Identify facial patterns among her exes (difficult to determine, but effective).



2) Setup

This step consists of maximizing your SMV and generally preparing yourself for the first meeting with her friends.​

2.1) Moneymaxxing

[CASE 1]
This step is mandatory. Moneymaxxing will not only increase your smv, but will also allow you to move to her city. There are hundreds of ways to make money, and that is not the purpose of this guide, so we will not go into detail about it. As for the amount, it depends on the situation, so I will also leave that decision up to you.

[CASE 2]
This step is not mandatory. Moneymaxxing will most likely increase your smv, but it is not 100% necessary to carry out the plan. I would say that it is always preferable to moneymaxx at this stage.
I think you should make your decision based on the girl’s age: if you are minors, moneymaxxing is not necessary because, at that age, financial stability is not a major factor. However, if you are adults, money obviously becomes much more important.

2.2) Looksmaxxing based on step 1.4

[CASE 1&2]
This is a fairly easy step. As mentioned previously, the goal of this chapter is to maximize your smv.
Here, you need to maximize your appearance based on the research you conducted in step 1.4. The process is simple:
  1. Identify all the flaws in your face (a flaw here is considered a difference between you and the ideal male face based on your pheno) and make a list of them.
  2. Research solutions for each flaw using various resources online (especially BOTB on this forum).
  3. Implement these solutions on a daily basis.
  4. Gather feedback and adjust accordingly.
  5. Nichemaxx: Make small adjustments that matches the type of guy she is attracted to, as identified in step 1.4. For example, if she likes blue eyes and blue eyes suit you, consider buying blue contact lenses.



3) Get to action​

3.1) Move in her city ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
This is the step where you take the biggest risks. Book a hotel room or airbnb in her city of residence for a period of two weeks to one month, consider it a vacation.

3.2) Make her friends your friends

[CASE 1]
Finally, we have reached the point where mistakes are not an option. The goal of this step is to meet her friends in person while making it seem like a chance encounter, and to build a friendship with them so that you can later use those connections to create a meeting between you and the girl.
To do this, you will need to be at the place and time where they usually meet. It may take several attempts before you finally see them. Once they arrive, go up to them and find an excuse to start a conversation, for example, “Im traveling here, do you know the city well?” or some bullshit like that.
Then, use the information you gathered about her friends during the research phase to build a friendship with them. You need to make them laugh and find common interests. By the end of the hangout, you should have:
  • Added them on social media.
  • Planned another hangout together.
Continue the conversation on social media and do as much as possible to become friends with them. Remember that the goal here is to create mutual friends between you and her.
[CASE 2]
This step will require a long and considerable amount of social effort. The use of medication is recommended if you're high inhib.
The goal of this step is to navigate from contact to contact until you reach the girl’s close social circle.
  • If the girl attends the same school as you or a nearby school, this step will be easy. Simply socialize with as many people as possible and attend as many events as possible until you become friends with her close friends.
  • If the girl lives in another city near yours, you will need to navigate through extrascholar connections. The process is similar: socialize with as many people as possible in your city. If your two cities are relatively close and you are good at navigating different friend groups, you will eventually start interacting with the same people.

3.3) Wait for an opportunity

[CASE 1&2]
The final step, and the easiest one: wait.
“Why should I wait?” It’s simple: wait for fate to bring you together. There will inevitably be a time when her friends, and therefore your friends organize an event where she will be present. When that day comes, you will need to use the information you previously gathered about her to try to bag her. The rest is in your hands.



Conclusion and insights :

This was my first guide reflecting my strategy. I understand that my perspective may be flawed, and if that is the case, I invite you to provide constructive criticism of the points in my guide that you disagree with, with a certain level of respect obviously.
Thank you for reading this far, and I hope some of you will use this guide for the better.

TL;DR: max out your smv and get into the same social circle as her :lul:
This has to do alot with Osint, OP I recommend checking out my osint guide, its very indepth and will help you find almost anything

But good guide, I learned a gfew new things
 
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Kys then how is this repfarming
Because you’re blatantly copying someone else’s thread acting as if it’s some high effort shit you wrote yourself. If you did, miring.
 
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Because you’re blatantly copying someone else’s thread acting as if it’s some high effort shit you wrote yourself. If you did, miring.
Please send me the thread you think I copied, I litterally took 2 hours writing this yesterday
 
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Please send me the thread you think I copied, I litterally took 2 hours writing this yesterday
Wait, did the guy on TikTok steal your thread? If so my apologies :feelskek: I’ll try and find it.
 
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For all those who think I copied someone else’s work, I didn’t. It literally came out of my 140 iq brain. In fact, I already applied this method a few years ago.
 
Neccesary informations :

Who is this guide intended for?: This guide is intended for people whose main goal is to bag the foid they've always wanted to bag and who are willing to put in a considerable amount of effort.
Who is this guide not intended for?: This guide is not intended for pussies who are unwilling to put in the necessary effort to achieve their goals, or for those who are delusional and want to bag a celebrity.

Important information:
This action plan can be applied in two different ways, depending on two different situations:
1. If the girl lives far away from you (or even in another country) -> [CASE 1]
2. If the girl lives relatively close to you -> [CASE 2]

Without further do, let's get into the guide:



0) Purpose
The objective of this guide is simple:
to be at the same social event (hangouts, parties, etc.) as the girl of your dreams so that you can begin a relationship.

​


1) Study

Gathering information about the girl of your dreams is crucial to approaching her properly and is even necessary for the next steps of the plan.​

1.1) Gather all social media accounts

[CASE 1&2]
The first step is to identify all of her accounts across every social media platform.
These accounts will be the source of all the information required to successfully carry out the plan.
The use of OSINT tools is possible, but generally not necessary at this stage.

1.2) Find her location ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
It is now time to use the accounts you found to determine the girl’s city of residence. Unfortunately, the success of this step depends on how much information she posts on her accounts. The way to find clues will vary from one girl to another, so no general rule can be established here.
If the girl posts photos or videos in a city you recognize, do not immediately assume that it is her city of residence. She should appear there in photos posted at different time intervals before you can reasonably consider it a potential place of residence.

1.3) Close friends +their hangout spots identification

[CASE 1&2]
According to my calculations, your chances are higher with a girl if she meets you through her close friends because, from her perspective, you will have already passed her friends “filter”, that is exactly why you should become friends with her friends before meeting her.
To do this, identify her close friends through her social media following lists or other sources (tiktoks she made with her friends etc...). At this point, it is important to understand that you will need to analyze these people’s profiles in order to maximize your chances of forming a friendship with them. Identify their interests, opinions, etc..

[CASE 1]
Once this step is complete, you will need to identify the places where her friends regularly meet so that you can meet them in person. Trying to become friends with them online can be difficult, which is why we'll try to meet them irl so, identify the places where they regularly meet and move on to the next step.

1.4) Identification of her tastes in men

[CASE 1&2]
This is an obvious and crucial part for anyone looking to seduce a girl.
Inb4 “muhh, Chad doesn’t need to know what her type is.” Guess what: you’re not Chad. That’s why you need to use the principle of nichemaxxing: losing the interest of the majority of women in order to gain the interest of a very specific minority. It’s a high iq concept because you won’t be able to appeal to everyone anyway.
Here’s how to do it: there are three ways:
  • Look at her tiktok reposts.
  • Look at who she follows.
  • Identify facial patterns among her exes (difficult to determine, but effective).



2) Setup

This step consists of maximizing your SMV and generally preparing yourself for the first meeting with her friends.​

2.1) Moneymaxxing

[CASE 1]
This step is mandatory. Moneymaxxing will not only increase your smv, but will also allow you to move to her city. There are hundreds of ways to make money, and that is not the purpose of this guide, so we will not go into detail about it. As for the amount, it depends on the situation, so I will also leave that decision up to you.

[CASE 2]
This step is not mandatory. Moneymaxxing will most likely increase your smv, but it is not 100% necessary to carry out the plan. I would say that it is always preferable to moneymaxx at this stage.
I think you should make your decision based on the girl’s age: if you are minors, moneymaxxing is not necessary because, at that age, financial stability is not a major factor. However, if you are adults, money obviously becomes much more important.

2.2) Looksmaxxing based on step 1.4

[CASE 1&2]
This is a fairly easy step. As mentioned previously, the goal of this chapter is to maximize your smv.
Here, you need to maximize your appearance based on the research you conducted in step 1.4. The process is simple:
  1. Identify all the flaws in your face (a flaw here is considered a difference between you and the ideal male face based on your pheno) and make a list of them.
  2. Research solutions for each flaw using various resources online (especially BOTB on this forum).
  3. Implement these solutions on a daily basis.
  4. Gather feedback and adjust accordingly.
  5. Nichemaxx: Make small adjustments that matches the type of guy she is attracted to, as identified in step 1.4. For example, if she likes blue eyes and blue eyes suit you, consider buying blue contact lenses.



3) Get to action​

3.1) Move in her city ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
This is the step where you take the biggest risks. Book a hotel room or airbnb in her city of residence for a period of two weeks to one month, consider it a vacation.

3.2) Make her friends your friends

[CASE 1]
Finally, we have reached the point where mistakes are not an option. The goal of this step is to meet her friends in person while making it seem like a chance encounter, and to build a friendship with them so that you can later use those connections to create a meeting between you and the girl.
To do this, you will need to be at the place and time where they usually meet. It may take several attempts before you finally see them. Once they arrive, go up to them and find an excuse to start a conversation, for example, “Im traveling here, do you know the city well?” or some bullshit like that.
Then, use the information you gathered about her friends during the research phase to build a friendship with them. You need to make them laugh and find common interests. By the end of the hangout, you should have:
  • Added them on social media.
  • Planned another hangout together.
Continue the conversation on social media and do as much as possible to become friends with them. Remember that the goal here is to create mutual friends between you and her.
[CASE 2]
This step will require a long and considerable amount of social effort. The use of medication is recommended if you're high inhib.
The goal of this step is to navigate from contact to contact until you reach the girl’s close social circle.
  • If the girl attends the same school as you or a nearby school, this step will be easy. Simply socialize with as many people as possible and attend as many events as possible until you become friends with her close friends.
  • If the girl lives in another city near yours, you will need to navigate through extrascholar connections. The process is similar: socialize with as many people as possible in your city. If your two cities are relatively close and you are good at navigating different friend groups, you will eventually start interacting with the same people.

3.3) Wait for an opportunity

[CASE 1&2]
The final step, and the easiest one: wait.
“Why should I wait?” It’s simple: wait for fate to bring you together. There will inevitably be a time when her friends, and therefore your friends organize an event where she will be present. When that day comes, you will need to use the information you previously gathered about her to try to bag her. The rest is in your hands.



Conclusion and insights :

This was my first guide reflecting my strategy. I understand that my perspective may be flawed, and if that is the case, I invite you to provide constructive criticism of the points in my guide that you disagree with, with a certain level of respect obviously.
Thank you for reading this far, and I hope some of you will use this guide for the better.

TL;DR: max out your smv and get into the same social circle as her :lul:
Good one
 
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Neccesary informations :

Who is this guide intended for?: This guide is intended for people whose main goal is to bag the foid they've always wanted to bag and who are willing to put in a considerable amount of effort.
Who is this guide not intended for?: This guide is not intended for pussies who are unwilling to put in the necessary effort to achieve their goals, or for those who are delusional and want to bag a celebrity.

Important information:
This action plan can be applied in two different ways, depending on two different situations:
1. If the girl lives far away from you (or even in another country) -> [CASE 1]
2. If the girl lives relatively close to you -> [CASE 2]

Without further do, let's get into the guide:



0) Purpose
The objective of this guide is simple:
to be at the same social event (hangouts, parties, etc.) as the girl of your dreams so that you can begin a relationship.

​


1) Study

Gathering information about the girl of your dreams is crucial to approaching her properly and is even necessary for the next steps of the plan.​

1.1) Gather all social media accounts

[CASE 1&2]
The first step is to identify all of her accounts across every social media platform.
These accounts will be the source of all the information required to successfully carry out the plan.
The use of OSINT tools is possible, but generally not necessary at this stage.

1.2) Find her location ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
It is now time to use the accounts you found to determine the girl’s city of residence. Unfortunately, the success of this step depends on how much information she posts on her accounts. The way to find clues will vary from one girl to another, so no general rule can be established here.
If the girl posts photos or videos in a city you recognize, do not immediately assume that it is her city of residence. She should appear there in photos posted at different time intervals before you can reasonably consider it a potential place of residence.

1.3) Close friends +their hangout spots identification

[CASE 1&2]
According to my calculations, your chances are higher with a girl if she meets you through her close friends because, from her perspective, you will have already passed her friends “filter”, that is exactly why you should become friends with her friends before meeting her.
To do this, identify her close friends through her social media following lists or other sources (tiktoks she made with her friends etc...). At this point, it is important to understand that you will need to analyze these people’s profiles in order to maximize your chances of forming a friendship with them. Identify their interests, opinions, etc..

[CASE 1]
Once this step is complete, you will need to identify the places where her friends regularly meet so that you can meet them in person. Trying to become friends with them online can be difficult, which is why we'll try to meet them irl so, identify the places where they regularly meet and move on to the next step.

1.4) Identification of her tastes in men

[CASE 1&2]
This is an obvious and crucial part for anyone looking to seduce a girl.
Inb4 “muhh, Chad doesn’t need to know what her type is.” Guess what: you’re not Chad. That’s why you need to use the principle of nichemaxxing: losing the interest of the majority of women in order to gain the interest of a very specific minority. It’s a high iq concept because you won’t be able to appeal to everyone anyway.
Here’s how to do it: there are three ways:
  • Look at her tiktok reposts.
  • Look at who she follows.
  • Identify facial patterns among her exes (difficult to determine, but effective).



2) Setup

This step consists of maximizing your SMV and generally preparing yourself for the first meeting with her friends.​

2.1) Moneymaxxing

[CASE 1]
This step is mandatory. Moneymaxxing will not only increase your smv, but will also allow you to move to her city. There are hundreds of ways to make money, and that is not the purpose of this guide, so we will not go into detail about it. As for the amount, it depends on the situation, so I will also leave that decision up to you.

[CASE 2]
This step is not mandatory. Moneymaxxing will most likely increase your smv, but it is not 100% necessary to carry out the plan. I would say that it is always preferable to moneymaxx at this stage.
I think you should make your decision based on the girl’s age: if you are minors, moneymaxxing is not necessary because, at that age, financial stability is not a major factor. However, if you are adults, money obviously becomes much more important.

2.2) Looksmaxxing based on step 1.4

[CASE 1&2]
This is a fairly easy step. As mentioned previously, the goal of this chapter is to maximize your smv.
Here, you need to maximize your appearance based on the research you conducted in step 1.4. The process is simple:
  1. Identify all the flaws in your face (a flaw here is considered a difference between you and the ideal male face based on your pheno) and make a list of them.
  2. Research solutions for each flaw using various resources online (especially BOTB on this forum).
  3. Implement these solutions on a daily basis.
  4. Gather feedback and adjust accordingly.
  5. Nichemaxx: Make small adjustments that matches the type of guy she is attracted to, as identified in step 1.4. For example, if she likes blue eyes and blue eyes suit you, consider buying blue contact lenses.



3) Get to action​

3.1) Move in her city ([CASE 1] only)

[CASE 1]
This is the step where you take the biggest risks. Book a hotel room or airbnb in her city of residence for a period of two weeks to one month, consider it a vacation.

3.2) Make her friends your friends

[CASE 1]
Finally, we have reached the point where mistakes are not an option. The goal of this step is to meet her friends in person while making it seem like a chance encounter, and to build a friendship with them so that you can later use those connections to create a meeting between you and the girl.
To do this, you will need to be at the place and time where they usually meet. It may take several attempts before you finally see them. Once they arrive, go up to them and find an excuse to start a conversation, for example, “Im traveling here, do you know the city well?” or some bullshit like that.
Then, use the information you gathered about her friends during the research phase to build a friendship with them. You need to make them laugh and find common interests. By the end of the hangout, you should have:
  • Added them on social media.
  • Planned another hangout together.
Continue the conversation on social media and do as much as possible to become friends with them. Remember that the goal here is to create mutual friends between you and her.
[CASE 2]
This step will require a long and considerable amount of social effort. The use of medication is recommended if you're high inhib.
The goal of this step is to navigate from contact to contact until you reach the girl’s close social circle.
  • If the girl attends the same school as you or a nearby school, this step will be easy. Simply socialize with as many people as possible and attend as many events as possible until you become friends with her close friends.
  • If the girl lives in another city near yours, you will need to navigate through extrascholar connections. The process is similar: socialize with as many people as possible in your city. If your two cities are relatively close and you are good at navigating different friend groups, you will eventually start interacting with the same people.

3.3) Wait for an opportunity

[CASE 1&2]
The final step, and the easiest one: wait.
“Why should I wait?” It’s simple: wait for fate to bring you together. There will inevitably be a time when her friends, and therefore your friends organize an event where she will be present. When that day comes, you will need to use the information you previously gathered about her to try to bag her. The rest is in your hands.



Conclusion and insights :

This was my first guide reflecting my strategy. I understand that my perspective may be flawed, and if that is the case, I invite you to provide constructive criticism of the points in my guide that you disagree with, with a certain level of respect obviously.
Thank you for reading this far, and I hope some of you will use this guide for the better.

TL;DR: max out your smv and get into the same social circle as her :lul:
said by a hmtn btw
 
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if you not mtn you shouldnt even try
 

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